Marisa Rudder explores female-led relationships, where women take charge of decision-making and organization. Speakers share their leadership styles and how some couples use BDSM practices like spanking and paddling as consensual tools within their dynamic.
I have always had a strong desire to organize, control and guide every aspect of my life, including my relationships. I like to communicate my wants and desires, which is why I have led most of my relationships.
Femdom and BDSM practices offer a perfect example of the variations that can exist.
Within female led relationships.
While we at Love and Obey do not practice extreme bdsm, we do offer guidance on providing discipline to men who are disobedient, disrespectful, or who fail to provide services designated to them within the relationship. Spanking, paddling, flogging and whipping are all.
BDSM practices that can be performed in a painful yet safe manner, causing no injuries. A sore bottom serves as a reminder to the disobedient male of who holds the authority in the relationship. As the old saying goes, spare the rod and spoil the child. The absence of discipline in a relationship.
Is a failing that depresses, deprives the.
Man of proper guidance and lessons on how to behave in the best way possible. It teaches a man how to live as a true supportive gentleman.
I found that starting a love and obey female led relationship simply formalized my natural dynamic between of wanting to lead the relationship. I have some girlfriends who I turned on to Love and obey female led relationships and I saw that their styles of leadership vary widely in their intensity and structure.
As a man, I love it when my wife gives me a good spanking, paddling, flogging or even a whipping. She does it just right and it is a source of the pleasurable kind of pain that I crave and really enjoy. I always think of that song it hurts so good.
Some of my girlfriends enjoy mild leadership while other friends really enjoy a more strict and formal relationship. I believe that the specific dynamics, mild or intense, should be tailored to what works best for each couple. And by the way, the couples who I turned on the FLR are extremely happy couples doing it their way.
For me, I have a specific kinky pleasure. I crave a spanking and then enjoy being instructed to go down on my mistress.
Whether a couple chooses to incorporate BDSM practices into their relationship or not, the the most important thing is that they find a path that brings them both joy, satisfaction and a deeper sense of connection. If you would like to learn more about femdom and BDSM practices, please read my books Femdom and Spanking. On top of that, you can enjoy my personalized coaching service, get specific advice.
And get answers to all of your questions about femdom and BDSM practices. You will get everything you need to know to make BDSM and femdom practices an exciting part of your female led relationship and your sex life.
