Personal growth happens when you stay true to yourself under pressure from someone you love. The speaker cites David Schnarz on how intimacy can drive growth or conflict, and argues that most performance coaching eventually becomes relationship coaching.
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The first thing is like how can you turn stress into competitive advantage? Second is make pleasure a priority. But then the third thing I think and that is the thing that at the end when people come to me, very often it's for performance enhancement and stress release. But then in the end I'm actually working a lot as a relationship coach because that's where very often it lies. And I see it as the fast act of personal growth because when you can do it, when you can hold on to yourself under the pressure of your partner that you love deeply to compromise, well, compromise is okay. But when you keep compromising until you compromise yourself, then we have a problem. So I love the way Dr. David Schnarz, he said he passed away last year put it, he says, like we have it's like very relationship many relationships we have an idea of intimacy like this. I meet somebody that I like, okay, I'm wine, you beer.