How To Send Your Twin Soul Love Separation or No/Low Contact #twinflameseparation #twinsouldynamics

Hey there, sovereigns! Monica Grace from cardreadingqueen.com here. Today I'm doing a video on how you can send your twin soul love even if you are in separation with them, even if you are in no or low contact with them, how you can still send them love. So this is going to be ideal for you if you, um, are coming up on a birthday with your twin soul, or maybe a holiday like Valentine's Day is a popular one. Any holiday that is focused on romance and love. And so you can do this at any time. You can also do this during the new moon. And so what we're going to do is we're basically just going to set up a simple ritual. It's very mix and match, and I'll kind of tell you how to mix and match throughout the video. It's going to be a really simple ritual, and you're going to be able to write that person a letter or otherwise send them a message using some ritual tools. So the first thing we're going to start with is the crystals and the stones. So I've got a spread laid out here, and I'm going to explain to you what I have. This section right here is all— it's the 7 chakras, and it's the right stones for each of those chakras. And then I have a couple other piles here, and then I have this selenite wand at the top, and I will explain that to you. So the reason you want to bring crystals into your ritual is really just because they are able to hold energy, and so they're able to boost the signal of this message that you're going to be sending your twin. Um, I do want to say that if you don't have the stones, I highly recommend just getting a, um, an oracle deck, and this is the one that I recommend. I have a couple crystal decks, and they're all good. Like, get, get whatever you can get, basically. But this crystal deck is really great. So what you can do is, if you don't have the actual crystal, you can just do a card with the crystal, and it can serve the same purpose. So this one's selenite. I have selenite here and here. And then you can go through, you know, this has a lot of different really cool stones that you wouldn't necessarily have on hand. So I really like this one, this particular deck. You could also— and this is a second deck that I highly recommend that's not specific to crystals, but I want to show you guys anyway. This is my friend Julie's deck, and Julie is over at White Witch Academy. So this is her modern oracle deck. And it has, you know, a really similar idea. So it's not just crystals, it's actually all sorts of witchy things that you could pull in. So like graveyard dirt, sunflower, and this is a whole book to go with it that can, that can give you information. So, but I like it because it has a lot of different categories. So it has like a yellow candle, for example, so that way if you don't have a yellow candle on hand, you're able to use it. It has, you know, jasmine oil, smoky quartz, so it has just a bunch of stuff that is really useful. And so this is great if you are doing a ritual on the road or if you just don't have the materials on hand because it can be a little challenging to get those. So, um, this deck, if you're interested, you want to go to whitewitchacademy.com and you will find this probably on the website. I think it might be in its last printing. I'm not sure, or she might be rebranding it. I'm not totally sure what she's doing exactly, but this is— this is a great deck as well for travel. So I'm just going to go through these crystals really quick, and the reason I have the 7 chakras up here is because I've been talking a lot about how the masculine and the feminine journeys really follow the 7 chakras. And so the masculine seems to go from the root chakra to the sacral chakra, solar plexus, to the heart, while the feminine goes crown, third eye, throat chakra, heart. And what the ideal thing to do here is, if you can identify where, um, where either you are at or where your partner is at, where your twin soul is at, then you can include the correct stones for that portion. And so that's going to help you heal that particular area, that particular chakra. Um, so I will go through these real quick. So in this set, this is for the root chakra. This is like base. Um, this is called— this one's mookite, and I think it's a type of jasper. But basically it's, it's really well— it's a little bit more purple than would typically be, but it works really well for the base or the foundation root chakra stuff. This is a solid red jasper, and I have several of those. And then this one is, um, oh, it's called bloodstone. So this one's bloodstone, and even though it's green, I actually like this one a lot. So bloodstone is known for being good for the root chakra, but I like this set that I have here because it's got a lot of green in it, which matches the heart chakra. So this is great if you're trying to build foundation with your twin soul right now. This is really good stone to use. So again, kind of just look through your stones. Whatever you have is fine, but these are the ones that I had on hand that I'm using for this. For the sacral chakra, so one of the stones that is great for it would be like an orange calcite. I don't have one right now. Another one— so what I have here is pyrite. Also known as fool's gold. This— and this is a good one for the sacral chakra as well. I— if you want to get the orange calcite, it would basically look like this. This is a yellow calcite, but it would just be more orange. So for the solar plexus chakra, like I just said, yellow calcite here. This one is a citrine, and these you can get these really anywhere. And by the way, if you're, if you're like, well, how do I get these stones? You can very easily order them online. Go to any new age shop, they'll pretty much have them. And these are also the really affordable ones, just so you know. I don't, I don't tend to buy the more expensive ones. So yeah, so that's yellow citrine. For the green, this one is a— it's called an aventurine or aventurine, green aventurine. And I have several of those. I also have this one, and this one is um, this one's called an Amazonite, or Amazonite, and it's a green one. This typically comes in a more aqua color, but this— either of these work for the heart chakra. Um, kind of, you can kind of pick. And again, I, you know, I also use these for the heart chakra just because they have a lot of green in them. Um, if you're looking for like heart chakra foundation representation Um, this is the throat chakra, so this is ideal if you're having communication issues. So I pretty much— if you're in separation or no low contact, I would pretty much encourage you to get at least some blue into your ritual. Um, so this one is, um, this one's called sodalite, blue sodalite. This is the raw form of it, and I, I typically have this sitting out. You probably see it, um, in some of my other videos, so you can get a whole huge bag of this for like very little money. This one's lapis lazuli. This is like one of my favorite ones to use. I just think the stone itself is so pretty, um, so I'm pretty consistently using that one as well. And again, throat chakra— this is if you want to reopen that contact and that communication, this is the ideal one to use. For the third eye chakra, I have amethyst here. This is, this is pretty much my go-to just because amethyst is so easily found. Now, sometimes I see this, this amethyst switched with the crown chakra, so sometimes I'll see amethyst for crown chakra as opposed to for the third eye chakra. It's kind of up to you how you like to do it. For the crown chakra, I have clear quartz. Clear quartz as well is a very good stone, just like a general purpose stone, so you can use that for anything. So I have clear quartz, and then this is a selenite tower. So these— this I think I got at like a garden place because people put them in their yards for, uh, just for, you know, energetic protection. But this is a very grounded, um, a grounded stone as well. And basically you would use this— it's like it holds— it basically does not hold energy, so you can use it to, um, charge your stones or to like cleanse your stones. You can also again use it for protection. It's a very common one used for protection. And I— so I have this, I have this tower, and then I also have the selenite wand right here. And so with the selenite wand, what you would do is you can put it out like next to a windowsill, and you can just set your crystals on it that you want to— like, let's say you want to just cleanse them, you can just set them on it for like 20 minutes and you can cleanse it very easily. All right, um, I also have 3 additional piles, so let me explain what these are. Um, and oh, I'll start— I'll start over here because this as well, um, this is rose quartz, by the way. So I have a little tower of it and then the individual pieces. If you are doing anything with romance, I highly recommend having some sort of rose quartz on your ritual altar. It, it's basically a stone for love, so kind of want to use that. I've also seen people, instead of using clear quartz, use rose quartz for the crown chakra. So this is what you have on hand, feel free to use that for the crown chakra because it serves the same purpose. This other stone is called— this one is a shamanic dream stone, and I think it's just, you know, I think it's basically just a quartz stone, but what it is, it's ideal for anything having to do with the lovers. So this is another good romantic stone to use, and if you are able to get one, I highly recommend grabbing one of these. Now this, this, um, middle pile, what it is here is I, I just got some— I basically got some heart-shaped stones just for some, you know, symbolic purposes, thematic. This one, for example, I charged this. There was like a, um, solar eclipse that came through. This was charged in that solar eclipse, and I happen to live in Missouri, so it like ground zero of the solar eclipse. Very, very cool thing to see. So I got that. This one, um, I don't know where I got this one, but I'm assuming it's pyrite of some sort. You can kind of see that. These, I just— I don't even know what these stones are, but basically two of them for love, of course. I also have these two hearts that are magnets, so this is ideal if you're doing some sort of ritual where you want to come back in communication. You would kind of like place them at two sides of your ritual altar, and then at some point during your ritual, you would put them together to symbolize the recommunication opening up. So then this last pile is— these are stones that are ideal for protection and for defense. So if you're trying to defend against something, these are the stones you'd want to use. So this first one is called Rhodonite, and it's not quite a black stone, but you can get these in the tumbler form. Pretty— they kind of come— you can see this one's like purplish. This one's quite a bit darker, like kind of a, you know, kind of like a blackish green. They kind of— they come in a couple of colors, but you can get them in tumbler form. This one, I think— I'm not sure if this is black onyx. Or black obsidian. It's one of the two, and either way, either of those stones are really good for this. So, any stone that's black, and there are tons of them. There's obsidian, there's onyx, there— I'm actually struggling to come up with a third one, but there are many, many black stones that you can use. So, any black stone is going to be ideal for a defensive or protective portion of your ritual. So if you're trying to, you know, like if you're trying to get unblocked, for example, these would be good just to, you know, kind of clear out that negativity. Same as if somebody's like trying to come into your relationship, these would be good to kind of defend against that person. The next thing I want to show you is how to do some lighting. So basically how you would incorporate candles into your ritual. And so before I start, I obviously have to give a disclaimer to be very careful as you light candles. Not recommending anything in terms of lighting candles. You just need to keep an eye on it, keep it away from flammable surfaces, flammable, you know, chemicals or anything that could catch on fire. So I'm going to show you some of the things that I use for rituals. So the first thing is the actual candles. You can use just like birthday candles. You can also use these flat candles from Home Depot— or not, sorry, not Home Depot. You probably get these at Home Depot. I get a lot of mine from IKEA, so you can get different colors. Same with these birthday candles. You can also get ritual candles that are much basically just like thicker and taller than this, though if you want to kind of save save money, basically. You can just get these like simpler ones. Additionally, I have a couple surfaces that I use. So this one is, um, it's called a gat or a gate. Um, this is— it's a type of crystal and it's basically just a flat piece. Um, you can see that this one has a couple, you know, a couple cracks or like a little hole in it. No big deal. Um, this This is petrified wood. So again, it's a stone. You can see on the side, but this was originally wood. And I picked this up— that's another thing, if you want to get some of these stones, you can pick up pieces at crystal and gem shows if those come around to your area. Just Google that and Google your area. Typically you can find them, and I've gotten really good deals. Like this piece, I think was it was like $20, $25, not bad, and it was, it was far cheaper than if I had purchased it in a spiritual shop or store. I also have this, which is, it's a little cast iron piece that I got. I just got it online, and it's, it's like a mini cauldron is what they're called, so I ordered mine off of Amazon. It even came with free shipping even though it's like probably super expensive for them to ship, And then what I have here, this is just— it's a cloth that I don't really use, and I've already like burned it in the past. So I just, you know, kind of use this again to protect my table as I am using this. So there are a couple things you can do. The first is, I guess we'll start here. So this is kind of a fun thing. So I have a little lighter here. But what you can do is, um, you can basically stick these, um, straight up candles, you can stick them to your, um, either petrified wood or a, a ghat. All right, so I'll show you how to do that. So what you're going to do is you're going to light the end of it and then you're going to quickly just kind of stick it to the stem. Okay, so I'm just lighting this to get it I made a little drip there and then voilà, it's stuck. So I'll kind of show you this a little bit closer. Oh, here we go. And as you can see, it's stuck to the board. Now I certainly would not move it up and down as you're lighting it. So as you light this though, it will burn down to the end and it's actually completely safe to just burn it all the way to the end, and it will burn up the wax at the, at the end of this. And then any remaining wax, you can just kind of scrape off with your finger. So I will show you guys this as we do the rest of this. Okay, the second thing you can do is with this cauldron. So, um, you can— well, let me get another one. I also want to say that these candles, you can use them, um, symbolically, like same as the solar plexus or sorry, same as the chakra colors. So I got that and then stick it and it sticks perfectly. All right, so we will watch those kind of burn down. The second— yeah, the second thing you can do is you can burn in this cauldron. So what I'm going to do here just to show you, I will add a little bit of water. Now when you add water to these, you do have to make sure that you empty the water at the end and dry out the cauldron because this is cast iron, so you want that to be, you know, to be taken care of in the same way you would take care of a cast iron. So you can like oil it and whatever. Okay, so what you would do is you would take this, light it, then you can just kind of drop it in there and it will actually float. So that's kind of the cool thing about this, and you can get a couple in there if you want. I usually do like 1 or 2, and again, I choose the colors based on what I'm trying to either clear or what my focus for the ritual is. Now, um, these are going to be scented, just so you know. So, uh, just be aware that, you know, like this one was a green one, it's probably going to be like an apple-y, apple berry type of smell that's coming out of it. So just be aware of that as you do this. Now, um, the reason I'm gonna go into the next part of this, um, let me All right, so along with candles, I'm going to talk about essential oils. So this is another thing you can do if you want to add this in. And essential oils, you can pretty much buy them anywhere these days. So you can go to a spiritual shop, or you can just go to like Whole Foods, um, Target, like kind of anywhere. And they have this now. And so what I recommend is just getting— you can, you know, smell them when you go in, you can look at them. A couple that I have that are love related, we have Rose Absolute. This I'm pretty sure I got at Whole Foods. This one is called Come to Me, so it's like an attraction one, and then this one is just called Attraction, so it's literally an attraction one. And what you can do is you can actually diffuse these right in your cauldron. So what I'm gonna do, I'm gonna leave that one burning. So what you can, if you want to kind of heat up this cauldron, and again be careful with this because as you saw I kind of burned mine, but what you would do is you would just stick, you can get these candles, you can just kind of stick them right in here and it will warm up your your cauldron. Something else I do is I will put this cauldron on like the petrified stone and burn it there, and that kind of keeps, keeps it safer. So let me— you would do 3. I'll just do all 3 on here. So you're gonna do this, stick this right here, and then I'll do This one. And do this at your own risk, obviously. Be very careful. Um, so what I'm gonna do to diffuse this, I'm just going to do a little drop of each of these in here. And what you want to do, you want to do it into the water, not onto the candle. Yeah, so there I had 3 drops in there, and then you would, you keep going and you can do as many as you want. As this heats up, as this cauldron heats up, it will start to diffuse. So Pretty cool, um, and definitely really Instagram-worthy as well. So if you're excited about that aspect of it, um, very fun stuff to do. Okay, so I've cleared away some space and decided to focus just on the solar plexus chakra. So as you can see, everything here is yellow. I want to show you real quick, you can also, if you desire, you can wipe some essential oil onto your candle so you don't have to diffuse it. It's just if you want to still use it. So what you would do is you would take— this is just a— actually, it's a piece of toilet paper wadded up, so you can use this or a napkin or whatever. You just put a little bit of the essential oil on this, and then you would wipe it down on your candle. Just wipe it down. Everything is perfectly safe. And then you would do this again, and I will just do this. There we go. All right, that one's a little close to the edge. I'm not gonna light it, but typically would. So it's just a little close to the edge, so I'd probably reposition that. And then I have a couple candles on each side. I'm also not going to light those, um, just because, you know, fire hazard. Um, so I will set this side, um, and this aside as well. Okay, so whether— the next thing I want to talk about is different decks you can use. And so I have several here. These are all very romantic decks, and the spread that I recommend— so you can do a number of different spreads, um, and I have a bundle of tarot spreads. You can also use them for oracle cards. I have a bunch of spreads, and you can go to cardreadingqueen.com .com/freebies if you want to get those spreads. There's a free version of it, and then there's also a paid version of it on Etsy. And if you want that, then that's at cardreadingqueen.com/shop. Now the difference between those two is that the, um, the freebie, it gives you the spreads, uh, and it tells you what each one means, and then it gives you a couple journaling questions for each one. The— if you, if you're a little bit newer to this and you want to get the Etsy version, it's super affordable, um, totally worth it. And I go through on video and walk you through what each one, um, means. So I go through each spread with you, um, just to give you a little bit more information. And then there's a couple extra spreads in that bundle as well, so those are like bonus spreads. And then, um, I also have more journaling questions for each spread. So if you're interested in that, go to cardgreenqueen.com/shop. If you just want to get an idea of what it is, go to cardgreenqueen.com/freebies and you can sign up and you'll get the spreads for free. So I'm just gonna go through decks real quick. So this one is called The Enchanted Tarot. It's really gorgeous. I— this is like my favorite tarot deck for romance readings, and these cards huge, by the way. So like, I have, um, not small hands, and I struggle to hold this deck, and I have to shuffle it really weird in order to make it work. I also recommend this deck called The Whispers of Love, Josephine Wall. Her art is just gorgeous. Uh, I— this is like by far one of my favorite decks. Um, I'll show you my very favorite image if I can find it real quick. Um, but yeah, this deck is gorgeous and I highly recommend this deck. You can find it on Amazon. I will also put links to all of these decks in the description so that you can see it. Here's my favorite, the Union of Hearts. This is my very favorite card in this deck. Um, it's, you know, there's a connection of love that defies explanation. I mean, how perfect is that for twin souls? So this is one of my favorites. Also have the Journey of Love Oracle card deck. This is one that I just recently got, but I still really love it. And we have this Lovers Oracle. It's a heart-shaped deck, um, and this— who's the— I forget who the, um, yeah, Toni Carmine Salerno. Um, her artwork is also really beautiful. So these are really cool cards, and they have these little messages on the back. Um, so let's put that away. The Romance Angels Oracle Deck, um, I think they— so, you know, there was all this stuff going on with Doreen Virtue. I think that they have reissued this, um, and it's, it's going for a lot because it's a very popular deck. I have the old one, the Doreen Virtue version, um, so this— there may be changes to this um, but definitely, you know, you can find this one on Amazon as well. This is— I don't personally actually love this deck that much, but this is by far the most popular twin soul deck that I see in readings. So this is the one that people are using when they talk about romance angels. And then this is called, um, The Romantic Tarot. So this, again, this is not my favorite tarot deck, um, but it is a really— has really pretty pictures. I don't feel like the pictures really match the descriptions that well, but if you like Italian, it's got like all— it's all themed by Italian cities basically and like Italian culture. So if you like that, then this could be a really good deck for you as well. And so what you're going to do is you're going to pick, you know, one or a few of these. You can— if you have another tarot or oracle deck, you should use that as well. Definitely don't feel like you have to stick to these decks, or even use a love-related deck, but just use any deck you want. And then I will show you my very favorite spread. And what you're going to do is you're just going to use this spread to kind of, um, get some clues as to what's going on in your connection. So this spread is called the Infinity Spread. It is not in my freebies, so I'm just sharing it with you. It is in my bundle on Etsy though. I go through it in detail and you can get the drilling prompt for it. Um, but basically it's going to look like an infinity. So you've got a center card, you've got 2 cards on each side. Let me make sure I'm still in view. All right, we gotta scoot this out of the way and scoot this. There we go. Okay, and then you're gonna have this this. So these two sides are— this would be you, this would be your twin soul, and this, this, and then two down at the bottom for guidance. Um, so this is a really cool, really cool and really beautiful spread. Um, the reason it's called Infinity is because it makes a little infinity like this. So, but definitely any, any spread you want. This is one of my favorites to do. You can find tons of spreads on Pinterest as well, so if you're looking for just a spread, you know, for free, you can also find obviously my own tarot spread bundle is available at cardgreenqueen.com/freebies. So now that you have all of your ritual pieces in place, you've got the candles, you've got the stones, you've got the deck, the essential oils, the deck that you received a spread and a message from, that now is the time to do the sending of love. And so what you're going to do, I just pulled some colored pencils. Since we're going with yellow, I kind of kept that theme. And then I pulled the pink and red one as well, just for romance. And so what you're going to do is you're just going to write out a message. So now that you've kind of come into a peace peaceful place and received everything you need. And I recommend— see how this candle is almost at the bottom? And so that this will take like 10 to 15 minutes for a birthday candle like that. I would recommend, you know, trying to do this within just like a 15 to 20 minute time period. And so what you're going to do is you're just going to write. And so you'll say like, dear twin soul, and then, you know, and so on. So you're just gonna send whatever message you need. Um, definitely keep it high vibration, keep it very loving. If there's something you need to share with that person, feel free to share it at this point. Um, you know, you can even talk to them like whatever message you received from your tarot or oracle reading, you can talk to them about that. You can talk to them about healing, about blocks, about wounds, whatever you'd like. But again, just keep it very loving and high vibe. And so then you're gonna sign it, and at that point you're going to, you know, light some candles if you can, and you want to do this in a safe area. Obviously, and then you can go ahead and burn that. And so what it does, um, burning the letter, uh, you know, it basically, uh, it, it's, um, going to go into the universe and then it will reach your twin soul. Now, as it reaches your twin soul, don't expect them to necessarily understand it in the conscious, um, 3D. What they're gonna understand is the energy of it. They're gonna understand what you meant in your heart. And they're going to have that clear cognizance of the things that you mentioned in this letter. And so it might take a little bit of time for this, um, to go out. So the postal service for the universe is, you know, not immediate, just to be clear. But, uh, yeah, I think within the next couple weeks, or, you know, maybe the next couple months, of course, because time is an illusion, you should see this content moving, moving forward in your twin soul. So they will understand this. And as you can see, perfect timing because our candle over here has gone out. So you can see the smoke coming up off of it as well. I'm not sure if you can see that on the camera, but, um, yeah, so I'll show you this and just show you like it's perfectly safe. So as you can see, here's the little nub, and I can just pretty much— I might need to get a tool for this, but you can pretty much just scratch it off. Yeah, it's just coming right off. Um, and I'll, you know, I'll do a little bit more to clean that up, but you can see it just kind of comes right off, crumbles off, um, perfectly. So that is everything I wanted to share about Sending Love. I hope you enjoy doing some of these rituals. Again, make sure if, if, you know, don't, don't go out and buy a ton of stuff. I just wanted to show you how you could use stuff that you already have to send this and to make the, um, just to like really heighten the energy because all of these pieces are gonna like boost that energy to send this message. Um, and, you know, use what I would recommend is to use what you have. And if you don't have much, definitely get some of these ritual decks. So like my friend Julie's that I was talking about earlier, you can get the, you know, this deck, the Crystal Wisdom Healing Oracle. Any decks that have, uh, some of these symbols in them, you can use those perfectly fine, and it does the same exact thing. And, you know, be— the other thing is be conscious of color and be conscious of what each thing represents to you and just bring, you know, bring it all in and get it get it all situated. Now, this should only take you about 20 minutes to do, so don't overthink it. If all, you know, if all you have are a couple pieces, you don't have essential oils, you, you know, even if you only have paper, that's, that's perfectly fine. Just use what you have. So that's all for this video. I hope it's been helpful to you. Thank you so much for watching and have a beautiful and blessed day.