Coach MelannieDating and relationship coach for single Christian men

Women INSTANTLY Notice This About Men... 😏 #datingtips

1 Aug 2025 · 1 min

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In this segment, the speaker emphasizes that women quickly detect whether a man is genuinely listening or merely waiting for his turn to speak. Genuine listening creates a feeling of being understood, which the speaker describes as a powerful, attractive masculine trait. The speaker also highlights that recalling and mentioning small personal details a woman shares—such as her favorite band or color—significantly boosts a man's attractiveness and earns him "major points" in the interaction.

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The next thing women instantly notice about you is whether you actually listen or if you're just waiting to talk, waiting for your turn to talk. She can instantly tell if she's trying to chat with you, she's trying to connect with you, and you're just waiting for your turn. Or if you're actually listening to her. And the feeling of an attractive, strong, masculine man actually listening to you is magical. Everyone wants to feel listened to and understood. This is true for her as well. The men who know how to listen and help her feel understood have a very special kind of superpower. And remembering the small details that she shares earn you major points. So, like, if you— because you are listening to the conversation, you learn her favorite band or her favorite color or something and you mention it later on, that is huge.