Marisa Rudder coaches female-led relationships and shares how spanking works within that dynamic. A client describes using paddles and bare hands, emphasizing consent and safewords, and says she avoids the hardcore BDSM label while integrating fitness into her practice.
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I love erotic spanking, but only if you're cool with it. Obviously, I am the spanker, and I'll be doing the spanking. You are the spankie. Now, if that arouses you, you should listen because this can be very gratifying. But don't worry, we can vary in intensity, duration, and context, ranging from some playful swats to a more intense BDSM-style scene within our FLR dynamics. I wasn't always into spanking. I love MMA, and I like fighting, but it wasn't until I came across a copy of Marisa Rudder's book, Spanking: The Erotic Guide to Relationship Discipline, that I started adding it to my sex life. One of the intriguing aspects of erotic spanking is its versatility. I am a very disciplined woman, and I do believe in domestic discipline for my man. So the power dynamics between us will be intentionally skewed to enhance my dominance and your submission. I want to tap into your most deep-seated desires or fantasies. I will offer you a safe space to explore different aspects of your new female-led sexuality. I love wooden paddles and even bare hands. Trust me, I know how to use them both. And to deliver varying degrees of stimulation and pain. Don't worry, sweetie, the choice of implement I will use will depend on your preferences and limits as well. That's why we're going to talk about it. In the end, I won't do anything to you that you don't consent to. I don't care if you consider erotic spanking a form of BDSM or not. I don't think it is exclusive, not exclusive to any community. I love erotic spanking, but I don't really identify as a part of the hardcore BDSM community. I don't love labels, but I still enjoy incorporating spanking. I love fitness and being healthy, including my erotic spanking. So don't worry, I don't desire to hurt you, but I will push your boundaries. So that's why you'll have a safe word before engaging in spanking play with me. I want our sexual experiences to be mutually enjoyable. I know I'm not for everyone, but if you like erotic spanking and a diverse and dynamic sex life, You're going to love me. I know I can enhance intimacy, exploration, and pleasure with the right guy. Whether I give you a spontaneous smack or we get into a carefully planned scene, the key lies in a shared understanding of each other's fantasies, desires, and limits. So, are you ready to explore your deepest desires and delve into the world of spanking? Do you want me to ignite your senses and live a life with me of unapologetic passion? Do you want us to embark on a thrilling journey of pleasure, dominance, and submission? Watch me as I transform our bedroom into a realm of excitement, and you experience a passion that will leave you craving more.
