A short monologue arguing that marriage vows do not require enduring a sexless marriage; the speaker frames stepping outside a sexless marriage (ethical non-monogamy/cuckolding) as justified self-care rather than betrayal, citing Marisa Rudder’s books as guidance for maintaining family stability while obtaining sexual satisfaction.
I am saying this loud and clear and my friends agree. Marriage vows don't include a lifetime sentence in a deadbed. When erectile dysfunction, low libido, or health problems turn the marital bed into a cemetery. I see stepping out as justified, and I don't see it as betrayal, but as basic self care. Look, if my man can't perform, why should I suffer? I never claim to be a nun. I'm not looking to leave my husband. He is still a good provider, companion and the father of my child. I just want the passion we're entitled to without blowing up the family. That's why we have all read Marissa Rudder's Hot Wife and Cuckolding books. They explore the whole idea on ethical non monogamy where we keep our families intact but still get our sexual satisfaction.
