How Twin Soul Work Handles the Concept of Free Will (Can You Manifest a Specific Person?) #twinflame

Monica Grace explains why you can't manifest a specific person through ego-driven desire, only through heart-aligned intention. Manifesting someone requires clearing your wounds, recognizing yourself clearly, and cultivating unconditional love, not controlling their free will.
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Hey there, sovereigns! Monica Grace here from cardreadingqueen.com. This topic is going to be about how twin soul work handles the concept of free will. So I encourage you, before we get into this content, to connect with Card Reading Queen on one of our many social media channels. And if you're already connected to us, consider connecting to one of our other accounts. So we are at— we're on Facebook at facebook.com/cardreadingqueen. YouTube, you can go to cardreadingqueen.com/youtube. You can also just search for Card Reading Queen there and you should find us. Instagram, we are Card Reading Queen. Twitter, we are Monica LeonelleleleCRQ. On Pinterest, we're Card Reading Queen. On Tumblr, we do have a Tumblr called Daily Twin Soul. It's at dailytwin tumblr.com, and that also shares other twin soul resources that we like and recommend. And then on LinkedIn, we are at linkedin.com/company/cardreadingqueen. So please stay connected. As you stay connected, you'll be able to receive our free content and updates, and this free content is going to help you stay in the vibe of your twin soul journey and move closer into union. Additionally, we have a number of freebies, some of which we may mention through this content. So if you want to grab those, go to cardreadingqueen.com/freebies. We try to just keep everything on the one page, so you can go through the list of, um, potential freebies and you can sign up for the ones that are most relevant and interesting to you. So again, that's cardreadingqueen.com/freebies. So let's get into this background regarding this topic. So what's going on with this topic of free will? Basically, many people believe that you could manifest money and that money is abundant. It's— you have endless resources of money, and they believe that you could do something like manifest $1 million. But they do not believe that you can take those same principles that you would use to manifest a million dollars and apply them to, let's say, your twin soul. Um, but they specifically, they do not think that you can apply those same concepts to a person. Um, and the, the explanation for this that is common in, um, the law of attraction circles is that it's a concept called free free will. So the idea is that people have free will while objects don't, and the question is, are these two things truly different according to the Law of Attraction? And my answer is no. So we are going to explain what's actually going on here. So let's just start with this basic question: what can you actually manifest? So what you can manifest is anything that's truly in your heart as a desire and that is truly meant for you. Now, that sounds really simple, but let's say that what I believe is in my heart is Ryan Gosling as my twin soul. So we're gonna, we're gonna get into that example. Um, so some desires are heart and intuition driven, and these are the desires that, um, basically you have that desire, it is created in the world at the same time that you have the desire, the original desire, and the only thing that you have to do to get thing in the world, which, which already exists in the world for you. The only thing you have to do is heal the separation between you and that thing. So that is— and that's what manifestation is, that's what the law of attraction is. And these, these desires are specific because they're heart and intuition driven. Now, there are also desires that are ego-driven, so they are driven out of fear, scarcity, false beliefs, societal expectations, and so on. And these are things that you cannot manifest, or you may manifest them, but they are going to fall apart very quickly, or they are going to— they're going to just— you're going to very quickly realize that that's not actually what you want. So I'll give you some examples, and this is specifically from my career. So I had a very ego-driven desire to be successful in— but not success as defined by myself, success as defined by society. So I entered the corporate world and I built up to a 6-figure career very quickly, first in software and then in marketing. And what ended up happening is I would get these really incredible jobs and then within a year they would fall apart in some way. So either I would end up quitting them or I would get fired from them. And so what was happening there, it took me— it basically took me a while to understand it, but what was happening there is that I was trying to claim something that wasn't actually mine because the desire was not true to who I am and to my heart. It was, um, it was very ego-driven. Like, I wanted the accolades, I wanted the money, I wanted the success, I wanted people to see me as a certain type of person. So I didn't have the best intentions for taking those jobs. Um, I wasn't trying to contribute value to the world through those jobs, and because they were ego-driven— so yeah, I was able to manifest them, but then I would lose them just as quickly because my vibration was not a match for them at the end of the day. And so this This is what happens with twin souls. Um, so like Ryan Gosling is my twin soul. Um, my vibration does not match Ryan Gosling being my twin soul. Um, and I— and that's like kind of an extreme example, but that's why I can't manifest him as my twin soul. Um, I could do a lot of crazy things and like try to meet him and try to seduce him and like all sorts of stuff, and maybe I can manifest him that way, but it would be a very ego-driven thing. And it would not, it would not ultimately last because it— you can't manifest something through fear and scarcity. So I hope that makes sense. Okay, so can you manifest a million dollars? Yes, you can, but only if you know it's truly in your heart and meant for you. If you try to manifest a million dollars through ego you are going to either never get it or you're going to lose it very quickly. Like, you're going to spend it or lose it some other way very quickly. So that— so you see that with the lottery. People try to manifest a ton of money through the lottery. They may be able to do it, but then it falls— it sometimes falls apart quickly because they didn't have the vibration of that money. Um, so my point being, it's actually very much the same between twin souls and between money. All right, so let's talk about how this concept applies to twin souls more deeply. So how do you manifest your twin soul? So first of all, you are meant to attract the twin soul you desire in your heart, but it's got to be heart-driven and not ego-driven. Your twin soul is you. This is really important to understand. You have to be able to see yourself clearly to truly recognize your twin soul. So what that means is you have to clear your ego. In other words, you cannot manifest your twin soul from an ego-driven place. Um, so again, if I were to try to manifest Ryan Gosling as my twin soul, it's not going to work because that is, um, I have to clear my ego around my twin soul and I have to see myself clearly. And luckily in this, in this example, I do see myself clearly and I know that I am not, um, Ryan Gosling's— like, I'm not, you know, his— what he's looking for. I'm not in his social circles. I don't have the success that he has. And so I see myself clearly, um, and it's not like to put myself down. It's also that I don't want to be I don't want his lifestyle, you know. I don't want to be a twin soul with a celebrity. I don't want to deal with his fans. I don't want to deal with, you know, his career and his travel. I don't want to do red carpets and like have to be, you know, on like crazy diets in order to look good on the red carpet so I can represent him. Like, there are just pieces of that that I don't want, and that's because I know myself. I've revealed my myself to myself, and then I can find a twin soul that's more suitable to me. Or really, it's not find the twin soul, it's that I can recognize my twin soul that is truly meant for me. Um, so you and your twin soul are designed to be together. You recognize your twin soul when you see yourself clearly. And if you recognize yourself and your twin soul, then you do not need to worry about free will at all. Though the healing work is gonna work for you regardless of their free will because the two of you are meant to be together. So you're claiming something that is already meant for you, and you, you can discern this because it's a heart-driven thing. It's not an ego-driven thing. So if you're wondering, am I, am I wanting this twin soul through ego or through my heart? The best thing you can do is to clear your own ego. So do the healing work, clear your ego, and then you will know, you will become closer to what is meant for you. So free will matters when you are coming from a place of control only. And so that's what the ego-driven desire is. It's really trying to control what is meant for you, trying to, trying to be God basically, trying to be your higher power instead of having that relationship with your higher power and, um, loving yourself the way your higher power loves you. Um, so there, there's a lot more to that, um, but I've kind of, I've kind of gone over some of it. But if you are interested in this topic of control, because I, I talk about this a lot, you can check out my core wound wheel work because, um, control is one of those 6 core wounds, and I talk about how it manifests in our lives. Um, okay, so we'll talk a little bit more about free will, and I just— and I'm kind of trying to hit this concept of free will from many different angles. So if you— let's talk. So let's say that you, um, are like, I don't care if free will— I don't care about somebody else's free will. So if you wish to encroach on someone else's free will you're taking away your own because we are all one. Um, so what does this mean to not have free will? Um, basically, so if you're— if you are taking away your own free will, by law of attraction, um, you would not be able to attract your twin. Sorry, if you were taking away their free will and your own free will as a result you cannot attract your twin, your, um, this person you think is your twin. You're only going to repel them. So by law of attraction, you can't have what you see as repellent in someone else. And so let me use money because I feel like that's an easier example. So if you wanted a million dollars and you, um, you tried to— you saw somebody with a million dollars and you said, oh, I'm so jealous of them, or 'Oh, they're just spending their money however they want. They're not even doing anything like good or of service to people with their money,' or, um, 'They're spending their money on the wrong things.' If you had those feelings towards somebody who had a million dollars, you would not be able to manifest that million dollars yourself. And the reason is because, um, you are like— you can't It's basically like you can't judge— if you're judging how someone else spends their million dollars, or somebody else who has a million dollars, you are also judging yourself as somebody who would have a million dollars. And then you, because of that judgment, you're not able to manifest. Um, it's, it's repelling the thing you want. Um, and the same is true for fame. It's true, it's true for everything. And that's how law of attraction works. So if you're like, I don't care about this person's free will, I'm gonna encroach on it anyway, then you're really just repelling them away. And so, said a different way, um, you will get your twin soul union through unconditional love only. You cannot get your twin soul union through ego and through fear. It's just— it's not going to happen. Um, so how can you have unconditional love for someone if you also want to control them? Um, how can you have the unconditional love for someone if you want to encroach on their free will? It's just not possible. So So again, you're going to repel them. And so if you're in this situation, send unconditional love to the person you think is your twin soul and love them no matter what they choose, even if it's not you. And if they're your true twin soul, then this unconditional love will attract them. And if it's not attracting them, then you have to consider whether this may be more of an ego-driven desire. So I don't say that— I say that very gently., just so that you can really become more discerning, of who your twin soul might actually be. All right, your twin soul is your higher power manifested in a person. Um, and so basically, you're, um, to get your twin soul, reveal the truth of who you are to yourself, um, grow closer to your higher power, and then your twin soul is going to be revealed to you. So don't let ego trap you in an illusion. So if I were obsessed with Ryan Gosling as my twin soul, that's allowing my ego to trap me in this illusion that he's my twin soul. And that is an extreme example, but, um, I see this with people in everyday life. So it may not be Ryan Gosling, but it may be somebody else for you. And maybe, um, that person, you think, uh, hey, like, this, this person's definitely my twin soul. Um, but they— that could be an ego trap for you. It could be an illusion that you are giving a lot of attention to, um, but it's ultimately not your true twin soul. And so do— it's, it's really a process of do your healing work, um, grow closer to your higher power. Your higher power could be your creator, God, the universe, source, spirit, anything else that you want to call him, her, it. And, uh, those two things are going to lead you to your twin soul. It's not going to be you seeking those things outside of yourself. All right, so let's talk about the next steps. Um, the question to consider after watching this or after consuming this is, how can you release attachment to the person you believe is your twin soul? I encourage you to try jot some stuff down for that question. Try the reflection journaling practice at cardreadingqueen.com/freebies. And I've mentioned a couple other things like the core wound wheel. Also, you can grab that at cardreadingqueen.com/freebies. So just go to cardreadingqueen.com/freebies and you can see all these different healing tools that I offer. They are completely free for you to download. So definitely check that out. You will sign up, you have to sign up for them and give your email address, but then we send that to you for free. And then you can leave a comment on this posting to share your upset, your story, or your results. By doing this, we're able to connect with you on that. So you can, you know, if there's, if there's some understanding that I can offer you, I will try to do that in the comments. Additionally, if you are on your twin soul journey, you may be interested in my book called Your Twin Soul Journey. It's at cardreadingqueen.com/twinsouljourney. You can see all the different places that the book is available through retailers. It's a guide to experience eternal, unconditional, harmonious, embodied love and union with your divine partner. So I go into detail on a lot of the stuff that I talk about on my social networks on my website, but it's all packaged in a really nice and easy read so that you can truly understand this twin soul journey at a deeper level. And I also, I offer lots of guidance as well in this book. I think it's a great read for really anybody who is finding themselves on this ascension journey or the twin soul journey. I hope you enjoyed this content. Thank you so much for giving your time and attention to this today. I think this is a really very interesting topic and hopefully very exciting for you as well. I hope you learned something and that this content was useful to you. Thank you so much for watching and have a beautiful and blessed day.
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