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People pleasing …

Name: People pleasing …
Uploaded: 2025-01-14T17:36:20+00:00
Duration: 24 s
Channel: Lea Ernst
Description: In this short German‑language monologue, the speaker argues that being called “nett” (nice) is actually an insult because it signals fear‑driven…

14 Jan 2025 · 0 min

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In this short German‑language monologue, the speaker argues that being called “nett” (nice) is actually an insult because it signals fear‑driven people‑pleasing. She addresses women (“Sexy Ladies”), urging them to stop constantly subordinating their own needs to please others. By abandoning the habit of people‑pleasing and actively working each day on becoming their best version, they will be happier and become better friends, mothers, and partners. The speaker frames niceness as a fear‑based coping mechanism that benefits no one, and positions self‑improvement as the empowering alternative.

Du bist ganz nett ist eine Beleidigung. Sexy Ladies sind nicht nett, sondern arbeiten jeden Tag an ihrer besten Version. Was hast du davon, nice girl zu sein, people pleasing zu betreiben und deine eigenen Bedürfnisse ständig zurückzustellen? Wenn du deine beste Version bist, dein Ding machst, glücklich bist, bist du eine bessere Freundin, eine bessere Mutter, eine bessere Partnerin. Nur nett zu sein und den Menschen alles hinterherzutragen ist nur Angst und da hat keiner was von.