Two people talk about why we reject opportunities that come our way. One describes missing a chance because of insecurity and fear, unable to recognize what was happening. Emotional blind spots and self-protection keep us from seeing what's actually in front of us.
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I'll tell you where. Okay. Because I just, I want to highlight it because as, as you're telling the story, it's like, don't we all at some point seek that kind of safety and we push against an opportunity when it's there and it's like, I just want to like shine a spotlight on that. Going where in each of our lives have we ever like, tried to torch the opportunity that was handed to us?
Right? So, so first of all, I didn't, I didn't see it as I was looking down at it. I did not have the skill sets to understand or process what I was going through emotionally. This conversation, that was a big part of the problem. Right? So I'm seeing through this lens of my own insecurity, my own fear, my own narcissism. Like I'm looking through a lens that's allowing me to see this in a certain way.