Jim KwikFounder, Kwik Brain · Brain Coach

The Art of Changing Yourself | Jim Kwik

29 Nov 2022 · 1 min

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In this talk, Jim Kwik explains why most attempts at behavior change—like exercising, meditating, reading more, or quitting a habit—often fail because they focus only on the action itself. He argues that lasting transformation requires addressing multiple layers: the external environment (removing temptations and placing cues), the design of triggers that prompt the desired behavior, and the deeper internal factors such as beliefs and values that drive motivation. Kwik illustrates each layer with practical examples (e.g., keeping unhealthy food out of the house, having books readily available, and recognizing that a lack of value for reading can sabotage daily reading goals). The overall message is that sustainable change comes from aligning behavior with supportive surroundings and personal convictions, not merely willpower.

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A lot of people usually make a change on behavior. They want to get themselves to work out, they want to get themselves to meditate, they want to get themselves to read more each day, or they want to stop some behavior. They want to stop smoking, they want to stop eating this food. That's a behavior, right? But there's so many other elements to be able to change because most behaviors don't stick. And so, like, when I'm thinking about when I want to transform or transcend or make a real positive change, I'm looking at all the other areas of ourself. Change doesn't just happen at this level of behavior, but what you have to change the environment. So for example, if you want to stop eating a certain food, it helps to be able to have not that food in your home. If you want to read more, it helps to help set up your environment where you have the books readily available, where you're going to read it because they perform trigger, right? You want a trigger to help remind you to do the behavior, right? So are you setting up the environment in a way that triggers the behavior that you want? But also another level of change that we need to address. Let's say someone's watching this and they have a thing that something they want to change and it's not sticking, then maybe it's the environment. Maybe you could check about your habits, but maybe it's your beliefs and your values. Some people will not get themselves to read every day because they don't value reading.