Evan Carmichael argues that real persistence means valuing effort itself, not outcomes or recognition. When you detach from results and focus on doing your best, you keep your self-respect even when things fail. John Wooden called this success: peace of mind from the work itself.
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The effort is enough. In life, there will be times when we do everything right, perhaps even perfectly, yet the results will somehow be negative. Failure, disrespect, jealousy, or even a resounding yawn from the world. Depending on what motivates us, this response can be crushing. When someone works on a project, whether it's a book or a business or even his or her own behavior, at a certain point, that thing leaves their hands and enters the realm of the world. It is judged, received, and acted on by other people. It stops being something he controls and it depends on them. Will we work hard for something that can be taken away from us? Will we invest time and energy even if an outcome is not guaranteed? With the right motives, we're willing to proceed. With ego, we're not. We have only minimal control over the rewards for our work and effort. Other people's validation, recognition, rewards. So what are we gonna do? Not be kind? Not work hard? Not produce because there's a chance it would be reciprocated? Come on. Think of all the activists who will find that they can only advance their cause so far. The leaders who are assassinated before their work is done. The inventors whose ideas languish ahead of their time. According to society's main metrics, these people were not rewarded for their work. Should they have not done it? If that is your attitude, how do you intend to endure tough times? What if you're ahead of the times? What if the market favors some bogus trend? What if your boss or your clients don't understand? It's far better when doing good work is sufficient. In other words, the less attached we are to the outcomes, the better. When fulfilling our own standards is what fills us with pride and self-respect. When the effort, not the results, good or bad, is enough. With ego, this is not nearly sufficient. No, we need to be recognized. We need to be compensated. Especially problematic is the fact that often we get that. We are praised, we are paid, and we start to assume the two things always go together. The expectation hangover inevitably ensues. Well, get ready for it. It will happen. Maybe your parents will never be impressed. Maybe your girlfriend won't care. Maybe the inventor won't see the numbers. Maybe the audience won't clap. But we have to be able to push through. We can't let that be what motivates us. You will be unappreciated. You will be sabotaged. You will experience surprising failures. Your expectations will not be met. You will lose. You will fail. How do you carry on then? How do you take pride in yourself and your work? John Wooden's advice to his players says it: change the definition of success. Success is peace of mind, which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you made the effort to do your best to become the best that you are capable of becoming. Do your work, do it well, then let go. That's all there needs to be. Recognition and rewards, those are just extra. Rejection, that's on them, not us. Ego, it seems, is a precursor not just to miserable failure, but to being miserable when we inevitably do fail. We need you to be strong. More, we need you to be good and honorable and loyal, whether the incentives align with it or not, because it's the right thing to do, because doing it is enough. The effort is enough.
