The 2 Must Have's To Live and Love Well

Hello, everyone. It's Heather with Prescriptive Living. This is the place our savvy singles come to get tips to fail proof their life in love. Today I'm coming to you late and I'm coming to you emotional. Oh, my goodness. There is a lot going on there. Hormones. And then just an interview that is an absolute masterpiece that I started watching a couple days ago, just finished up the final pieces and there was a piece in there that just blindsided me of just pure goodness and magic and people doing amazing things in the world and it emotionally wrecked me. But I'm still going to do my video because I'm late. And it's important to me that I stay consistent in how I deliver messages, even if it's not on the day that I intend to. So I just. If anyone's curious, the video I'm referring to is an interview between one of my mentors, Marie Forleo, and Dr. Trent, who is this unbelievable woman. It is honestly, I think, the best interview I've ever heard in my life. This woman is Oprah's favorite guest of all time. Really powerful. So if you're curious what it's about, it's all about living the impossible life and dreams. And this woman does it and so does Marie Forleo and so do many others. You'll get to see the link for it and you will be so inspired. I mean, it's, it's just pure magic from beginning to the end. So. So that is something I just wanted to share as a little bit of a disclaimer at Prescriptive Living. We have been so, so busy this year doing really exciting things. We have our digital series, our six course Uncommon Love digital series underway. We're working to get that to a full on, on demand mode. That'll probably be several, several more months out before it's actually fully on demand. But we're doing live courses every Sunday until it gets there. We started a foundation that we're going to start doing work in within the next several months called Time to Soar. It'll be a place for kiddos to get their wings so that they can get really all of the tools to find their magic inside and become their most vibrant self, live their dreams. It's all kind of based on the blind side model. The woman who played Sandra Bullock's character really was able to see Michael Oher's gifts and draw them out. And that is what enabled Michael or to become who he was. Right? An incredible man, the NFL player, all of these things and you know, Michael was orphaned basically. He was homeless. He was a kid. His, you know, all this stuff. So it's. I don't know. That's my heart, that's my passion. I'm super excited about the work we're going to be doing there. We're eventually going to build a place called the Funny Farm. A commune where laughter is the best medicine. It's going to be a retreat center and a lot of cool stuff that's going to come in many years, who knows how long, don't even care right now or whenever. But it's going to be really exciting. So we're super excited about that. This week we launched a book for natural prescriptive remedies for many conditions and explained fertility based off of the Go Baby Ph model. How to heal the few get kick the flu in less than a day. You know, healing pain in your body. I will tell you, I got into a car accident in 2008. Wasn't even a big car accident, but it really messed up some of my hips and my it band and all of this stuff. I've been using these remedies and all the pain is like vanishing from my body. And it's not stuff like where you have to go to yoga and do all this hard stuff. I think it's hard stuff. It's stuff where you literally lay down and release tension in your body. It's super easy and it's super inexpensive and it's totally magical. Face care treatments like that have blown my mind. I mean, it's just got a lot of really cool stuff in it. So we've done all that. But that's not what we're here to talk about today. Today we are going to talk about the areas where the makers or breakers to help people get what they want in life and love. And the number one thing is their beliefs. The beliefs about how they feel about themselves as a person, what they expect for themselves and then how they view others. Do they actually understand and embrace others for who they are? Do they. Do they have that level of awareness or are they imposing wrong, limited thoughts and ideas that are just from their own viewpoint and vantage point of the world that limit their ability to really understand people and connect with them in a real and meaningful way. So the beliefs is 80% of life, right? And what I see is that most people have beliefs that are either focused on the wrong outcomes, focusing on the wrong things so they're getting the wrong results, not because they're trying to get the wrong results. They just don't know that what they're focusing on is getting them the wrong results. And so this is what really challenges people from having what we call fulfillment in life. And so all of those things are things we go deep in, in Prescriptive Living's six course, Uncommon Love. Really we cover a lot of the thinking things and the foundations course because that's where it all begins. And you know, sometimes people are majoring on the minors. Some people have their goal and priority on the wrong things. And when these things happen, you know, whether it's que sera sera thinking whatever will be, will be leaving all these important decisions up to chance, or you know, whether it's imposing wrong thoughts on ourselves or on others, whether it's, you know, just having a wrong goal that is not going to get you the right results. I mean, most people are screwing relationships up truthfully because they are focusing on the wrong things for alignment and compatibility and relational health. And they don't know that they're doing it. And so it's, it causes them to get the wrong results in the end. Right. Like only 10%, 12% are doing relationships well and the rest, well, you know, look around. So, so we, we build this basically to get people's thinking aligned in a way where they can get perspective on the, the areas that, that may be holding them back from getting where they want to go. So we really unravel a lot of layers of this to help people get there. So 80% of life is beliefs, right? And it's the beliefs layer goes so deep. I mean, it's not just like I said, about how we view ourselves and how we view others. It has to do with expectations. Majoring on the wrong things, focusing on the wrong things, all of these things. This screws up so many lives and businesses and relationships. So we really do bring clarity into all of that so that people can have different outcomes. So that's number one. And then 20% of skills. Right. So, you know, a lot of times this is part of the thinking piece too. But a lot of times people think skills is everything and they focus so much on education and all these things. And it's 20% of the game. It's important. If you don't have the skills to succeed, you may succeed eventually, but it's probably going to take you longer. You can actually there are people who know how to fast track success for you because they've accomplished and done whatever you're looking to do in any area you're looking to do it. So, so being able to get those skills to get you where you want to go is super beneficial. Right? But skills are only 20% of the game. So 80% is the way we think, 20% is our skill level. So these are both of the things that we really do bring awareness to in all of our series and courses. And if you're curious what we're doing, check out the description below. There's going to be a lot of information about the resources we have available, who we are, what we're doing, how to stay connected with us. We really care about not just getting where we want to go in life, but actually loving our journey, loving the moments and making the most, like, becoming our most vibrant self, having our most vibrant relationships, being able to love the life we're living and the work we're doing. All of these things. Like, you know, if some people are like living for retirement, I will tell you, it's like the pathway to death. Like, people are bored out of their minds, they stop learning, they stop growing. Like, life becomes so dull when you retire. I hate to be your bubble burster, but man, if that's what you're living for, that means like, you really don't like what you're doing right now probably. And, and you may want to like, think about the thinking because it's 80 alive. And no matter what your goals are, we support you and embrace you in it, but we don't want you to just get goals and, and be struggling. We want you to actually love and be fulfilled in life. Tony Robbins says, he says so many amazing things, but one of the things he says is success without fulfillment is the ultimate failure. And I could not agree with him more. And so, you know, being able to actually truly, truly, truly, truly love the life you live and, and all of its, all of its ways is what we're about and what we help people do. And so that is it. Cheers to living and loving. Well, I'm signing off. I wish you a great day and I apologize for being late if you liked anything we said or anything we're doing, like, share, subscribe. We're going to do videos every week. I'm not even going to say on Wednesday anymore because I can't, I can't keep it all together. There's a lot happening. But cheers to living and loving. Well, bye.