You're never too busy if you block time for everything that matters: family, dates, friendships, rest, work. A planner eliminates reactive decisions and lets you show up fully to a child's play, a date with your spouse, or a call with a friend across the world without guilt.
This is a very good question. One of the things I would say is that have a planner. Have time for everything. Have time for everything. It doesn't matter how busy you are. I never hear somebody say, oh my gosh, I was so busy I didn't brush my teeth. You have time to brush your teeth. So technically you can't be too busy. You manage the time. When somebody say, well, I'm sorry, man, I'm so busy, I didn't get a chance to call you. I just know that you are telling me you're not important. I didn't have time for you. You was not on my list. But if I have you on my list, I'll have time for you. So, I could never tell my wife or my kids, guys, I'm sorry, I don't have time for you guys. If I say I was busy, that means I'm saying I don't have time for you. So, you're saying that if you're busy, you don't have time for your kids? So if my child have a play in school, I have that on my calendar. It doesn't matter what I'm doing. When that time come, I shut it down and go and do that work. If I have a date with my wife, I don't care how much money I'm going to make. I shut it down and go and have a date. That's it. So when if you start when I start develop that, I I can notice that I'm having. Problem with time management. If I, if I can't spend time with my friend because I'm busy, I'm so busy with business, what's wrong with me? I need to enjoy my friend, so I need to block a time for that. That's why you need to block a time for everything in your life. You have to organize your time. If you, you know, you have 24 hours, you have to have a time to go sleep, time to spend with your family, time to spend with your friend, time to focus on a business, time for Personal growth, time for you know that you even sit down and do nothing. You have to block that time. You know, you you have to be very intentional when it comes to your time. You don't react. A lot of time we just react. Something happened and now you react. No no no no no no. You program the time and then leave the time. And when you do that, you have time for everybody. I have time on my schedule to talk with my friend back even in Africa. So that time when that time come, I jump on WhatsApp and I'm chatting with them. I don't care if you scream on me for business. No, that's not the time to do business. This is a time to just relax with my friend. We talk about, you know, when he was little. We just talk about everything and ask about, hey, how's this neighbor? How's that neighbor stay there? Oh my God, he's still— so That's what makes life, the whole life. But if you don't do that, you'll be reacting. You'll be reacting. You know, so this— what you can really use to answer that will be time management, pretty much. Just plan your time ahead of time. Don't react. Know what you do. Today, I know exactly what I was going to be doing now. That's why I didn't plan anything else. If you come to visit me or for anything, you call me, I'm not going to answer my phone because this time was blocked for this thing. So I'm not worried. I know exactly, and I have something that I would do after this. So I can't just carry this program now all the way to tomorrow morning because it's fun, man, it's good. Let me stay. No. Mm-hmm. At the end of the time, I shut it down and then go move on to something else. So when you do that, you really, really will spend and enjoy your family because you have time for them and you're not going to be even stressed out. People who are always stressed out is because they didn't plan their day, they didn't plan their week, they didn't plan their month, so they don't know what's going to happen. But when you plan, you know exactly what you're going to do. If my child say, hey Dad, I'm bored, let's do something. I'll say, okay, we do it Saturday. You know, Saturday is yours. So I'm not going to be stressed out and feel like, oh God, I my kids are not getting my attention. I know Saturday is for that. Whatever you want us to do, we'll do it. So I think people just have to plan their day and whatever they are involved in in their life and make a time for that. Thank you.
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