Evan CarmichaelSpeaker / Author / Introvert

How to Train Your Mind for Real Love | BREAKING the Old Relationship Rules

21 Apr 2023 · 1 min

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Love doesn't just happen; it's built step by step with intention. Real relationships require conscious effort to navigate two minds at once, not the effortless perfection we're sold. There are useful rules that help couples survive inevitable conflicts and disagreements.

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I think we live in this perception where we believe that if we wish, if we want, if we wait, love will arrive fully formed, when in fact it's really about intentionally building it step by step. And I'm usually one for breaking rules, but I believe that there are rules of love that actually help us navigate the challenges, to prepare for the imperfections, to accept that there will be conflict, there will be breakdowns, there will be disagreements. Often We think that love is perfect and that love is easy and that love should just flow. And that's true, it can be that way, but we often forget the difference between a relationship with yourself and a relationship with someone else is that you go from dealing with one mind to dealing with two minds.