Stop Setting Goals, Do this...

7 Aug 2026 · 1 min
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In this brief motivational talk, Mel Abraham argues that traditional goal‑setting is ineffective because goals are hopeful, contingent on motivation, and easily abandoned when challenges arise. He proposes replacing goals with "wills" or declarations—firm commitments that are framed as already decided outcomes and rooted in one's identity. A will does not depend on fluctuating motivation; it persists through hard times because it is tied to the self, not a calendar entry. Abraham urges listeners to stop adding new, likely‑to‑be‑ignored goals and instead make meaningful declarations, truly mean them, and pursue them with determination.

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