Jay Shaw argues that having isn't about money or possessions, but a state your nervous system creates. You can own millions and still feel like you have nothing if fear takes over, because the feeling comes from inside, not from what's in your bank account.
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I'm about to blow somebody's mind, and when I blow it, I want you to put a mind blown emoji in the chat. Having is a state of being. You think it goes like this: I have it, I don't have it, I have it, I don't have. No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. You gotta understand this. Understand that having happens in your nervous system. Having happens in your reticular activation. So think about it. Stay with me. I could be in a place where I have millions of dollars in the bank, and even in that having of million dollars, even in that physical having. A million dollars, I can go hormonally and neurologically and not have— I go, what if my wife leave me and take it all?