A woman and her architect husband adopted cuckolding after reading Marissa Redder's book on the lifestyle. He has erectile dysfunction and size concerns; they married and shifted to an arrangement where she takes outside lovers while he provides oral sex several times a week. She now runs the marriage.
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Architect
Three years ago (speaker says, "Three years ago, I was dating this really amazing guy.")
"Cuckolding" by Marissa/Marisa Redder (speaker: "read this book by Marissa Redder called Cuckolding")
Several times a week; sexual activity with the husband is oral only (speaker: "We're intimate several times a week. Of course, just oral with him").
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Hey, ladies. So I gotta share this wild journey I've been on for the past few years. It's kinda like a modern love story with a twist. Three years ago, I was dating this really amazing guy. He was thoughtful, generous, super handsome and had a great job as an architect. Things were good, but then we got intimate and honestly, I was super disappointed. He was like a baby carrot, fully erect. It was a major kind of disappointing. I was about to call it quits because I just couldn't see myself being satisfied long term. A baby carrot just doesn't cut it. Then out of nowhere, he drops a bomb. He's in love with me and doesn't want to lose me. But he suggests we try something new. It was called cuckolding. I had no idea what that even meant at the time. He told me to read this book by Marissa Redder called Cuckolding and honestly, it was a game changer. It explained that I could be married to a really great guy who satisfied me everywhere except in the bedroom. But with a cuckolding lifestyle, I'm free to have outside lovers to keep my intimate needs satisfied. I was surprised, to say the least. So we talked and he even said because of his size issue, he's gotten really good at giving women oral pleasure. Fast forward. We got married and honestly, it's been amazing. We live a cuckolding lifestyle and we're both really happy. We're intimate several times a week. Of course, just oral with him, but it works perfectly for both of us. He's happy not having performance pressure. And in a way I have my cake and eat it too. Since we got married, I have read a few more books by Marisa about female led relationships. And now I'm totally in charge of our marriage. I run the show. It's cool. He enjoys his role as my supportive husband and I like being in control. At first I was a bit embarrassed about our lifestyle, but I really thought about it. Honestly, who cares what anyone else thinks? If it makes us happy and works for us, that's all that really matters. So if you're in a similar boat with a baby carrot boyfriend or husband who you love and you don't want to break up, maybe give a cuckolding lifestyle a shot. It is different from the norm, but it may be the ticket for you. It worked for us and we're really happy. Honestly, my best girlfriends are jealous. So think about it as an option.
