What To Do If You're Married When You Learn About Twin Souls

Hey there, sovereigns! Monica Grace from cardreadingqueen.com here. Today's content is what to do if you're married when you learn about twin souls. Um, definitely interesting. I was married when I learned about twin souls, and I definitely have some interesting thoughts on this. So here's how— before we get into that, here's how you can get and stay connected to me, Monica Grace, and my website cardreadingqueen.com. Go to facebook.com/cardreadingqueen, cardreadingqueen.com/youtube, Instagram.com/cardreadingqueen, Twitter.com/MonicaGraceCRQ, Pinterest.com/cardreadingqueen, dailytwinsoul.tumblr.com, and LinkedIn.com/company/cardreadingqueen. Additionally, if you hear of any freebies in this content that you would like to check out, you can go to cardreadingqueen.com/freebies and you can pick those up. So let's talk about what to do if you're married when you learn about twin souls. Um, which was my experience. And actually, the way I came to twin souls was through, um, through a backdoor about karmic twins. So I was actually trying to process some of the stuff that I was feeling, um, through my ex-husband, my relationship with my ex-husband. And, uh, I came across this term karmic twin, and so I started Googling it, and then found karmic twins versus twin souls. And so I learned about twin souls, and I realized that, um, you know, everything that I had already— I'd ever wanted was twin souls. Um, when I was— and it was— it's interesting, this is not what I intended to talk about actually, but, um, I'll just tell the story real quick. So when I was, um, 22, getting married, um, to my ex-husband we did a, we did a, um, class because we wanted to get married in the Catholic Church. So we had to go through like all this class stuff and like, um, basically talking to a priest and like getting counseling and all this stuff. And so the priest was telling me about what a Catholic marriage really was, and he was saying it was the idea that there are two people, and as they grow closer to their higher power, their creator, their source, their God— as they grow closer to God, that they also grow closer to each other. And so this was my first understanding of that twin soul trinity of, you know, your higher power, you, and your twin soul. That was my first real understanding of it. And, um, I realized, like, as I started to learn about twin souls— this is now, you know, that was when I was 22. Um, I'm not 22 anymore. Um, I'm in my mid-30s. And so, you know, this is like whatever, 14, 15 years later. Um, I realized though, when I was learning about karmic twins, that what I really wanted was my twin soul. And that, that is what I had wanted since I was, you know, since I had first heard about it at 22 years old. And actually what I have wanted my whole life, what I've always dreamed of, was this concept specifically. So, um, that's, that's how I learned about twin souls. And I was, um, newly married at that time. I was newly married to my current husband, um, and so Uh, I really had a lot to struggle with there as a result. Um, so if you're married and you learn about twin souls, what's most likely happening— it's really two scenarios. Um, one, you're already with your twin soul but you're just not in union, or you could not be with your twin soul and your current partner is helping you heal toward your twin soul union. And it's usually one of the two. You could have a great marriage when you find out about this. You could also be having problems in your marriage, and I typically see people who are having problems in their marriage. Usually if you are in a great marriage, you're not really looking for relationship advice online. You're not likely to come across the concept of a twin soul as a result. So, but I mean, you could— it could be that the twin soul concept comes to you as well. So, um, you know, for me, when I was 22, the twin soul concept came to me. It wasn't those words, but it was the twin soul concept. And like, I knew in my heart, I was like, yeah, like, that is what I have always wanted, what I've always been craving. Like, I was— I, I remember the moment itself. It was so resonant with me, and I wanted to create that with my, my fiancé at the time, who is now my ex-husband. So obviously we didn't create that. Um, so, but these are the two scenarios that you encounter. Um, and it is possible that you are with your twin soul already and you're just— you just didn't know about twin souls and you're not in union yet. Um, it seems like a lot of people are more in the latter category though, um, of like you're with somebody who you don't think is your twin soul. Um, so my thinking on this, um, is that either way, like, no matter what your situation actually is, you still need to heal with your current partner. So that's kind of the next step, and there's a lot that can follow that next step. Um, so maybe you, you know, maybe you heal with your partner and you guys stay together. Maybe you heal with that partner and you guys split. Um, there's certainly stuff that comes after that step, but however, if you're married and you learn about twin souls, no matter what the situation is, your first step is to heal with your current partner. And so that's what I'm going to focus on. So why do you have to heal with your current partner? Um, basically anything that you don't heal with your current partner, you're just going to bring to your next relationship, which is It could be with your twin soul, or maybe it's not with your twin soul. And either way, this is not a good thing. If you break off your relationship and don't do the healing, it could just prolong your journey. So what may happen, you may not be able to properly recognize your twin soul when you meet them. It may also be that you, like, needed to heal that thing, with someone else before you could meet your twin soul, or before you could come into union with your twin soul. Because there are some things that, you know, are kind of like— could be like very painful or deal breakers between you and your twin soul. I guess there's nothing that's really like a deal breaker between you and your twin soul, and there's no way you can truly mess up your relationship with your twin soul. But, um, there could be a lot of unnecessary pain with your twin soul And if this is somebody that you love or this is something you want, why wouldn't you want to heal as much as possible before you're with that person? It could also be that you, you end up attracting a karmic twin to finish your lessons. And then you may go through just unnecessary pain and frustration and hurt with your twin soul also to finish the lesson. So this could just prolong everything. And what's, you know, what's going to come up next is, well, if I heal with my current partner, does that mean I have to stay with them? Or, you know, could we still end up divorcing? Or could I, you know, maybe I— maybe you feel like you met your twin soul, um, you met your twin soul and you are married. So it's like, I don't want to heal with my current partner, I want to just get to my twin soul instead. So like, I need to you know, get divorced or whatever it is. So the question is, is it safe to heal with your current partner? Um, and I believe that it is. So, um, the twin soul journey, it's really about growing closer to your higher power, like I was talking about earlier. As the two twin souls grow closer to the higher power, they also grow closer to each other. Um, so really you're just trying to honor and step more into yourself and then this lets your current relationship— it's either going to grow and the two of you are going to grow closer, or you're going to fall apart naturally and easily. And this is where I think that the healing, especially in a marriage, but also this could also apply to like a serious relationship— I think that this healing is a good thing, um, because you will be able to It will just— it'll just be like a very gentle, um, break, I guess I would say. Because why, like, why go through— if, if you do end up going through a divorce, like, why go through it, um, from a place of like not being healed? Like, why go through it from a place of wounding? Um, it's just going to cause you problems down the line. Um, it's going to draw out your divorce longer, most likely. It's going to hurt your children if there are children involved. Involved. Um, so what you can really do instead, if you want kind of just this gentler option, is really to, um, grow, grow closer to your higher power and then see what happens. Now, as you grow closer to your higher power, um, then you're, you're not only going to be attracting your twin soul in, but you're also going to be releasing anything that is out of alignment with your twin soul, which includes your current partner. Um, it— so to me, it doesn't— you know, I think there's a lot of confusion over this, like, and you can, you can spend a lot of time spinning on it, like, why, why am I, you know, why am I, um, coming to this concept, you know, when I'm happily married? Or why am I coming to this concept through somebody else, you know, through this other person. And like, I'm married but I want to leave and be with that other person. And, and it's like there's all these, there's all these scenarios that can be very confusing, but it's really like you, you just can make this really simple. Grow toward your higher power, create in the 5D. Don't try to create in the 3D because that is going to get you into trouble. It's going to prolong your situation and prolong your pain. Um, so the caveat to this, of course, is don't stay with an abusive partner if that's the case. So definitely, if your relationship with your spouse is abusive, you should leave it. Um, but otherwise, I think it's very safe to just heal with your current partner. Um, even, even when you, um, even when you break up with somebody you still want to heal with them. Like, you want to, you want to release them from a place of love, not from a place of anger. And I feel like I've kind of said this a couple times in a couple different ways. Like, you don't want to, you don't want to release them from a place of wounding. You want to release them from a place of healedness. Like, you want to release them as a healed person, and you want to heal, heal that relationship before you let it go completely. Now, with— for me, in my experience with my ex-husband, I did not release him in a very kind way. Like, I was definitely coming from a place of wounding. I had healed quite a bit with him, and it was, um, there was like quite a bit of toxicity and abuse in that relationship. So I had decided not to accept the abuse anymore, and so that was obviously absolutely very healing for me. But I never— I didn't heal with him from a place of like, um, like love, basically. Like, I didn't love him to leave him, almost is kind of the best way to say it. I actually like hated him to leave him, or like I made myself hate him to leave him because I, I wanted to leave him. Um, and some of that toxicity came with me because it was inside myself to begin with, um, and that it came into my next relationship, which is, you know, happened to be with my current husband, um, and that was something that then we had to work through. And he also, he had brought his own baggage from his karmic twin to our relationship, so we have both kind of done that. And then this created a toxic pattern within our relationship that we then had to heal and that we have healed, but it took a long time and it was really like an unnecessary amount of pain and wounding that we caused each other. And it really, the other thing is it almost split us. It almost split us up because that toxicity, we really had to decide to change our patterns And that was— that can be really challenging to do when you have a lot of history with a person. But we decided to change our patterns and we were able to heal. So it's not like you have to stay with that person, but you do, you know, whether you're with that person or not, you do have to heal from that relationship and release it from a place of love is really the best way I can explain it. So I hope that was helpful to you. Um, what's coming up for, for you around marriage, divorce, staying with your partner, leaving your partner, um, how it relates to the twin soul journey. Um, think about what's coming up for you. You can try the reflection journaling practice, which is a healing tool I have at cardreadingqueen.com/freebies, to heal anything that's coming up. Uh, feel free to leave a comment on this posting to share your upset, your story, or your results.. And if you are interested, you can pick up my book, Your Twin Soul Journey. It's a guide to experience eternal, unconditional, harmonious, and embodied love and union with your divine partner. And if you want to pick this up, go to cardreadingqueen.com/twinsouljourney to learn how you can get that book. I hope this has been helpful to you. Thank you so much for giving me your time and attention for this content, and I hope that you have a beautiful and blessed day.