A woman describes the moment a partner asked what she wanted sexually, realizing she'd never asked herself. The question opened a door to self-discovery, revealing how disconnected she'd become from her own body and desires.
We were about to be intimate for the first time. He asked me what I wanted and what I liked, started being curious about me. And I had never had a person be curious about me like that. And then I realized, I went into complete shock, and I realized I had never asked myself those questions. It was like this snowball effect that completely destroyed me at the beginning, and then this evolution started toward coming back to my body. All that to say is that he became the doorway into my body because he reflected all the places I had neglected myself.
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