Helping People Buy Houses & Changing a Diaper both take Initiative

25 May 2026 · 1 min
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In this brief anecdote, Derek McGowan describes how his partner—characterized as warm, nurturing, and "nurse‑like"—insisted that he learn to change a diaper before she left for a few weeks. He recounts that previously she had handled diaper changes, but she told him it was his turn to take responsibility, emphasizing that no one else would teach him and that he needed to step up now. The forced, hands‑on experience serves as a concrete illustration of taking initiative and being prepared for future responsibilities, a theme he later connects to the broader context of helping people buy houses, where proactive action and readiness are equally essential.

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