I Committed to the Twin Soul Journey and My Twin Committed to Someone Else! (Why It Happens) #union

Hey there, sovereigns! Monica Grace from cardreadingqueen.com here. Today's topic is, um, I committed to the journey and my twin soul committed to someone else. We're going to talk about why it happens. Um, so I've heard countless stories of this. You possibly have too. Uh, the gist of the story is that you commit, you know, somebody commits to their twin soul and that twin soul, um, commits to somebody else. Uh, like for example, you commit to your twin soul journey and then that person, you know, gets engaged or something, something like that. Or it could be like that person, um, has a baby with somebody else or gets pregnant with somebody else. It could be that person takes a job that is somewhere far away from you Um, you know, like they, they maybe live in your current town and then they decide to— you commit to them, they commit to, um, their career. And it could be all sorts of things. So, um, what's happening here, a lot of people think that when— that the way to get your twin soul to commit to you in the physical is to commit to them. So for example, people think that if you, you know, if like, let's say you guys are both in relationships, if you break up with your person, then they will break up with their person. And that it's, you know, that's how the journey works. Or if you move to where they live, then they will move to, or they will like be there and you, you know, you guys will be able to be in contact or whatever. Um, or, or like you move there and they will like commit. Um, I'm trying to think of some other examples. Uh, like you, you know, you decide, you just decide to, um, work harder at your healing and they will You know, they will break up with their— they will break out of their relationship if you just, you know, if you just commit more. Stuff like this. And so what's going on here is that the twin soul relationship and the dynamic between the twin souls, it's not physical. It's all energetic in terms of the core choice that the two mirror to each other. So, um, for example, if you're both in relationships and you break up with your person, they, um, they are not going to necessarily break up with their person. What's going to happen is whatever the energy is of you breaking up with your person, that energy goes up to the 5D. So it's like, um, or I guess it's already in the 5D, but so you break up That's the, that's the physical thing that happens. Um, the energy of it is, you know, whatever it is. Then that energy goes over to them in the 5D and it's mirrored. And then in the physical, they will do whatever is related to that, like whatever that energy is, they will then act that out. Um, and, and of course it happens quickly because you guys are mirroring the choice at the same time. Um, so that's, that's why stuff like you break up with somebody, your person, and, um, maybe you break up with them— if you're breaking up with them out of peace, then that's great. But if you broke up with them because you're clinging to your twin soul, then that's going to be a problem. Or if you broke up with them because you're trying to control your twin soul then that's gonna be a problem. So the energy then would be control and clinginess and neediness. And so then that gets ported over to that person, um, or like you guys are mirroring that. And so they're gonna do something controlling, needy, and clingy. And so what might they do then, um, as a result? They might get very like controlling and needy to their current relationship. So that's why something like you break up with your person can happen, like that's what you're doing, but then they seem to commit more deeply to their person. They're not committing out of love, they're committing out of that same energy of clinginess and neediness, but, um, it's just they're just projecting it onto that person. That they, uh, are in a relationship with right now. So that's what's going on there. Um, it's really that— it's really the energy and vibration, um, is still a match, um, but it is— it's, um, manifesting itself in the 3D in two different ways. Um, but at the core, the two of you are making the same choice. Um, so that, that's one example. So what if though you know that you are, you know, truly just going deeper into your commitment to your twin soul and to your twin soul journey? Um, so what, what that would be is you have the energy and vibration of commitment, and so, you know, that can— that kind of like doo-doo-doo goes up to the 5D, then doo-doo-doo goes over to your twin soul, and then doo-doo-doo comes down. And then what happens in the physical is they're also going to choose the energy and vibration of commitment. And what might they be committing to? If you are committing to yourself, for example, like you are committing to the thing you want the most, which is your twin soul, and you are making that commitment to do your healing work and love yourself and all that, then they may be doing— they will basically have the same energy and the same core choice, and they may be doing the same thing. But for them, loving themselves um, maybe that they are gonna, um, you know, go against what their parents want or go against what their girlfriend wants and take that, take that really great job opportunity. Um, or like they are feeling, you know, insecure, and so to, in order to love themselves, they want to build more security, so they're going to take that cool job offer. Um, it can be the same thing, you know, it's really the energy of what it is. Um, it can, it can be the same thing with like a relationship. So, you know, that energy of commitment is there, and so suddenly that, that twin soul, your twin soul, has expanded their ability for commitment, which is, you know, exactly what you're doing. They've expanded their ability to commit to love, and so but they are just projecting that onto their current relationship. Um, so they're like, oh, I can— I feel inside myself an expanded ability to commit to love. Um, here's my girlfriend who I've been with, or here's my boyfriend who I've been with, so maybe I'll ask them to marry me. And so it's just, uh, it— and I'm sorry, I'm laughing. It's, it's just like, um, it's really just that they, they are feeling that same energy and they're projecting it onto whatever is in front of them. Um, so in that case, you know, you've, you've done, um, a portion of the healing work, a big portion of the healing work, which is that expanded commitment to love. Um, and what that per— that twin soul of yours is missing would be like, um, the ability to see the truth in the situation. Because, you know, if they're— if they are projecting that commitment onto basically whoever's in front of them, that's not— that's like an area where they're not loving themselves, um, and not, not like willing to see the truth. Because, you know, clearly that person would not be their twin soul. So you— so like, there, there's still some healing to do there, um. And really, you know, that's, that's the question, right? Um, because when something like that happens, it can kind of cause some triggering and upset within you, um, because you expected a different result basically. Um, and it can make you feel very frustrated, very resentful, very angry. So, uh, really what I want to say about that is that this situation, like all situations, is just reflecting something back to you. And you can use that reflection to know your next move on your twin soul journey. So when something like this happens, it's really— there's really only one of two possibilities. Um, the first is that this person is definitely your twin and you're correct about your twin. You're not having a false twin experience. Um, because I think, I think a lot of people would think that, like, oh, I committed and then they did the opposite, like, they must not be my twin. So it's possible that they are your twin, um, and that, you know, the two of you just had the same core energy that expanded commitment Um, and so now you're facing, you know, so they, they had the two, the two different reactions or the two different manifestations of it in you versus your twin soul. And then, um, now you're at your next, uh, upset or your next trigger. Um, and something that the universe does sometimes is that, uh, it tests whether this is what you really want. And it does that in order to love you better, to firm up your commitment. So sometimes, you know, you've committed fully to the twin soul journey. They— the twin soul then does something else, does something like commits to their current relationship or whatever it is, um, which of course then shakes your commitment because you were expecting like, oh, I'm committing to them, I expect them to commit to me. Um, and so this is— it's just kind of testing you to see like, okay, are you actually committed to your journey, or were you just trying to use the commitment to control the situation or to control your twin soul? Um, so that, that could be the thing that's happening. The other thing that could be happening is, um, you have committed to your journey, and thus you're going deeper into your journey. And then, um, that twin soul, or the person you believe to be your twin soul, is making a different choice than you. Um, and you know, because of that, you can then realize that that may be a false twin. And so the way to discern that, I think— I mean, I think the number one way to discern anything is always to trust your intuition. Intuition. So definitely do that first. But what I have seen, it really depends on whether the choice is, is on the surface versus a core choice of their soul. And that's, that's where I think you can see, like, is this real or not, I guess. And it's kind of the best way to think about it. Um, and so is the choice— so how do you tell if the choice is surface? Um, I'm trying to think of an example. So I would say like, you know, is— okay, here, here's the— it's really about intention. It's about what is the person's true intentions. Um, so if you can look at that twin soul and see like, oh, they they have committed to expanding in their love for themselves, but they're just projecting that love onto their current relationship even though it's a terrible relationship, then that's— that could be like a very surface choice where it's like, you know, that if you just keep doing your healing, then you will, you know, that engagement will fall apart easily. Um, versus, versus like you are going deeper into peace and love and they are, um, very much choosing, you know, something that is not peace and love. Um, so they, they're choosing like a drug addiction, or they're choosing, you know, to run away from you, um, or they're, they're choosing to be happy elsewhere, to build their lives elsewhere. And it's, it's very clear energetically that they are not, you know, making the same poor choices as you. So all of that is a little— I know I'm not— I feel like I'm not giving a fully, um, a, a fully clear answer because I— and I think it's tough, um, because it really does depend on the situation. It depends on the energy that you're feeling. And, um, that's where, you know, I, I feel like I've given some examples or information, but I think that's where you go back to, uh, go back to your intuition and discern. And if it's okay if you don't fully have an answer, um, after you think, you know, think about this or feel into it, this, it's okay because, um all you have to do is know the next step. So you don't, you don't have to like know, okay, this person is for sure my twin, or this person isn't my twin. Basically, if you think that person is your twin, until you fully release them, um, it's completely safe to keep working with, keep working with that situation as if that person's your twin, even if they end up being a false. So if that person you know, if that situation is triggering you and then you're guided to continue looking at it and say like, well, they, they decided to be with somebody else, or they committed more deeply to being with somebody else, how can I, um, go deeper into my healing around that? And how can I bring myself to peace with that? Um, and if you, you know, if you're able to do that, you Or if, if that's your next step, I guess, then that's, that's good. You're still getting— you're still moving forward on your journey. Um, so it's completely fine to see, see those, um, see that core choice manifesting very differently. It's completely fine to ask yourself or question, like, maybe this isn't my twin soul. It's completely fine to go deeper into the healing of that. And then, um, and it's— and then it's completely fine to, um, continue to do that until you have a clear answer, like, this person is definitely a false twin and I've definitely released them and I'm definitely at complete peace with releasing that person from my reality. Um, until you get to that point, you're— it's, it's, it's fine to like just keep going deeper into your healing. So if this is happening to you, if this is something you're experiencing, uh, the best answer is to, you know, continue to, um, reflect on that, continue to look within, continue to heal your own upsets, and just see where that situation goes. Um, see if it provides you more information. Um, and of course, as you heal, it's always going to provide you more information until you hit a point where you have fully released that person. I think that's all, and that's everything I can say about this. If you have questions, um, definitely feel free to leave me a comment. Uh, otherwise, thank you so much for watching. I hope this was helpful to you. Thank you, and have a beautiful and blessed day.