FROM BEING BROKE TO MILLIONAIRE FT.@TheOccultAcademyHubChanging Lives With Tarot Cards | CONVO EP.14

Intuition is a part of us. We are all intuitive, we are all creative, clear about it. That Jahamiri respect me, it literally restored.

My faith in life and love.

We can create our own future relationship is not such a joke. It. It has a lot of expectations. The fears within you comes from the subconscious energy. A lot of young girls I meet these days are like, ma', am, I don't want to get married. I'm scared to get married. Guilty.

You know, in this chaotic world, sometimes you meet a person who just restores your faith and love. Their courage, their charismatic personality and just the way they perceive the world, it changes something inside you. And no, I'm not talking about any guy here. I'm talking about a today's guest. And this is how I felt when I met her the first time. She is Harpreet Kaur. She is an eminent tarot card reader and one of the ambassadors of women empowerment. In my eyes she is an award winning celebrity coach who's helping women change their lives and become independent by learning and teaching tarot. She is an astrologist, a psychic, a numerologist and an amazing personality. The way she impacts people's lives is. Is impeccable. And her crazy inspiring story, the way she lives her life, her whole lifestyle and the way she conducts herself, the way she speaks, Damn, I love everything about her. So if you are also intrigued to know what value she has to offer, do watch the podcast till the end. If you are interested in tarot card reading or any kind of sciences that can help you balance your emotions and lifestyle, then do watch it and let me know. What did you learn in the comments? This is the first part of a two part series with Harpreets ma'. Am. And trust me when I say this halfway through the episode, you will already be waiting for the second part. I think this is one of the most deepest conversations I've had in my life. So this podcast will definitely make you dive deeper into what goes through your subconscious mind, what are your fears and what's stopping you in achieving your goals. But it will also give you the solutions. So do watch till the end. And this time I want you to type in the comments what went through your heart and mind while you were watching it. So let's begin. A lot of value. Wow. Moments and goosebumps are waiting for you ahead. This one is gonna be one of the bests. Do watch it and let me know how you felt. Hello Arpreet ma'. Am. Welcome to convo with Aish. And firstly, I'm very grateful that you agreed to this. I really thought you wouldn't. Thank you.

There's nothing like that to disagree. Ayushi, you are a wonderful soul and it's so good to connect with you here. Thank you for inviting me. Thank you for this privilege.

Okay. Oh my God.

Thank you.

It's actually honoring and humbling for me. So distraction. Because it is so inspiring. And the first time I saw you and I met you, it literally restored my faith in life and love specifically. So I really want first of all start with your amazing story so that we get to know you a little bit better.

Thank you so much. Ayushi. I'll try to keep it short and simple because I know it's a very long story. We all have stories and I'm just probably blessed today to share mine. I'm sure we all coming from different families and different situations have stories. So mine is a very simple story of a simple girl who has been brought up in a very, very strict family. And like I always say, and I laugh it out, that my father was nothing less than a Hitler. And I always say like that. And I always wanted to marry my dream boy with this thing in my head. Of course I got married in 2005 to an army officer. But the way I thought marriage would be, it turned out to be completely different. I married a guy who was very, very organized, highly disciplined, very strict and always serious. So love never happened that he was very, very organized and disciplined into his life. However, you know, because with such people, you know, it's very difficult to connect. So. But it was in completely arranged marriage. So you can imagine, you know, so I was trying to adjust. Six months of our marriage I conceived and within one year plus my son was born. And that was like something that again, that was one of my dream. I used to love children and when my son was born, I was like the most happiest person on the earth. Life started going ahead because, you know, once you have children, you get so busy along with them, bringing them up. And you know, army life keeps you busy. You have parties to attend, you have a lot of social responsibilities when you're part of the army life. And I never realized that actually both of us were not sharing a bond. And at one point one of us I think would have taken resident to move on. 20111011 we were posted in Ladakh and I just got to know that, you know, he's talking to one of his ex batchmate and that was the break, break even point that, you know, I could not take it Honestly, no woman can take her husband talking to another woman. And that is where things started getting really bad. 11 year I tried enough to tell him to leave her to get things in order, but it did not happen. And then I decided to, you know, separate with the child. With hardly any money in my hand, I was dependent. I used to work in schools, but not too much of salary. I was financially dependent. I had a child. I came back to Delhi and of course when I decided to take this decision as a family, my mother was concerned about my son and she felt that I should not go ahead with that decision. But I was, you know, rigid about it and I was clear about it that Jahamiri respect me. And because of this Mary or Mary mom and I decided to move to one, to a house. So I took a rented house, rented accommodation with my son. Again challenges begin because I had no money. As I said, I was financially dependent. Gold, whatever I had, I had to sell it off. But I had to sell it off for my child, for his future. That is when the struggle started off realizing that I need to do something. So starting from school jobs where I was actually suffering, I was not happy because you know, wherever I used to work, they used to not give me a good salary. And also, you know, teach. They always had clashes with the principals. I don't know why they were after me. I think they knew that I need the job so they would do anything to trouble me.

Highly relatable.

I think people who are simple always have problems with the principles of the school. Right. Anyways, so I was really struggling coming back home, crying, disturbed, not happy in school life already, you know, my house is at a mess. Were like, you know. But I cannot do a full time job like with a child. It's next to impossible. I don't have anyone to manage him. So struggling. But I. One thing that I've. Since my childhood, even when I. I had a strict childhood, I had a very disturbed childhood. Also I have this tendency to think beyond it, to think what can I do to change it? And that was spirit of, you know, I kept going to think what else can I do? So I was trying to figure out different career options. And I still remember I used to go to a tarot card reader, you know, like we all do that, you know. When I was going through a tough time, I started visiting her. I used to question her, what's my future? What am I doing? Where do I go? And we all get, when we get into trouble, we find one person to go to.

Yeah.

So one fine day, she told me that, you know, why don't you learn tarot? And I still remember that day. I was like, you know, how can I, as a normal person, learn tarot? Because that time, tarot was not such a big thing. And for me, it was something that. That maybe psychic people can read. Maybe people who have those intuitive powers can read. Who am I to read? Like, I was just thinking that I have no idea about what is this about? And then she told me, you know, all this is a myth. Anyone can read. You just have to have that integrity, have that ethicality as a reader. I feel that with your experiences, you can really help a lot of people. And, you know, like, I thought.

At this point, what was the age of your son?

I think he was around 5 or 6. Oh, my God.

That's really young.

Yeah, he was very young. And I was like, that's what I was just struggling around. Like, what do I. How do I go ahead with this? And that is when I just thought. And then the only good thing that I had is that by the time I had a good circle, I, you know, I was active on Facebook. I started getting back to all my friends. Friends, because I was looking out for help or jobs. So by the time I had created a good circle. So when I told all my friends that I've learned tarot, they really helped me by, you know, by sending it to their friends, by telling their friends to, you know, take readings from me. And that's how they helped me. And I started getting readings immediately, as soon as I finished it. And because I had to do something, I also immediately started taking actions. Yes. And I cannot tell you that I actually realized that, you know, sitting at home with my child, I was actually. I started earning more than what I was getting in my school job. And not only this, the kind of respect and the blessing that I was looking for, you know, because again, in school. So for me, respect is the most important thing. You know, if you don't respect me, I would not be happy. Even. Even if you offer me, like, a good amount of income at home. You're doing. I'm doing this. People are coming back to me. They're thanking me. They are blessing me. And, you know, I also. I don't know why, but I started getting a lot of women who were going through the same trouble in their life. You know, they were going through an abusive marriage. They were going through a marriage where husbands would not respect them. But the only question was, I cannot take this decision because I have A child because I am financially dependent and because I have no support from the family. These three reasons were majorly a part of their problem. Right. And I would just come to them, you know, because I think they might not listen. I think that is when they used to get inspired a lot. Yes.

Examples are always better than suggestions.

Yes. Yes. So I think that is what inspired them. And I started realizing that, why am I here? I actually started realizing that why am I doing this today? And that is when eventually, you know, I also, of course, after lot of experiences into reading, people started asking me to start teaching, you know, teaching them tarot. And that's when tarot coaching started. And since then, there has been no looking back. My mission is very simple. I only teach women. I only want to work on women. And tarot for me is a tool to just reach them, to guide them to how they can be financially, mentally and emotionally independent, how they can work on this subconscious healing, how they can work into creating a journey of self respect and self reliance. And so that's about it. And of course, I want to tell you that I'm married for the second time. And I'm really, really blessed that I have a guy in my life who I met when I was going through this troubled time. He's my friend, used to work together in college during my college time, and I met him again through Facebook, I think. So this was destiny. And he came into my life as a blessing and he's been with my pillar. And we both are working together now and we are living a very happy life. My son is the head boy of the school. Yeah. So this is how life changed. I think this is all the blessing of tarot also, as I feel that since it has come to my house, my life has changed completely.

Okay, so earlier you mentioned about the image of your dream boy. So does he match the description now?

Yeah, I think, you know, for me, who is a hero? A hero is someone who saves you from any problem that you're going through. And, you know, a hero. I still remember Salman Khan movies that we used to watch and we used to feel our hero, of course, from the point of looks and from the point of. So obviously when I was going through my tough time and when there was no one that was with me actually, and he came into my life to help me, support me, stand by me, even I, you know, even I was going through depression at that point of. This is something I've not mentioned to a lot of people when I was going through this time of living all Alone, without my family, without my mother, without my sister, and you know, dealing with my child and trying to give him the best of life. I didn't really realize that I was going into depression and he met me at the time that I was a disaster, you know, because I would actually scream at him. I would actually get very angry at times. But he stood by me no matter what happened. My divorce took a lot of time to, you know, get over, but he was there with me as my pillow. And so I think, yes, for me, that's a true hero to who stood by me in my toughest of time and being with me throughout my journey.

Wow. I want to give a special salute to Abhishek sir because this is generally a huge thing because when you are a mess, you actually push people away and to stick through that person is a big thing.

It's a big thing actually when you're going through such a time too.

Amazing. So this is actually the thing. When I see your post, your photos and your chemistry together is so nice. So this is what like Ye Hai couple girls?

Absolutely. And I think there is nothing called a perfect couple. It's good to be imperfect as a couple, but it's good to accept each other, adjust with each other, learn to love each other is what a perfect couple is.

Wow, brilliantly put. Okay, so now let's start from the very beginning. So if you can just describe what kind of a science is this or is this something else and where does it come from?

So, you know, everything we look around is an energy, right? And today what you say is magic is tomorrow's signs, you know, like for example, You know, this is absolutely impossible for them. It would have been more like a magic. And then, you know, airplane were invented. Right. So tarot is a magical journey. Today what you think is magic can be tomorrow's science. And this is a magical journey which help you to actually reach out to people and to help and guide them. So one thing that I always feel is that tarot is a tool for guidance and counseling and not prediction. It came into our life at a time when people started realizing that, you know, with cards especially, I'm sure you, you play cards at home, right? So there was a time that people started feeling that they can be used to read and they can be used as divination tool to help people. And that was the idea to create tarot decks. Right. So this is. This was created in 1909, Johamara first day one of the first deck was original right away.

Very recent.

Yes. It's very recent and it's a very, very Western concept. Right. And still a lot of people are still trying to make it very Indian concept by saying how, you know, I think we need to always understand. It's a very Westernized concept that came. And the mindset was very clear that with this tool, we can actually reach people's subconscious self and help them and guide them. As we always remember that we are the creator of our own life. And let's not forget that we can create our own future. And we need to start believing this more instead of asking. We need to understand, Right? So tarot is something that will help you figure out that you know it help you to know what you are doing, what is your present energy, where are you really going wrong, what is that you really need to guide? And how can you create the future that you want to create? So that is why tarot came into existence. And since then, while you say that, not a lot of people know, but I feel that, yes, this was true. Now it is evolving. I think every second person is doing. Doing tarot and every second person is learning tarot. And there are many people who are taking tarot card readings, you know, so it's become a popular tool now. And people are really liking this advanced way of reading where you're not predicting, you're guiding. I'm sure prediction and guidance is a huge difference because prediction sometimes can be scary. Like, you know, when. When you hear terms like, you know, sometimes you do get scared, right? But you. If you get to understand that you create your own future and, you know, with Tarot, you can actually help yourself to create a future that you really want in your. So that is a better way of reading. Yeah.

Amazing. That is a great myth that you cleared right at the beginning. So thank you for that confusion. There are different kinds of readings also like Tarot or popular angel card reading, but because I have not tried neither of them. So can you just start with the difference?

Okay, so I'll talk about the tarot cards again. So I said, where did this come from? This came from the concept of we used to play cards, right? Now let's go back to playing cards. Let's understand the concept of playing cards. Playing cards, there is a section of sets, right? And there's also a king and the queen. Characters are there in your cards. I'm talking about the playing cards now, Tarot cards, you were created on the same version. It was created on the same version that it will have sets of cards called the suits. And it Will also have the king and queen called the court card. So these are the names that is given to them. So tarot cards are concept, and it was created on the same version of the playing cards. And this was where you could actually identify what's really happening as a subconscious energy and, you know, talk about a lot of other things, guiding, taking them to the kind of future that they want to make, making them understand whether this person is right for you, this career is right for you, should you go ahead, or if you want to go ahead, what's the right way to get. Go ahead with this relationship or the job. There's many, many versions to it.

Now, can we also analyze the situations that you might be directed towards further in your life?

Absolutely, yes. Ultimately, like I said, we need to work on our present. So we need to understand why, where are we moving and why are we moving in a certain direction and how we can walk the right path. So, like I always say, there's nothing to fear. Like, for example, if I tell you, if I. If I actually say that to you now, would you feel scared or would you just take care of it? Like, in terms of. Yeah, so that is what we're saying. So when we, we guide you towards your future, we actually guide you in terms of how you can work into it. Right. So eventually people started creating different. Different decks. And angel cards are not tarot cards. Reason they don't follow a set of cards. Now, what is the major difference is something you can understand. They don't fall set. Follow a set of cards. Different. Different sets. It's a number of cards, like, say, 22 cards, general cards, angelic messages with a different concept where people just draw cards and say, this is the angel message for you. Message is already given on the card. This is how people are following the concept. Now, I. I believe it's good, but it's not good for someone who's not intuitive.

Right.

This should be the second stage of reading. So a lot of people, and this is another message that I want to give through this podcast today, is that a lot of people these days are following, you know, a method of reading, which is. Which is why, you know, the card has the message on it. For me, it's called cheating. For me, it's like, you know, Now if you're not an intuitive tarot reader, and if not, learn the right way of reading a card and you get a set of card. If your mentor or if anyone is giving you the of card, do you think the same message is applicable for the entire World. Not at all.

It's misguiding now it is misguided because.

You'Re not trying to connect to your intuitive powers. You're not trying to work on your creative power as a reader. And you will never be able to connect because you never worked into it. You got an easy method. So for me, we need to understand that angel card is a good idea. But make sure that you're intuitively reading them and not by the message that is given. Because that message has a deeper meaning into it in terms of each person and each person's energy. So we need to, you know, dive into that videos just don't have to be a reader who's just picking up the card and this is the message for you. Yeah.

So okay. In my number of cards like Tarumi number of cards angel cards made same hotel, different hotel.

So they are different as I said. So Tarot because it follows a concept of set of cards and it follows the concept of, like I said, the king and queen, the court cards. It always also follow concepts of cards, sections called major arcana and minor Arcana. Of course people who know about it knows that. So right away especially has 78 cars. Right. When we move to Osho, then that is another. We call it a Tarot deck. Only it has 79 cards. So they are different, different decks, but they will always have maximum number of cards. Now when you move to angel cards, there might be shorter number of cards like 22 cards, number of sections. That's what is happening in the market. So people are creating deck on their own concepts, on their own belief system, on their own logics. Right? So that's what is happening in the market. So these are all different concepts that people are creating, like love and relationship decks, Banali. Love decks Banali, hard deck Banali. You know all that God's God saying that nowadays market is full of different decks that people are creating. Now what I truly follow is this deck original right away. Because it came at a time when actually it started. So people actually did it in the very beginning of this whole idea. 1909, one of the deck that came into picture was original right away. So I'm teaching this. Of course it is very difficult to understand with a lot of things that comes from that era. Like the Raja will come from that era, the Rani, the throne, the crowns and. But when I make. When I teach these cards, I make it so easy for my students. They say that ma', am, it's so easy to learn. One, because I'm very passionate about it. Two I feel that, you know, when you emphasize on reading and connecting with the real situation of your life, you know, I connect each card with your life situation, which we go through on a daily basis and which we need to learn from. I think it becomes really easy.

That needs a lot of experience.

Yeah, that is of course there. And that is another thing that one one as a coach need to understand that when you are really willing to coach, you have to have a lot of experience as a reader first.

Yes.

Because that is how you can coach people better. Because I think reading will help you. So nowadays a lot of people are learning and coaching, you know, lear and coaching. So that's right. We need to first practice it enough times. We need to have that maximum number of readings and we have to need to have those real experiences to be a coach. So that experience will come with time and of course benefit. I think I've been teaching in schools for a lot of time, so I think people really connect with me on that point. That they really feel that, you know, they can like I can teach better because I've been a teacher for a very long time. So that really helps me. Like we connect the dot backwards now and we realize that why did I go through all that grinding of being a teacher in school? And now I can really relate to that. That's really helping me here.

I think that's exactly where I also relate a lot because I also have taught in international schools for four or five years. So my teaching base is also from there. And the principal thing you said, I relate to that also. I think it's because we are unfiltered. We don't think before we say yeah.

I mean, yeah, that is one thing. And I think when you are someone who is simple and who believes in just focusing on the work because nowadays become a lot of business minded school, they have a lot of expectations from you. I think there is where we are not able to fit in. That's what I feel. True.

Okay, so if you are a beginner, someone who is just starting to learn tarot, how should they go about it? Or how do you do it in your community? How do you start them?

Thank you. Thank you for that question. So I always take them back to school. Now let's go back to school life. You know, when we were in school, you remember school questions. I think this is more about the picture. This is one way of understanding, you know, what do we, what do we see in that picture? Now that vision can be different for each person because that vision is coming from their own experiences of life, what. What they have been going through emotionally, mental visions, And of course, the creative vision. So my first connect is to make them realize, let's go back to school and let's start picking up a card and read like a child. You know, when you see a card, you start seeing, You know, what do you feel from the card? Is the first way to connect with the card. Because when we are starting as a reader, we might not be intuitive. Yes. And to talk about creativity, also, I feel, you know, over the period of time, creativity, because, you know, we just start doing different stuff and, you know, creativity. We were creative as a. As a child, but eventually, you know, because we get busy with so many things that creativity. But it is a part of us, right? Intuition is a part of us. We are all intuitive, we are all creative. Let me say that now it is a process to bring that back. And the process is to start first as a reader who is just looking at a picture and just feeling the picture and just, you know, trying to get to the picture to understand. So I start with these things. The second thing I start with, you know, going back to school, we used to see a lot of colors. If you remember, we know teachers to connect us with a lot of colors. So a color is something when we look at. When you like, for example, right now, when you see me, you see me wearing a red color, it's a vibrant color, right. And you do feel energetic to see this color. You do feel that there's a lot of energy, right?

Yes.

And sometimes when you wear dull colors, sometimes anywhere a little bit of dull colors, you do feel a little bit dull. This is the impact of colors in the card. So if the color has a lot of vibration, yellow, orange, a lot of vibrant color, it shows a positive situation and a positive energy. And if the color card is very dull, dark colors, black, gray, then it kind of talks about maybe there's something to talk about. There's some. Some negative situation or a negative energy that we have to understand, Right. So this is how we also discuss a lot about the colors. Then we also talk about numbers, you know, so there are many ways that I connect them. Add as a beginner, and as a beginner, they just need to start reading a card like, you know, we should read a picture in school. So I take them to each card, I take them to the basic understanding of the card, and it becomes so relatable. And of course, as I said, I connect them through their own experiences of life. Like, for example, I'll if you don't mind, I would like you to go through one card just as an example and I'm sure you will be able to connect. Now this is one of the card of the rider weight. This is original rider weight I'm holding. There is this card called the Fool. Yeah. And when you look at the Fool, I just want to take you back to your school life. Or should I say I want to take you back to your life when you made your first boyfriend. You're a young girl, right. So let's talk about that. And I actually did.

Little late, but okay.

Yeah, that's all right. Okay. So I think so. I think I always take them back to remember when we made our first boyfriend or when. When, let's say when it was my first day at school. Yeah. How are we as that. At that energy? We were like a very innocent, Right? We're very innocent. We used to think everything is so positive, you know. And when I made the first boyfriend, I thought, you know, just a movie. It's going to be all flowers, all bouquets, love, heart. And you know, ultimately he's going to be my partner for life because that's what that. That is how I was as a child. So whenever you start something, you know, you're like this fool, which is in the picture and you're very innocent. This fool is not a bad food. It's like when you have an innocent energy and you're starting something absolutely fresh and new and you have absolutely no idea. So again, going back to when I made my first boyfriend, I was so excited, I was so energetic, I was so happy. And I was like, the sky is the limit. And then when I actually ended up having a relationship with that guy, I came to a lot of know a lot of things here. Relationship is not such a joke. It. It has a lot of expectations. And all these experiences actually made me a matured, experienced person. So to each and everything, when we start at. At the full level, when we are innocent and we are carefree and we are, you know, full of life, clearly these experiences that we go through are just to make us a better person, to transition us to a more powerful person. And that experience will lead us to success. Yes. So when I take. I'm taking you through your life, you know, remember? But he was super excited. Yeah. And whatever happened next was something that made you experienced and knowledgeable into that zone. And then eventually you were prepared. Right. And that's the journey of the fool. When he stands there, he's standing on a cliff. Can we see a cliff here? He's standing on a cliff. Now when he stands there, look at his, his neck. He's just not bothered. He's just walking with a carelessness. Because we are so calculative about everything. Right? That's not an energy of a child. A child does not think all this, you know, so he had, had that energy of a child. And why do I call him a child again I again laugh or laugh it out and say look at his clothes. I'm so, I hope this doesn't go to Ranveer Singh. At one point I always say that you know, there's no third energy that you can look into and you know, you can clearly feel the, the energy of a child here with those vibrant clothes and he's standing on a cliff. So next step that he takes, you know, there's a possibility of a fall. But that fall is really important for you to rise because when we fall, we rise above. And this is the bigger message of the card that whatever you are starting, take the leap of faith. Be limitless, be carefree. Enjoy that journey of learning because that will take you to the success. So this is the bigger message of the fool. So this is how they connect with the card. It's a beginner level learning. This is the level when I introduce them to my foundation course which is like I'm running a three days foundation course for them and they learn this at the foundation course.

Wow, this is beautiful.

Exactly. That's why most of them move into learning advance. You know, like they come with the mindset that ma'. Am. And we didn't even think of learning tarot. But with, because it was so much fun that we then decided to learn tarot. So that is why it is so interesting to learn.

It is very like then you can't just like sit. Once you are into it, you will be into it fully. So earlier you said that there is a subconscious vision. So I want you to elaborate little more on this subconscious vision basically and how can you develop this? Because again if you want to be an advanced reader or coach intuitively. So how can we do that? How can anyone do that now?

So first of all let's talk about the. What is the subconscious vision? Now you know, our mind has two visions. One is a conscious vision and one is a subconscious vision. What is a conscious vision? Right? And this is a conscious, we are conscious about what's happening around us right now. We have, we have that awareness now what is the subconscious vision? Is that something that we have at the subconscious level. And that is coming from what we have been through in our life, experiences of life, people in our life, situations in our life. And to actually understand this more deeper, this subconscious energy has more impact on our journey than the conscious energy.

Yes, true.

You know, because we are in a certain way because of that subconscious energy that we have gone through in our life. And sometimes we kind of let it go. We kind of want to pretend that we are strong. Because I'm saying this again, I've done this into my life. You know, when you kind of say that, I don't care, let it be, I don't want to talk about it, I don't want to think about it, I'm way stronger than this. And of course we all want to believe that, but it does have an impact. And you do realize it has an impact on your relationship. The fears within you comes from the subconscious energy when you fear to get married. A lot of young girls I meet these days are like, ma', am, I don't want to get married. I'm scared to get married. Guilty. See, that is why I say that I, I really connect with this young generation. I know where it is coming from. Now. A lot of children, you know, they have the fear of. Fear of a lot of things. Examination. Because that pressure, that subconscious feeling of kabimamana ganta oga papa, you know, so, so many things that they go through on a psychological level is coming from that subconscious energy which we need to start dealing with. Because I really, truly believe that we are moving into a generation where I feel everybody is going through something, you know, simple life. We were happy with what we had. Now everybody wants to have everything. Families, social. It's more of Facebook insta that you guys especially insta that this generation is, you know, moving into and it's, it's become very unrealistic world for them, very competitive world for them. They feel, you know, look at my friend, she's enjoying where am I? That competition has come between all of us. And I feel every day we are dealing with a lot of anxiety, guilt, depression that we need to encounter. And all this is coming from that experiences, You know, then relationship issues. My parents didn't have a good marriage, so I'm scared of marriage. You know, I had a child of, of abuse. I'm scared. Physical touch. I, I understand that. You know, why is that coming from? Because somebody touched you in a wrong way. And women need to start talking about these factors and these things which are, which are stored some subconsciously encounter are really Becoming our reality now are really troubling us in our day to day life. And that is why we are not able to grow. Growth will only happen when you deal with this energies and you know, you become a more positive version of yourself. Not from the conscious self, that's a conscious energy internally. Are you really happy? That's a bigger point. Now what does tarot do? It reaches that subconscious self. It doesn't talk of a conscious self. It talks about what you're going through internally. What is it that is bothering you emotionally, mentally, physically? And why is that bothering you? And how can I help you to heal you? How can I guide you to work into it? And that's why tarot is beyond just predicting. It's. It's a lot to deal with. It's counseling, it's healing, it's guiding, you know, and I just generally feel that if nothing else, you know, we are here to listen to you.

Because you can't go into life coaching.

It's absolutely. That's when. That's why most of tarot coaches call themselves life coach also, you automatically become a part of it. Yeah, that is the basic understanding. Sorry if I, I speak a little bit more, but I please do.

I can listen to you all day, night on repeat.

Thank you so much. Thank you for saying that. You young girls are saying that's a blessing for us. But genuinely I want to talk about them because as I said, I'm constantly working on women. And you know, we women have been brought up in an environment where we've got to sit all to adjust, to compromise. And that is the thing that is, you know, creating a lot of issues in our married life, in our life these days. So we need to really talk about them. So that is a basic understanding of the conscious and subconscious self. And when I, when you ask me the next question, which is that how do we get into it? And as I said that this is a part of us. We have that intuitive powers. We can reach our subconscious by just doing some meditations, by just, you know, maybe if I need counseling and healing, that's very important. So first to encounter our own self, to accept that I have certain issues that I need to talk about. Because yes, healing starts with you. But in this journey, one thing I realized that by healing others, you get healed.

Yeah, that is so true.

Because when I started, I wasn't healed really. I just started because I had no choice. I had to pick up on my income, I had to take care of my child. I had to do something to change his life. And I started reading for people. I started doing their readings. And I realized one thing. Beyond that I can think and still they are going on, they're struggling. Is when I actually started feeling gratitude of what I have. And I started thanking the universe that, you know, I'm still blessed, my child is with me. The people who, you know, go through divorce and the child do not want to move in with them or the husband don't allow that. I was looking at a lot of good things. And that is when eventually I started getting heat. You know, I started opening up and I started realizing that, where am I going wrong? What is it that I need to really work into? Because ultimately we have to work into ourselves, only we can't change the world around us. We need to understand what's it is that I need to take in this journey. We are here for our own karmic lessons, not for anyone's karmic lessons. That we keep talking and we keep getting bothered. This one has done this to me. Yes, I have. That's their journey. You talk about your journey because whatever is happening around you to teach you certain lessons, have you taken those lessons? That's very important. So that will happen. It's a process. And you will reach there. You will realize that you will reach there very easily. Because you, when you'll be reading for people, the intuitions are actually working for you. You are a part of the channel. You just have to follow one thing. Be ethical as a reader. Be ethical when you are a part of this journey because God has chosen you to help people. A lot of people are misusing this thing, you know, I mean, the kind of things that people doing in this journey of spirituality is not right. You need to be ethical enough. And then if you are a part of that ethicality and honesty and you really want to help people, I think you automatically become a channel. You know, God is there for you, to guide you, and we are just a channel to reach people. So that will happen on its own. My students get that on their own. I don't have to. I just tell them to start with meditation. Simple meditation. Don't make it like very. Don't sound it big simple. Just sit with yourself. Just focus on your breathing. I give them some meditation tips, or if nothing, you can just put on some music. You know, sometimes if you feel a little low, I share with them a lot of meditation music that they can follow and just start with simple way. And then you can eventually move into the complex way of meditation. Also when you feel Comfortable into it and it really helps.

Wow, beautiful. I can literally like every single thing you say. It's like striking a nerve. So I don't know, maybe it is your intuitive powers, but I'm loving it. So all in all, what I discovered is.

Yes, yes, absolutely everything.

Yeah, literally like everything. Any student or maybe any reading that you did that this was astonishing to you also.

Yeah. So I think. But I would write, I always discuss this within my community also and I always share how as a reader we can actually work into changing people's life and how Tarot really helps them to take that right decision. So I will take you through one of my client. So she was my regular client and because now I'm not taking readings from the last two years, reason being I'm more into coaching and I stopped taking reading. I don't really get the time and I believe that this is about time and energy. So I don't want to do it for the sake of making money. I'll do it when I have the time to it. So this was a time when I was reading and there was a client who was a regular client and I think she had already crossed 30. And you know, when you cross 30, you know, you are always worried about finding the right factor. Whereas I still feel that 30 is still young. I don't know why people think this way. I think 40 is still young because I'm 42 now, know, so I used to tell them, like, just don't worry. But she was very financially, you know, independent. She was doing well in her career and so she always used to feel that I hope I'll find the right partner in terms of, you know, that guy will also be equally at my level and he would accept me. And of course he's not misusing me or marrying me for my money. You know, those things are a part of everyone's life. So one fine day she came to me for a reading and she said, harpreet, I'm getting married in the next one month. But I wanted to read for this boy. And when I asked her is all okay. So she said, you know, I have this doubt about him, which I want to check with you and usa, you know, of course, same question. Okay. I hope he's not marrying me for my money. He's not going to. Because that I'm really thinking then what's really happening thing, you know. So I understood and I said, okay, fine, don't worry, we'll do that reading. And we were just doing a reading and when we take out spreads. Also. Now you would also know that for, for a particular reading I make spread use. So I was using the spread, very common spread called the past, present and the future. Now her question was, we also need to understand the question. Her question was, you know, she used to, he used to ask her a lot of questions like for example, obviously over 30 plus, have you been dating people? I still remember my time when my when in my arranged marriage situation. My mother was like, keep your mouth shut, don't speak a word, you know, and now I relate to that point of view. So obviously she was open enough and she was open minded and she said, yeah, I've been dating a lot of people because obviously, you know, I've been dating a lot of men. The second question that he asked her was have you been physically involved? And again, we are very honest people. So she in that honesty shared with him that yeah, I've had physical relationship immature enough. Now this guy started demeaning her on a day to day note telling her that I'm marrying you. You know, I have never had a girl and I've never had a physical relationship. And you had physical relationship. Many people are still marrying you. You know, all those things were coming to her. And so her question was that, is he saying the truth? Her question was this. If I was her, I would have asked but she was more curious to know I have not been physically involved. Is that really true? She couldn't believe that. First of all, now when I was reading about that boy, I saw this past card of we do a past, present, future. I saw a past card of he's been connected with somebody and there's been some mishappening to that relationship, there's been cheating that happened in that relationship. And I and I told her that what I feel that he's been into a relationship in the past where something went drastically wrong. And since that he's become very judgmental about women, you know. And I think there is a problem and either he works into it or it's going to become very tough for you because you work in an environment where you meet boys every day when you're, you know, surrounded with a lot of men and he's not in that mindset. His mindset has changed completely. He has trust issues big time. Now obviously as a girl, she said. Something to do with, I told her, seek to do something, think the guy should be willing to work onto himself, I can walk into you. Or if the guy is willing to change himself, he should accept and he should come and Take counseling, because he needs counseling for sure. He would never be able to live a happy life, whether it's with you or anyone else. Then she starts, ma'. Am. Then I said, you know, I genuinely feel that I like. I always like to give that mirror image. And like, let's. Let's go ahead, okay? I tell her, okay, let's take a situation. You marry him, okay? You say, all right, I'll go ahead with this marriage because you're thinking all of this, right? So it's okay. Let's. Let's go ahead with the marriage. Would you be comfortable if he asks you not to meet a guy? Would you be comfortable if he questions on. Because that's what he was doing right now. Also, would you be questioned if he's questioning you? Would you be comfortable with all that? Because you are a very independent woman. You've never liked to be questioned. She said, no, absolutely not. Then it's time to rethink. And I don't think it matters. I always believe is better. Then that's a mental trauma. And divorce is very difficult to get into. That's another journey. And Lokiya Kang is not important. Talk to your parents, discuss this out. Because we also did this reading about this boy that easy after her money. And we came to the family is actually marrying that girl because of her status. And we also figured that out. And I just told her one thing. Go confront him. Tomorrow you'll get the reality check. And she did confronted him and he accepted. And she came back to me after he said, man, thank you for saving me from this marriage. Wow. So that is. Sometimes we have to go there. We just see as a reader what people think. But you know, sometimes we have to also counsel them because I always believe that when you start thinking that, what if it was your sister? What if it was your brother? What if it was a family member, a friend. I can change his or her life. I can guide them. They're going into a wrong direction. I don't want them to go through what I have been through in my life. And that is how I work into this journey. That's why my clients still data like upset reading Lenny or Meripas, actually. But they still don't want to leave me because I've worked like this with my clients. This is just one example. There have been many, many examples. Examples.

We will get to know a few more because there has to be many interesting ones. Yeah, but this is huge. You can literally make or break anyone's life with this.

Absolutely. That is a responsibility we have also. So we need to take this more seriously as a reader. We have to be experienced, we have to be knowledgeable. We can't just start reading, watching Google videos, YouTube videos. You can't start reading by using a deck that has a meaning into it. And we have not even specialized in that zone own. It's like becoming a doctor by just going through the YouTube videos or you're finding information on the Google. We need a mentor. We need that right path, that structured knowledge is very important.

Yes, definitely. So any beginners who are looking to start in tarot, this is the woman you should go to. This is the ultimate. So the subconscious vision is ultimately your reflection of childhood or the past experiences that you have been through.

Yes.

If you have not dealt with.

And I'm saying this out of my own experience, I actually, I have never dealt with them, but now when I see them, I know where it is coming from and I need to work on them. So do you think I'm not working on them right now? So you know, the life is about working consciously onto your path. So we have to work every day onto, you know, reaching that subconscious healing us at each level so it will keep happening. So healing is a part throughout our life, you know, so we should not wait, keep going. Because you will learn so many things on this journey and you'll keep getting healed on your own. You'll realize a lot of things.

Any particular things that you use to get healed, like any particular suggestion that you give to your students that you can practice this for a fast healing or something.

So one is meditation. Now depends on the what level of healing do you really need? Like what is the level of healing? So meditation is very important, but sometimes extreme level of issues. Meditation.

Impossible.

And I understand because I'm already disturbed. There's so much disturbing element to asseme. Of course, take healing sessions, counseling sessions, you know, they're very important. You know, if again, so that's why as a reader, what I do is that I first try to understand what is the level of healing you require. Now sometimes we are good enough to heal our own self. Like it's not that huge a problem, but sometimes we need help. We need to go to those counselors, those healers if we need a healing session, if we need counseling session to talk about it and we are scared to talk, that is a big thing.

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