The Journey Through the Chakras That Causes the Masculine and Feminine to Run and Chase #twinflames

Hey there, sovereigns! Monica Grace from cardreadingqueen.com here. Today's topic is a follow-up to a previous video I did about the runner-chaser dynamic. Specifically in this video, I'm going to talk about how the masculine and feminine journey through the chakras differently and why it contributes to the runner-chaser dynamic that some people in the twin soul community experience. If you're not familiar with this dynamic, it basically is just that, um, the two people in the twin soul relationship, they come together and then they have a split. One of them starts running and the other continues to chase them and is experiencing this thing where they know that the relationship's not over, but they're trying to go after the other person. The other person feels that the connection is not over as well, but they are running away from the connection for a variety of reasons. The primary reason is that the connection is too painful for them to be a part of at the, at the time of the break. In many cases, the runner is the masculine twin and the chaser is the feminine twin. That's what it may look like on the surface, but in reality, both twins are running away from the connection in a variety of ways. The twin soul journey is all about healing that, um, running aspect and healing, healing both the running and chasing aspects, but really healing the aspect of the both twins because they are both running in various ways from the connection. And so as they stop running from that connection, they're healing that separation in their union and also with their higher power. I talked about this in a previous video, but I just want to review that the masculine and the feminine are coming into the 7 chakras in 2 different ways and from 2 different directions. The masculine is coming up through the chakras, so starting at the root chakra, going to the sacral chakra, and then the solar plexus chakra, and then the heart chakra. The feminine is She is introduced to this journey, and just to be clear, I should have said this at the beginning, but the masculine and feminine, those are just terms for the energy. Really has nothing to do with genders. I use he and she just as a way to talk about the masculine and feminine, but it doesn't have to be. So she doesn't have to be a girl, he does not have to be a boy. It doesn't— that's not how, um, that's That's not how that works. The masculine and feminine can be any gender. It's really about the energy of that person's soul. Anyway, going back to this review, the feminine is coming down through the chakras. So she is starting at the crown chakra and then goes to the third eye chakra, then the throat chakra, and then the heart chakra. And so they, the two counterparts, they meet on the bridge of the heart, as my friend Susan always says. What that means is that they're meeting in that heart chakra right in the center. Now, as they are moving through these chakras, the purpose of it is that the chakras are— they have a counterpart chakra. So the root chakra's counterpart is the crown chakra. And so as they're moving through these, they're aligning the chakras very quickly because each counterpart is working on a different chakra, different but complementary chakras. How this relates to the runner-chaser dynamic is that at each level of chakra that they're working on, there can potentially be a break in the physical aspects of their union. So when the masculine is aligning and balancing the root chakra and the feminine is balancing that crown chakra, that can cause a break. I'm going to explain why in this video and take you a little bit deeper into what these different experiences are for the masculine and feminine. We will start with the root and the crown chakras. So again, the root chakra is all about security and building a foundation. The crown chakra is all about connecting to your higher power. So what's happening at this point in the relationship as these two are awakening to this journey is that the masculine is really focused on securing his foundation while the feminine is focused on going deeper into the spiritual realm and truly connecting with her higher power. So the masculine at this point is going to be experiencing 3D security, um, and primarily what that ends up being is around finances, though it can be around a lot of other stuff that finances represent. So it can be around home, it can be around, you know, securing a job, that sort of thing. The masculine is also trying to gain independence from basically everybody in his life. This can include previous partners, it can include parents, it can include friends, other family members, it can even include his children. The reason he's doing this is because he's realizing that he has experienced a lot of codependency in his life, and his first step to ascension is to rid himself of all the codependency. The last thing that is probably happening for the masculine at this time is that he's having a ton of Tower moments, and they're big and they're also in the 3D. Now what the Tower Moment is, it's, um, I— it's basically something, uh, that I draw from the tarot. So Tower is one of the cards in tarot, and it means like a big shake-up is kind of the energy of it. You could also consider this like a dark night of the soul, but the reason I like to use Tower Moment for the masculine in this part of the journey is that he is kind of taking a wrecking ball to his life in a big way. Some of the things that might be happening is moving, divorce, a new job, uh, kind of, you know, selling all those things. Like, it could be like a big life change, or like pursuing a dream that he's been putting on hold for a while. It could also be something a little bit more, uh, what we would consider more negative or challenging. So I mentioned divorce earlier, but they could also be like battling an addiction, or, um, just any sort of shake-up that is causing, uh, is going to cause a lot of pain and challenge in your life. Everything for the masculine that's happening in the 3D, and it's all him taking action on a bunch of stuff, uh, and it's, it's, um, because he's— a lot of this is because he's experiencing these Tower moments. He's really withdrawing, he's kind of hermiting away, he's really focused on just relaying the foundation of his life and doing it properly. Not— not because he, he realizes that a lot of what he's built up until now has been built on essentially like quicksand. So it was built on false premises, and he is not feeling great about it. He's feeling like, okay, I did all this work and it's all crumbling around me, and now I really want to start over and I want to build this right this time. Now the feminine, on the other hand, is starting to get really connected with the spiritual realm. And so she may be doing more spiritual practices. She may be communicating with God more. She may be getting into more stuff like tarot or astrology. She's also experiencing a lot of signs and synchronicities, and she's trying to basically try to figure out what is happening to her. Because of this, she's going to be trying to connect to her masculine. So she's gonna, you know, basically keep trying to talk to him, reaching out to him, whatever. And he is really like not interested. He's definitely pulling back. He's in hermit mode. And a big part of that is again because he's trying not to be codependent with anybody right now. He's really working on his foundation. He doesn't have a lot of energy left over for the feminine. The feminine, on the other hand, feels like she's going crazy. Like she's definitely, um, seeing all sorts of stuff that she doesn't understand, and she's, she's basically trying to connect. She's trying to find a community to talk to about this. The number one person she wants to talk to is her divine masculine, but he's just, he's basically nowhere to be found. So you can see why this is causing a break. It's basically in communication, though one person wants to talk to the other and the other doesn't want to talk. It's not anything about the love is not there, not none of that. No matter what the divine masculine is saying on the surface, it's not that he doesn't love the feminine, it's that he doesn't have the energy for the feminine right now. And the feminine on the other side is being pretty needy because she's trying to like connect, she's trying to figure this out, and she wants answers from the masculine. And the masculine is like, look, I don't, I don't really have the energy or time for this. The next set of chakras that the two of them enter are the sacral chakra and the third eye chakra. So the sacral chakra is all about pleasure, creativity, beauty. It's definitely very similar to the Empress energy in the tarot deck. The third eye chakra is truly about truth. It's about, it's about figuring out the truth of the situation. It's definitely about getting knowledge and understanding kind of the behind the scenes or the spiritual realm a little bit better. In many ways, this is the High Priestess energy from the tarot deck. So if you're familiar with these two energies, they're really, um, they're— it's basically like two sides of the same coin or of the same woman. That said, the two energies really clash. So the masculine in the sacral chakra is really thinking about, um, food, pleasure, sex, like any— anything that's pleasurable. He's going to be getting into that. He's also focused on creativity and passion, so he's trying to figure out what is he really excited about, like how does he actually want to spend the rest of his life, and like what are the things that are important to him now that he has some sort of foundation in place You know, how does he really squeeze the most beauty and pleasure out of life? And then because of this, um, he might also be dealing with a lot of addictions and overcoming those addictions because he's realizing that he's either— he's used pleasure in, um, in negative ways in the past. This can be drug, alcohol, sex, porn, gaming, like all sorts of things that we can be addicted to. So he may be working through these, or these may be coming up. There's a lot of negative stuff that can happen because of this. So obviously with addiction, but you can also experience cheating, um, you can also experience like weight gain or loss of health, trouble with the law, um, just getting— generally getting into trouble or generally exploring things that are not conducive to a healthy relationship. The feminine is very motivated by what's happening in the spiritual realm or in the 5D realm. She's not super interested in reality right now. She's definitely more in like the dream state, the visions, trying to understand things at a higher level. She is again going to be turning to tarot, astrology, witchcraft, places that are going to provide her answers. Because before, she was trying to go to the masculine for answers, and he was like not interested in helping her. So now she's turned inward, and she's really looking at, um, she's really trying to find her own answers and her own wisdom around that. In doing this, she's also trying to develop a stronger relationship with God, the universe, her higher power, whatever you want to call it. She may also be seeking out paranormal experiences. So this can be talking to angels, talking to spirits, ghosts, that sort of thing. She basically wants to dive into a young adult fantasy novel. So she's, she's like going, you know, right off the deep end into like Sabrina the Teenage Witch and Twilight and like that territory. The feminine is really living in this dream state and this fantasy area, or what looks like a fantasy on the outside. I want to be clear, it's not a fantasy. It is real, and the experience is real to her, and it's, it's also just a real experience in general. However, from the outside, it looks like this fantasy realm where she's really— what's happening here is she's really trying to manifest what she wants in life using all these different tools that, um, are— it's, it's basically ancient wisdom. Masculine is not really having it. He's not interested in like these long-term plans really. He's basically secured his foundation and now he's just trying to have a lot of fun. And, um, this can, you know, this can result in all sorts of things. Um, it can look like he is— you know, she's like at home meditating and like journaling and healing herself, and he's off, you know, sleeping with a bunch of people. Um, he, you know, he's off doing whatever, um, whatever in the physical that she's not really gonna like. So it— and it doesn't have to be, uh, sex. It can be other things. Like, he could just be going deep at work and like kind of being a workaholic. He could be obsessed with a passion project that he's doing. He could be traveling to somewhere and like hiking and climbing mountains and like skydiving and, you know, whatever else. Like, he could be doing something dangerous as opposed to, you know, cheating on her or whatever. And then again, he could be also just experiencing some serious Tower moments again. So he could be dealing with addiction, so maybe he's going to rehab, or maybe he's in trouble with the law and so he's going to prison. Like, it could be all sorts of things. Basically, in his mind, he is, um, he is really busy right now, and so he's, he's again like not super interested in what the feminine is doing. The feminine, on the other hand, she's doing a lot of healing work, and she's starting to see the healing in the masculine, and she's seeing him do his healing, but he's doing it through contrast, and she's doing it a little bit more actively through through what we would consider healthier means like meditation or journaling. The next set of chakras is the solar plexus chakra and the throat chakra. So what's happening here is that the masculine is really focused on self-confidence at this point. Something he really wants to understand is what is his true identity in the world. This is something he hasn't put a lot of time in for whatever reason. He hasn't really explored who he actually is. This is something that the feminines tend to explore a little bit earlier, but the masculine is, you know, he's really bowed to a lot of societal expectations up until this point. So he's building his self-confidence, and he's especially building his self-confidence with the feminines in his life. This can be, um, it could be any feminine, But it typically revolves around his mom, his past relationships, and that can include you if you are one of his previous exes. He can even be going back to your past relationship and looking at who he is. It can also be his children, especially if he has daughters. He may be trying to understand the feminine through the lens of like his— of an innocent child. And trying to look at, you know, how did, how did these feminines who I've dealt with for my entire life, how did they start out? And like, what, what did they experience that kind of made them the way they are? He'll be noticing a lot more societal pressure on women, and he'll, he'll really be healing a lot of that feminine wounding and how it's affected him over his lifetime. The feminine, on the other hand, is really focused on speaking her truth. In general, she's doing something similar to the masculine. Um, basically she's looking at, um, how can she stand up for herself? How can she have boundaries for herself? She's definitely speaking up more in situations where she used to be very timid and meek. She's also trying to connect more with the masculine, so she's speaking her truth to the masculine as well. And she's maybe telling him things that she hasn't told anyone or that she hasn't, um, had, had the chance to tell him. She's really finding her voice. And so, um, something to note about this is he's focused on self-confidence, she's essentially also focused on self-confidence, but specifically around finding her voice. And so you'll see that their energies at this point of healing, that their energies are starting to look a little bit more similar. So there's there's not— it's not really that they're merging, it's that they really are two sides of the same coin, but they're looking more similar in the physical. In truth, for all of these, the energies are the same. You're the, um, but like how they look in the physical can be really drastic. So especially with the, um, with the crown chakra and the root chakra, those look very, very different in the physical. And then with the sacral chakra and the third eye chakra, they're starting to look a little bit closer. And but with this, with the, um, solar plexus and throat chakras, they're starting to look somewhat similar in the physical, where both parties are really trying to find that self-love. At this point, there may be some communication between the feminine and the masculine, but it's definitely, um, going to be touch and go for both of them. What's happening is that the feminine is really coming out and speaking her truth, and she's being kind of harsh even. Like, she's really setting boundaries with, um, not just with everybody, but with also with her masculine. The masculine is going through all this deep stuff about feminine past wounding that he's experienced. What he's trying to understand is he's looking at the feminine and he's seeing like a lot of similar things that he's already experienced. He might be seeing, for example, something that he's experienced before, which is nagging. He might be seeing that in the feminine, even though what she's doing is instead like trying to set a boundary. The same is true for a lot of other things. The feminine might be trying to tell him and speak her truth to him, and it's like coming from this super sincere place of love. The masculine could be interpreting that as like seduction or manipulation because that's what he's seen previously from the feminine. The two of them are working that out. And so what's happening, it's not necessarily a break. They might be back in communication, but the communication is really rough. They're really, um, they're still kind of misunderstanding each other quite a bit, and that doesn't get resolved very easily. They kind of He's looking at her, he's seeing that her intentions are a little bit different. Like, he's seeing something slightly different from her than he's seen before, but he's also seeing things that look very similar to the things that he's trying to heal and escape from. This again causes, you know, causes a lot of tension between them and can be a cause of another separation between them. The last thing that we'll talk about is the two of them meeting on the Bridge of the Heart. I'm actually gonna do this in a different video because I think it's a special one, um, and it will make more sense if we just talk about it separately. This one's an interesting one because they are both in the heart chakra, and what's happening there is that they're truly opening up at this point to unconditional love. On both ends, they're exploring the different threads of unconditional love and releasing everything that is blocking them from unconditional love of their divine partner, but also of everybody and everything else. The interesting thing about this chakra is that even though the two of them are working on the same thing and they're both opening up their hearts and coming into a deeper understanding of love, they're not actually necessarily together at this point. What I've seen in the twin soul journey is that these, these first 3 groupings of complementary chakras, the masculine and feminine, they tend to move through them quickly. And what I mean by that is several months each for the 3 different pairings that I just talked about. The other reality of these three different pairings and all the work that's going on there is that it's not, um, one stage after the other or anything like that. It's definitely a much more fluid process, and there could be areas that, um, the masculine's still working on his root chakra and other areas of his life where he's in his sacral chakra and aligning there. And so it's, it's very fluid, uh, but you can definitely see the— these three different pairings very distinctly in this journey. Once the two counterparts get to the heart chakra, they— what's happening there is that they have a great deal of love for each other, but they're still not together, and they are still experiencing this runner-chaser dynamic. And there's a lot that goes into that, and I think just, you know, check out the next video, uh, and we'll, we'll just talk more about it there. I hope this video was helpful to you and that it resonated with you and your twin soul journey. I actually haven't seen very many people breaking it down like this. Um, I know that there are definitely people who talk about how the twin soul journey aligns to the chakras, but I've never seen anyone kind of break down why it causes that runner-chaser dynamic. So I would love your feedback on that. Definitely just drop me a comment below and let me know what you think of this. Additionally, if you want to go deeper with this and learn more about the masculine and feminine, make sure you check out my book, Your Twin Soul Journey. In the book, I have a chapter about the masculine and feminine, and I talk more about the chakra process and how the two counterparts journey through the chakras very differently, how that causes a very different experience for each of them. But they also talk about several other dynamics between the masculine and feminine. One of the things that I love about this work and that I'm most excited about is that looking at the masculine and feminine and how they differ and how their journeys differ, but how their journeys lead back to the same place, is really fascinating. Um, and I love applying it to our current society, which is patriarchal. How we are healing the patriarchy on both the masculine side and the feminine side, and how that is bringing us into a more union-based world. This is a huge passion of mine and a big part of my life purpose, so I'd love for you to check that out. You can go to cardreadingqueen.com/freebies, and I have several resources about the masculine and feminine. Definitely check it out. I also have a book coming out about this type of content and a course, so make sure that you sign up to my email list. Just go to cardreadingqueen.com. You can sign up anywhere. I will notify you when that work comes out and as I continue to make progress on those, um, that incredible body of work. Thank you so much for watching this video. I hope you enjoyed it. Have a beautiful and blessed day.