This is a YouTube video titled "How to last longer in bed." It contains a discussion between two speakers about techniques to delay ejaculation and improve sexual endurance. The content is instructional and focuses on physiological and psychological strategies for lasting longer during sex. There is no indication that Alicia Mackey Huber is one of the speakers.
How can guys watching this last longer? Because a lot of guys are one minute pumpers out here.
So about eight seconds or so before you're going to ejaculate, there's a switch that gets thrown in your brain and you're like, I'm not going to come, I'm not going to come. And then like, it's the best idea ever. We've all felt that. All guys have. And then you're done. Like, why did I do that? I said I wasn't going to. It's your body taking over, saying, it's like, you better do this. And it's wired in to keep the species alive, to make sure there's going to be babies. So about eight seconds before you're going to feel it, and what you do is you have to relax the muscles around your butthole. Or if you realize that you know you're getting close, you do the physical movements that would come with ejaculation. And that sends a body a signal that says, oh, I guess I must have already done it. And then it backs off. Tell your partner, I will only come when you tell me to. Because as soon as you take your own ego out of the decision loop, it's very, very easy to hold off. So then you can just. Your work, you just kind of stop worrying about it. But if you tell yourself you're in charge of it, you're constantly kind of trying to convince yourself that it's a good time.
