Marisa Rudder walks through how to introduce male chastity in a relationship: start with short periods, tease, then condition release on completing chores. She recommends her book and frames the practice as a way to build obedience and devotion through rewards like oral worship and controlled sex.
Hey girl. So you've started your own female led relationship and decided to celebrate Locktober. You are going to put your guy in chastity. Yes, Queen. I know it's a whole new vibe, but trust me, it's about taking control and making your relationship exactly how you want it. First things first. If you haven't, I would read Marissa's book, A Guide to Male Chastity and figure out what you're craving. Do you want him to handle the chores? Dishes, laundry, cleaning the bathroom, Whatever makes you feel empowered and in control. Once he's been in chastity for a few days, like a week max, tease him a little. Let him get super horny. Then tell him you might let him out for a day or two if he's willing to start doing chores for you. Make it fun. Maybe even write out a list of what you want him to do and have him sign it. That way it's official. When he agrees, let him out of chastity and reward him with some oral worship. Yes, girl. That's the reward for being obedient and doing his chores well. Keep praising him when he does a good job. And if he's been a good boy, you can even say he's earned some penetrative sex. But only if he's been obedient and diligent. If he's really impressing you, tell him he's such a good boy that he'll stay in chastity. But he can still perform daily oral worship for you. Make sure he thanks you. It's all about that power dynamic, babe. Remember, chastity isn't just about control. It's about training him to be totally obedient and devoted to you. Explain that he's now your submissive and you're his master. Gender neutral of course. He'll love the feeling of serving you and knowing you're in charge. Dive into Chastity, A guide to Male Chastity and figure out what you're craving. You got this, Queen.
