Occasional fights aren't bad for relationships. What matters is what you're really fighting about: power, closeness, or respect. The health of your relationship depends on how you repair after conflict, not whether you have it.
Is it good or bad for a relationship to have a fight from time to time?
Oh, it's a must. I think relationships follow a cycle of harmony, disharmony, and repair. The question is not so much the fighting, the question is really the repair. What they're fighting about is not the towel or the bathroom. What they're fighting about are actually 3 key groups of themes that are underneath those plotlines: power and control, closeness and care, and respect and Recognition.
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