In this monologue, Ramon Hervey II discusses how the rapid, viral nature of social media amplifies impulsive, unverified statements, making them permanent parts of a person's public legacy. He warns that a single visceral comment can be recorded, shared, and revisited for years, damaging reputation and credibility if not backed by evidence. He emphasizes the need for thoughtful, authentic communication, urging speakers to ensure they fully understand and can substantiate their positions before speaking, as delayed responses can reduce impact while immediate, ill‑considered remarks can haunt them indefinitely. The talk highlights the pressure on public figures, especially young people, to balance timely responses with careful deliberation to maintain authenticity and long‑term reputation.
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If you can avoid being impulsive and having a sincere, authentic response to something in your own life that you are being confronted with and, you know, all the information so that when you make this statement, nothing can come back to haunt you. That's, you know, because now in social media, you know, when I started in a business, you know, nothing could happen in, in a matter of seconds. Today, with social media, a visceral response to anything that you say can be reported on and spread across the, you know, in seconds, in a matter of seconds, one statement. And if it's a misstatement, you can't ever take that back, you know, so it's very, we're very. Because of the social media and the Internet, I think you really have to be very careful about what you advocate for or against what you say. And can you live by, do you know enough about what you're saying to make that statement and back it up in perpetuity? Because it will haunt you, not only in the immediate time, but it'll. They'll come back and throw that in you, which happens all the time now. Well, you know, two years ago you said this, you know, but so it becomes embedded in your legacy. And if you are making these kinds of errors or impulsive proclamations and they're not supported by evidence or by truth, then you're building a reputation for not really being authentic or not being wise or not being knowledgeable about what you're speaking on. And I think that those are things that you. And the other thing is that you don't, you don't have as much time to decide on what you're going to do. So if you're being accused of something, and it's not like the law or someone says you did this or you did that, if the longer you wait to make a statement, the harder it is to have a positive impact with whatever you say. That's an interesting, interesting little hack that I didn't know about.
