When a woman listens to you, tell her you appreciate it. Saying it out loud signals that her effort matters and makes her feel valued, which strengthens the connection between you.
If she's taking the time to truly listen to you, that says a lot. Everyone wants to feel listened to, right? So let her know that you appreciate that. It's going to matter to her because it's going to show her that it's important to you and in a way that she's important to you. So it sounds simple, but it's very impactful, and it's going to help her want to continue to be attentive to you in that way.
