Jim KwikFounder, Kwik Brain · Brain Coach

Why you're repeating the same mistakes

13 Oct 2023 · 0 min

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In this short segment of his self‑help video, Jim Kwik explores why people keep making the same errors. He questions whether repeating a behavior is insanity or simply a poor memory of past lessons. Kwik argues that many repeat mistakes because they fail to retain the pain or lesson associated with the prior failure, turning what could be a learned choice into a repeated pattern. He illustrates this with everyday examples—dating the same type of partner, recurring health missteps, rehiring similar unsuitable employees, and procrastinating on tasks like taxes—highlighting how unlearned lessons manifest in various life domains.

The first time you did, it's a mistake, but the second time you do it, it's a choice. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, expecting a different result. I don't know if that's insanity. Maybe it's just a poor memory because you don't remember the lesson that came from it. A lot of people repeat mistakes because they don't remember the lesson or the pain that came. So they end up dating the same kind of person. They make the same kind of mistake with their health over and over again, or they hire the same person, or they wait and procrastinate on their taxes.