A man facing job loss or uncertainty can rebuild by doing two things: clearly identify what he wants, then take small daily actions toward it. Consistency rebuilds confidence and clarifies direction.
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So talking to a couple of guys this morning, and there's a lot of guys going through hard times, and I'm trying to boil it down to make it as simple as possible for them as to where to get started. Because sometimes just getting started is the hardest part. And ultimately it boils down to 2 really simple things to get started. What do you want, and are your actions showing that? If you can nail down like Really nail down what it is that you want and just start taking small actions to work towards it, it's going to make a huge difference in the long run. It's going to start to give you that confidence. It's going to start to give you a little bit more of your identity. It's going to start to flesh out the bigger picture for you, which for a lot of guys going through hard times, that can be really difficult to do. So, if you're a guy that's going through trouble right now, if you're going through a hard time, you lost your job, midlife, whatever it is, Start with what you want. Be honest with yourself. Be honest about what you really genuinely want, and then start to take small steps towards it.