Marisa Rudder explains cuckolding, a consensual non-monogamy practice where couples find arousal in sexual jealousy, compersion, and humiliation. She describes how it works in practice, from watching to updates with outside partners, and connects it to female-led relationships that some couples say improve household happiness.
So cuckolding is a form of consensual non monogamy where the man, the cuckold agrees that the queen can have sex with other people, often younger, well endowed men known as bulls. But what is it exactly that couples experience during cuckolding which makes it one of the biggest searches on porn and on the Internet? Why is cuckolding such a crazy turn on for so many couples? It's not that complicated. Sexual jealousy is intense, motivating and frankly arousing. Seeing another man service your queen seems to feel you will sperm competition. If you're not the jealous type. Compersion is the flip side of jealousy. It's the happiness you feel seeing your partner so happy. In a world of cuckolding, the happy feelings come from seeing your queen being sexually satisfied by another man. For some, humiliation seriously ramps up the erotic intensity. This humiliation can come from watching another man do what you're supposed to do, or by being laughed at or ridiculed by your queen and her bull. So let's explore what cuckolding is all about. I'm Marissa Ritter, relationship coach and best selling author of 11 books on Amazon and I appreciate you checking out my video. If you're new to the channel, please subscribe. There are many variations in how cuckolding plays out for different couples. Some cuckolds enjoy being verbally and sexually humiliated. But cuckolds are generally involved with watching their partner have sex with a more well endowed man, or getting a message or photo updates throughout and being told in detail about it afterwards. Men report that seeing their sexy wives in sexual situations or hearing about it creates great arousal for them. This is their version of real life porn. Couples in the female led lifestyle already know the importance of serving the queen and the pleasure of seeing her happy and sexually satisfied. And if you can't do that, then it's time to add another well endowed man. It could be the key. Men who love coupling align their sexual needs and their arousal with their queen's needs being fulfilled. A man in a female led relationship is happiest when he sees the woman who is considered the most important person in his life happy and fulfilled. Contrast that with the way monogamous obsessed men deal with this situation. They watch porn, masturbate and ignore their woman's needs altogether, leaving her to get satisfied by a vibrator. Now does this seem right or does it seem like eventually this will lead to destruction of the relationship? A happy queen who is sexually satisfied creates a much happier household because she's happy and she's in a good mood because there are so many benefits which transform sex lives. Cuckolding is exploding and this exploiting is one of the biggest sexual fantasies being explored. Modern times call for modern approaches and people gain excitement from pushing boundaries of their daily lives, work lives and sex lives. Sex is one area we control so men and women can change things up just by changing the social rules to personal rules about their sex lives and indulging in their fantasies. What could be better than making your sexual dreams a reality? We know this to be true. With sex clubs, sex resorts, sex parties and more non monogamous sex becoming very mainstream, my book Cuckolding is your perfect resource for everything you need to know to create the perfect cuckolding experience. Don't let societal judgments cloud your venture into this alluring path. Take a bold step into a realm where inhibitions are shed, boundaries are pushed, and pleasure knows no limits. Embrace the possibilities that cuckoldry offers, igniting the flames of passion within yourself and your queen. Don't let hesitation hinder your journey towards deeper intimacy and connection. Seize the moment Moment to order your copy of Cuckolding the Revolutionary Guide and break free from the ordinary. Let this guide lead you towards a more profound and electrifying level of intimacy, trust and pleasure.
