Negative Energy Is Sabotaging You—Here’s How to Fix It

Let's stop recycling negative energy. We can recycle old stories of frustration, anger, mistakes. What if we recycle positive stories and that creates— literally creates the different vibrational energy? Think of our brains and nervous systems. It's like an antenna. Whatever channel we turn to is what we are going to receive.

Do you do like Um, ongoing coaching as well, or is it mainly focused on the weekends?

Yeah, I work with a select number of VIP one-on-ones. I actually, uh, one of the clients is, is from the same real estate mastermind group that I'm going to have a session with here in a few, in about 30 minutes. Um, but I do some of that, and then I do group sessions where we focus on, uh, I really have two main pathways: rewiring your relationship with money is one of my group programs. So I have that coming up and kicks off into this month actually. And then rewiring your whole nervous system, subconscious identity, beliefs, alter ego. We do some alter ego work in the money one as well and at the retreats. And one-on-one, I go through all that and then we work on finding your deepest area of genius so you find your natural pathway to build wealth, fulfillment, and passion in your life. Um, and then just basically get unstuck, you know, so you can show up in your highest and fullest. But a lot of it is identity work, because if I can help you anchor to this identity that's way over here that is true, just as true as the part of you— actually more true than the part of you that shows up today. Like, I think the one, the shadow self that we show up in, the half-ass, or where we're kind of like not giving it our all, or we're playing small, or imposter Like, that's the real imposter. The person over here that is our highest, most powerful magnetic version— I can often see that person at the retreats because they have access to new dimensions, and they also see that person much more clearly because they have access to new dimensions. So, um, so yeah, I love, I love doing one-on-one or group. Uh, my one-on-one is a little bit more limited, as you can imagine, but Yeah.

Is there a way to unlock some of that identity without the assistance, assistance of the, like, plant medicine?

Yeah, definitely. It's, it, you know, the plant medicine is just a tool. I think it's the most powerful tool for creating rapid subconscious growth. Now, you can get equivalent effects in rewiring your nervous system and your subconscious and neuroplasticity with, say, 6 to 12 months of very steady and consistent Transcendental Meditation. But you would, you know, you might spend a couple hundred hours doing that versus what I could do in, you know, 30 hours. And in a single weekend, I can get you the same result you might get in 6 to 12 months. So that's, um, and then of course if you do 10 years of therapy, you could probably get there too. But, uh, most of my clients want to go a little bit faster, so that's, that's why. Um, but sometimes the, the shift will happen just from an NLP session as well. So like, we don't necessarily have to do that. It just depends on— I don't recommend that particular, you know, plant medicines and psychedelics for everybody. You have to use it wisely and cautiously, and it's not— it's safe for the vast majority of people, um, when used under the right guidance, um, because it's a powerful tool. It's like, you know, you got a race car in your garage. It's not— you aren't driving a Ford Escape. You've got a freaking race car. Drive it cautiously and wisely.

What would you say are the things that, you know, people, um, ultimately need to work on to allow for something like this to be successful in their lives?

Well, I think for, for if they— someone comes to my retreat, for example, I know the retreat will be successful in helping them make beautiful shifts if they come with a spirit of openness and just trust the guidance, because I've— trust the process, you know, we like to say. So because I know, I know in the environment I've created a great recipe. I've created a great recipe of a safe container where you have space to be vulnerable, space to be real. You are encouraged and invited to in a way that you maybe have never experienced before. You feel love. You get literally, when you're on some of these medicines, you get flooded with love and empathy for others but also for yourself, because you know, so many of us, we, we're, we're the harshest critic of ourselves, right? Especially women. You guys are so hard on yourselves internally. And, and then when you get— so almost think of like you get to recalibrate. And my wife, for example, she was a super anxious person, hypervigilant, uh, panic attacks 3 or 4 times a week, you know, suicidal ideation, all that stuff. Her nervous system was wired to like an 11 out of 10. Now it's down to like a 4 out of 10. So we've had to take it down and down and down. She's, she's a much calmer and centered and connected now. Afterwards, we call it integration. We have to do the continuation of the courageous steps, leaning in, trusting, uh, leading from this heart connect, like this heart and mind connection. Not most of us are a little bit too much in our heads, you know, and we say in life, get in your head and you're dead. Um, because your heart has a lot of wisdom. That's that intuition side as well. Um, and we need both. It's, it's— I, I was too much in my head, and now I'm much more in my body as well, in my heart.

How do you navigate, like, I'm gonna call it a rational world, especially in business and still remain connected with your heart?

It takes practice. It takes awareness of when you're getting out of, um, out of what we would call coherence. All right. And, and also this takes awareness of like, hey, there's some toxic people that are not going to lead you to fulfillment. Like, I even— a lot of the people I've worked with from Synergy, that they're not toxic themselves, but they were in relationships partnerships with people outside of Synergy that were like, this was not really where they wanted to go. And if you keep going down a path that is not in alignment and attuned to your higher self, to greater levels of joy, to— and greater levels of building wealth in the way that you want, it's— you're going to be acting in incongruence, and your body will unconsciously even resist that. So it can take it take practice. It can also take courage of vulnerability, of inviting. If you're, you know, in a partnership or marriage or whatever, where you invite your partner, hey, you know, let's— what if we try this? What if we— what if we, for example, one of the habits we talked about the retreat, let's stop recycling negative energy. We can recycle old stories of frustration, anger, mistakes. What if we recycle positive stories, and that creates— literally creates the different vibrational energy. Think of our brains and our nervous systems, it's like an antenna. Whatever channel we turn to is what we are going to receive. If I go to ESPN, I'm going to receive ESPN. If I go to the Crisis News Network or CNN, I'm going to receive— it's going to ramp me up into, into a crisis state. If I go into Gaia or National Geographic, it might It's going to create a different experience. So, but our nervous systems are that way too. The people that we interact with, the, uh, the belief systems, you know, our beliefs are really thoughts that we've thought repetitively enough that they're hardwired in. They can be rewired, but that you— we have to do some deeper digging to rewire a belief. Um, uh, So, you know, it's just what really the question is, what, what vibration do you want to live your life at? One of scarcity or abundance? One of joy or one of stress? One of peace or one of strife? One of love or one of dog eat dog, you know?