The five erotic blueprints are Energetic (anticipation and sensory tease), Sexual (penetration and orgasm), Kinky (taboo and edge), and Shapeshifter (attracted to all experiences). Recognizing your blueprint can reveal intimacy resources and improve communication with a partner.
Tell me about the erotic blueprints. How many are there? And just give me the one sentence overview of each.
Yeah, there's five erotic blueprints. The energetic is someone who's turned on by anticipation, space, tease, longing, yearning, not having the thing essentials turned on by all of their senses being ignited. So that's taste, touch, smell, closeness, eating something delicious. Uh, the sexual is what we think of as sex in our culture. Penetration, nudity, orgasms. And then we go to the kinky. And the kinky is what we've been talking about. It's the taboo. So it's that edge for you personally. And then the final one's a shapeshifter, and that's someone who's turned on by all of it. To the shadow side of the shapeshifter is that they shapeshift all the time to please other people.
It sort of unlocks this idea that, wow, I never recognized that pattern in myself. Now that I know the pattern, I know the areas where I can likely mine to find the richness and my intimacy, and then I can ask my partner for it.
