Heather Lyn shares practical advice on intentional living and goal setting. She covers course correction, developing skills for success, and building better relationships through deliberate choices.
Hey, it's Heather with Prescriptive Living. This is where savvy singles come to learn how to fail proof their life and love. And today we're talking about how to get exactly what you want out of life and love. And I think you'll find it's much easier than you actually might think. And so stick through to the very end if you are interested in getting some perspective on this. And we're launching some incredible things that I'm so excited to share with you. So stay tuned. If you like what we're sharing, make sure you like the videos and subscribe because we'll be putting out new videos every Wednesday. All right, so how to get exactly what you want out of life and love? First thing you've got to do is let go of the whole que sera, sera, whatever will be, will be mindset and process and lifestyle. It can happen. You can. You can let things go and have fun on the minors, but. But don't do this on the majors. The majors is like how you're spending your days working professionally and in your relationships. These are the things that make up the substance of your life, and these are not things you just want to leave to chance. You want to have a little bit of thought and intention in it and set your goals, your North Stars, and be working towards those. Okay? That's number one. It's what so many people miss, and it's why they're kind of struggling in ways, because they're just letting whatever happens happen and it's not what they want. And it's really important to get clear on what it is you're looking for and only kind of move towards those things that meet those requirements. Simple enough. Okay. Second is when things are off course, right? When you get rejected, when something you were working on didn't go as planned, when whatever it is is not giving you the outcome that you want. This is not when you back away and say, oh, my gosh, I'm a loser. I can't do anything. I don't know what I'm talking about. Nobody likes me. All of these things, these lies that we tell ourselves, these are not things that you want to embrace. You want to say, ah, okay, next. And how do I do whatever I need to learn from this and get back on track to where I'm going? That is really important. And the way that a lot of people get really hung up on this is that instead of doing course correction, they just wallow and make up stories and lies or they believe stories and lies that let them be less than what they should be. There's a movement focus with all of this. And fear and anger are the movements away and against their fight or flight. Traumatic responses, generally speaking. And when people are not getting what they want, generally, they are operating in those movements more than the movement of love, which is moving towards. And so becoming really aware of how you're moving. And look, if you want to move in a different movement than what you're moving in, you can, okay, you're in the right place because these are the things we talk about, these are the things we live and breathe. We even have a Facebook group that we're going to be building called the Love Movement, which is the place where we only nurture dreams in life and love. And so this is completely doable, but it doesn't happen without course correction. Okay? So that's kind of the key is just knowing where your course is and then modifying when you need to. And these small tweaks make a huge difference. So it's really much easier than most people think. And then finally, the third thing that we're going to talk about is skills, okay? Whether you're launching your own company, whether you're selecting, you know, where you're going to work, or whether you're choosing your mate, you need to have skills. There's only 12% of the population that are doing relationship well. And do you know why they're doing it? Well? Because they know what they're doing. They have skills. They have skills in conflict, they have skills in communication, they have self love. If you do not think that you are the best person and you're not fully operating in the magnificence of who you are as an individual, then you are short selling yourself because your value has not been fully discovered and tapped into. And the more you tap into that, the more excited and vibrant your life becomes and the more of an attraction magnet you become automatically to others. So it becomes really fun on a lot of, a lot of aspects and there are amazing benefits. And ladies, I want to tell you something. If you want to know how to like make a man so excited about, you have crazy clear and direct communication skills and awareness because men are struggling with this tremendously. And when women can do this, it makes it their job so much easier and they're so drawn to it. And so if you don't know how to have, you know, compatibility, alignment, your dating is not working out well, you don't love yourself on a 10 out of 10 scale, you're not sure how to recognize dysfunction in yourself or in people that are around you and you want to do all this stuff better, you're in the right place because you this Sunday we are starting our our series on fail proofing Life and Love and each course is available as a standalone course and this week we're going to set your foundations for dating and loving yourself. Well, and so this is kind of where it all begins. And if you want help on turning and writing your ship, then make sure you enroll in this class and check out the classes we have coming up in the weeks ahead. We're so excited. We also started what will eventually become a non profit for children called Time to Soar. And that's where we're going to give kiddos their wings to find their own magnificence and be able to have a safe haven to get through whatever they're going through with a place that's just of understanding and enablement for vibrance and success in life. And these are just a couple of the things that we're doing that we're so excited about. So so stay tuned. Make sure you subscribe and like the video and check out in the description. The course is coming up and if you want to be part of it, be sure to join us and know that they are also guaranteed so there's no risk in joining. Hope to see you there. Cheers to living and loving well. Bye.
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