A strong first impression comes from being an engaging conversationalist, not looks. Boring interactions kill attraction, but fun and intriguing dialogue makes someone want to stick around. The emotional experience you create is what people remember.
The next way to make a stellar first impression is to be someone who's interesting to talk to. Make sure you know how to carry on a good conversation. It's hard to feel attracted to someone that you feel really awkward talking with. Pretty much if things feel awkward, it's just pretty much hard to feel attracted. The same is true with someone who's boring. It's very difficult to feel prolonged attraction for somebody who's boring. However, someone who's fun to talk to, we could spend time with all all day long. We just don't quite want it to end, right? I'm sure you've experienced this with people in your life as well. Remember, we just talked about the way you make people feel is so much more important than the way you look. The way you make her feel is what she's going to remember the most. So when you're someone who knows how to have a good conversation, you know how to make it engaging and intriguing and how to have the conversation feel relaxed yet interesting, you are delightful to talk to. And this is simply a skill that everyone can learn. None of us are born knowing how to talk. That's something we all have to learn. So understanding how to use your words to have an interesting conversation is simply a skill you can learn.
