WHY IS HE SILENT? Why the Masculine is Quiet on the Twin Soul Journey #lovereading #twinflame #union

Hey there, sovereigns! Monica Grace from cardreadingqueen.com here, and today's reading is a situational reading. It is why is he silent, and we're going to talk about why the masculine is silent on the twin soul journey at various times. Now obviously not all masculines are silent, but this is something that comes up regularly on this journey. So this reading will be ideal for people who are looking for an answer to that situation. So if your masculine has gone silent on you, or perhaps you are the masculine and you are wondering why you don't respond to the— to your feminine, even though you know kind of what's going on, or you're just not sure why you're not as engaged in the conversation with her. That is something that we're going to answer in this reading. There will be a semi-personal reading that goes along with this reading. If you are interested in that, go to cardreadingqueen.com/2020readings, and this situational reading extended edition is going to be part of the bundle that's there. Now the bundle is really affordable. It's all these situational readings and zodiac readings that are semi-personal or extended, all of those bundled up together for the year of 2020. And the details of that are on that page. Just go to cardreadingqueen.com/2020readings. So let's go ahead and get into the reading. We're gonna start here. I'm gonna pull these on because it's a little chilly. All right, so So let me get some shuffling going. And for those of you that are watching my videos more regularly, you probably recognize this deck, the Chakra Wisdom Tarot. Um, I have been loving this deck for the masculines, even though it's not a masculine deck at all. It's literally just a deck of like women in pretty dresses, which I am also a young adult novelist, so I love that, and that's part of what attracted me to the deck. But I'm really enjoying it for these twin soul readings, and I think it has to do with the chakras. Um, so I have been posting some videos about that, about the masculine and feminine and the chakras, and definitely check those out. They're on my channel. There's a playlist called the Masculine and Feminine on my channel that you can check those out at. But it talks about the, um, how the chakras can Play a role in your twin soul journey as well. And it kind of— it, it goes over some of the same information that we'll, um, be reading for in this video, um, just because, you know, it's basically, um, trying to— this video and a lot of my situational readings are trying to understand the masculine and feminine dynamics. And those two videos that I have on my channel this week are going to, uh, you know, basically go into the same thing. So I just want to let you know about those if you're watching this in real time. If not, you can just go to cardreadingqueen.com/youtube to see my YouTube channel and you can find those videos. All right, so let's pull some overall energies. We are pulling for the masculine. And then we are pulling for the feminine. All right, what is going on here? All right, so on the masculine side, we have Commit to a Spirit of Excellence. Whatever you do, do well. We have Celebrate the Beautiful Gift of Life. Let the heavens be glad, the earth rejoice. Let the sea and everything in it shout his praise. Um, so what's going on with the masculine? Why is he being silent right now? Well, You know, basically from his end, he feels like he's busy living his life. And what I'm getting from this especially is that he's growing as a person. He's learning to build his foundation and do it well. He is really upgrading his life in many ways. He's not settling for some of the stuff that he was settling for before. And because of that, that's just keeping him busy. Now that doesn't mean that he doesn't have time to respond to your texts. Text or anything. That's— it's not like that kind of busy. It's more just that his energy is tied up, and that is, you know, kind of a challenge for him, uh, in order of giving, giving anyone else his energy. Um, so it's— so it's not a time thing, it's an energy thing for him. Uh, so definitely he does have time to respond to that message, and I'm sure he's seeing those messages. He's certainly not missing those, but energetically it's pretty heavy to respond to some of that right now, and he is focused on himself. Now, what's going on with the feminine at this time? Um, let love light the way. Do not be afraid or discouraged. The Lord will personally go ahead of you. He will be with you. He will neither fail you nor abandon you. And then release your cares to God. Oh, that I had wings like a dove, then I would fly away and rest. Um, yeah, so very similar messages, um, in both these cards. Uh, what I'm called to say is that while your masculine is away, you and your higher power should play. Um, and what that means is basically, you know, take this time and the space to reconnect with your higher power, um, whether that be God, uh, Spirit, um, Source, the Universe, whatever you'd like to call that higher power. And it's, it's really saying that right now you're looking to your masculine to, um, really to get to make you feel good, because, you know, otherwise the question of why is he silent, that is going to— that's like, um you know, there's a, there's a desire there for a response, a desire for, um, his energy, as a desire for your masculine's energy right now. And he is not really able to give that. And what this is saying is turn to your higher power, and that your higher power is always going to have the energy for you. So turn to that higher power right now. Um, another message is that your higher power and yourself, um, like those are the same person basically. So it says, the Lord will personally go ahead of you. He will be with you. He will neither fail you nor abandon you. And this, you know, there is an abandonment wound around this um, this lack of communication. It's abandonment, it's rejection, and then for some people it's also betrayal. It could even— I mean, there, there are a lot of core wounds. Um, it could be injustice. So the other, the other 3 core wounds are injustice, shame, and control. So, you know, there's threads of all of it in there, but the main ones that come up are usually— I mean, the biggest one is abandonment. Um, The other one, the other big one is rejection, and then the rest kind of follow after that. So, um, definitely just rest assured, you know, this is teaching you a lot of things. It's also teaching you to believe in the twin soul journey, because even though you're not seeing what you want in the physical, um, that doesn't mean that— that's not representative of what's really happening in the physical. Um, you know, things, things transform at the 5D level much faster than they transform at the 3D level. So the things that you're seeing at the 3D level are choices and energy alignments that you made, you know, a year ago, 2 years ago, even 5 years ago. Um, they— everything in your— everything that you're seeing is a product of the choices and energy you had from years and years ago. So you have the opportunity now to make a new choice, and that is going to take a little bit of time to percolate into the 3D. So let's keep going. I want to pull some more energies for this, and we're going to start with the masculine again. I've been loving this deck. For the masculine. It's a good one. Let me get this organized. I'll bring this down here. All right, so what we're going to cover in this reading: the 3D, what we're seeing on the surface from both parties, um, what's going on behind the scenes. Then we're going to go into some guidance And then again, there's going to be a semi-personal reading for this, and that is going to go into a lot more detail about this energy. All right, so let's take a look what's going on in the 3D. Okay, so we got some sacral chakra energy, also some heart energy. Um, this is a ton of passion right here. Uh, we have the Nine of Wands, Princess of Cups, and Two of Coins. So let me tap into this energy real quick. Um, what's going on with him when he's silent? So what I'm getting from this right off the bat, we have the Princess of Cups. You can see that there are some butterflies here. This is a transformation of the heart chakra, and what's happening for the masculine right now is that he is in a younger stage of learning to open his heart, and he may be doing this through many different means. Basically, he's not doing this through the feminine right now in the physical, but that's okay because, um, any expansion of his heart is going to lead him back to his feminine. That's just the natural effect of this journey. So I'm seeing that he is, you know, he's kind of— he's basically, um not at the start of the journey, but he's basically expanding his heart right now. Um, we have this Nine of Wands. This, um, even though it's not the Ten of Wands, what the energy I'm getting from this is, um, an energy of overwhelm. So it's like he's got a lot on his plate in the physical, and he feels like right now this is something that he has to tackle on his own. And that, you know, that is the energy of the Nine of Wands, is kind of defending what you have. Another thing is like kind of pushing through a project till the end. But what I'm getting is that he's, he's already to the overwhelmed point. He's already in this Ten of Wands energy. But this, this card is really about him needing to handle his business on his own. He It's not that he doesn't want support, it's that he needs to do this by himself, um, and it's for his own self-confidence. Um, he's gotta, he's gotta build, he's gonna build his foundation on his own right now. Um, now that doesn't mean he's not thinking about you, just to be clear. It doesn't mean he's not, um, it doesn't mean that the feminine is not a part of this. It just means that in the 3D physical, this is what the feminine might be seeing, and this is how— this is what the masculine might be experiencing. We also have this Two of Coins. What's happening here is that he is wanting to take action on something. So you can see she is looking out at this ship. Um, he's wanting to take action on something and, um, kind of— so there's also a ship in here, um, kind of in a dark place right now. So he wants to step toward this lighter scene and this lighter ship. He— there's a hesitation, obviously, um, and I think we're gonna— I think we're gonna get more information about that as the reading continues. But, um, you know, the sense I'm getting right now is that this, this is, um, in some way it's related to the feminine. This is— he, he sees this, he knows that this is his happy place, but he's choosing right now to be in this darkness, and it's not clear why. I think we're gonna find out, um, as we go. Now, this deck— so we're gonna pull for the feminine right now to kind of get more of the story. This deck is, um, by Biddy Tarot, and it doesn't have the greatest box, so I tend to just keep it in a little cloth. Um, but this is called the Everyday Tarot. Uh, I really love it. I recommend it to people. It's like a pocket-sized tarot deck, um, and very traditional in its meanings. So this is very similar to the Rider-Waite deck. It's done in the same style as that. And, um, what I got for this reading— so ironically, we have this very feminine one for the masculine side. I got for the feminine side that we needed to really tap into the, um, the traditional energies of the tarot. And also, uh, the, the reason was because they are, they are definitely a little bit more rational and logical. So I'm getting that the feminine needs that grounded energy right now, um, and she, she needs to, uh, work. She needs to work in her logical space right now because the emotional space is getting very— it's just a little chaotic right now. So we're gonna see what's going on here. All right, so what are we seeing in the 3D for the feminine? Oh, got two cards there, so we will take them both. Now let me pull the third card. All right, um, yeah, okay, so we've got a lot of Major Arcana here. Um, yeah, so what I'm getting is there's a lot of energy right now around some of this, and even that this this video, this reading so far may be a little bit triggering to the feminine. I'm getting that as well. So you've got the Queen of Wands, and what this is, there's a huge desire for communication, um, and it's around something that this feminine is very passionate about. So that's why it keeps coming up. So it seems like to the masculine, it's seeming like, uh, like, why does she keep contacting me about this? And the reason is because this is really important to her. She's not contacting the masculine to, you know, to have small talk or to chat or to flirt. It's nothing like that. This is like serious stuff to her. It's stuff that— it may not be stuff that she's— it may not be— it may not even be like a positive thing. It could be a negative thing, but it's stuff that she sees as deeply emotional, as you know, just rooted in, rooted in necessity, um, purposeful in connection. So she's, she's really, she's really frustrated because to her this is very important stuff that she's trying to contact the masculine about, and he's just not returning any of that energy. And what's happening with that is that, um, she is experiencing some, some signs, some synchronicities in the 3D, and it's telling her to reach out. Um, so we have this High Priestess. There's— it's like she has this inner knowing, and there are alignments, um, synchronicities, signs in the 3D that are confirming what she already knows is in her heart though, but it's all getting confirmed. Also getting this Judgment card, I sense that this has to do with their relationship. So she is trying to communicate with him on their actual relationship, and it could be some pain from the past, it could be some wounding that she, she feels that he needs to work on. It could be, could be wounding as well that is part of his life that she is trying to connect with him on and support him on that he is kind of avoiding or ignoring about. Um, we also have this Hermit card, and with this card, it's like, um, it's actually like it's, it's not him that's hermiting. It's actually like she is just— she's like so, um, frustrated at this point that she is just kind of like throwing up her hands and just like ready to throw in the towel on this. So this could be a cycle that has been repeating, um, several times now, and it's like she just feels like she's talking to that brick wall. Um, she feels— so she's kind of— the energy of this, it's not— the energy of this is she's like, okay, I tried, like, I left the map 'Now I'm gonna go up into the hills, and he— it's his choice. Like, he can, he can follow the map and find me, or, you know, he cannot.' But she's kind of like, um, there's part of her that is withdrawing her energy from this because she's just tired of the cycle of just not receiving that communication that she needs. All right, so let's look into the I'm gonna shuffle again. Let's look into what's going on behind the scenes. So what is the masculine not saying, not telling her? Let us find out. All right, so we have some more heart chakra, throat chakra. And sacral. All right, so what is the masculine not telling the feminine, not showing the feminine right now? Yeah, so what I'm getting is that he is— so in his heart of hearts, he wants her. Like, he's wishing on her, um, he's longing for this love. So he's So there's the heart, you know, hearts and stars. Um, this, you know, the Star is of course a very positive card. Um, the Knight of Wands— we have the Knight of Wands and the Devil. Um, so what I've got from this is that he is So even though he wants his feminine, he is kind of, um, he's kind of in a frenzy right now over whatever is going on with this Nine of Wands. So it's like, um, it's like he's already overwhelmed with what he needs to do, and he's now— he's just experiencing like this frenzy of activity, and almost like he is gonna keep on going, um, and that activity is almost allowing him to numb out to his feelings, um, and being numbed out to the feeling. So it's like, it's not that he doesn't want to respond, it's that he's moving so quickly that he, um, he's, he's moving so quickly that he's able to numb out to those feelings. And so when he's receiving these messages or when he's receiving this communication from his feminine, he's not Like, it's just kind of like, um, it's almost like going over his head. It's like, okay, this, you know, it's like he's trying to process only the most relevant information in front of him, um, and for this he's like, well, I'm not, you know, I'm not, I'm not going to look at this because I'm not dealing with that situation right now. So he's kind of just pushing it off to the side and like almost like he's put the— he's put the situation in a box, he shut— he closed that box up, he shoved the box under the bed, and now he, um, you know, he's got somebody kind of tapping on his shoulder and saying like, hey, like, you know, when are we gonna open that box and like deal with all this stuff? And he's like, oh yeah, yeah, like, we'll get to that. Um, but he's kind of shrugging it off right now. Um, so it's not meant to be a rejection. It's really just meant, you know, it's really just like he cannot— he cannot put energy toward this right now. Um, and he knows that when he breaks open this box, that all these wands are gonna just fall all around him. It's like he's trying to keep all these balls in the air, and he can't do that if he, if he takes his eye off of them. And so, you know, communicating with this feminine right now is like taking his eye off the 9 balls that he has in the air right now. This Devil card, what I'm getting from this is that he's seeing this feminine as a temptation in many ways, a temptation away from his focus. And he knows— so this wish card, the Star, it's like he knows what he's trying to build towards forward. He wants to build that foundation for himself, um, and then for his union. Um, and he may not even realize that it's for his union yet, but that's what he wants to build. He knows it subconsciously that it is for a higher purpose, and he sees the feminine right now as kind of, um, potentially getting in the way of that because It's like, um, it's almost like you've invited a really close group of friends over to your house and you are excited to see them, but your house is a mess. So then they show up and your reaction is like, eh, like, I wish you guys— you guys weren't here. Um, and it's like, it's not that you didn't want to see them, it's that your house is not ready for them. And that's kind of the energy I'm getting from this is like, he sees this as like he's not ready for you right now. So, you know, for you to show up early while he's still cleaning his house is, is really, um, distressing to him actually. So I'm, I'm getting, I'm getting that. Okay, so let's keep going. Uh, we'll go to the feminine side. What's going on behind the scenes with the feminine? All right, we have the Seven of Cups, the Strength card, the Page of Swords. Okay, so this one's pretty easy. Um, what I'm getting is that the feminine thinks she knows what's going on. Um, she thinks— and she really— a big part of that is that she has seen this pattern before in the masculine. And what it is, is, um, it could be like a past relationship. It could be from the dating scene. And basically what it is is this 3D belief that, oh, he's not responding to me, he's not interested. And that's a pattern. It's a wounding that the feminine has. It's a pattern that she has seen before a dozen times where she's like, he's not interested, he's not paying attention to me. And thus he, you know, he doesn't want me. And now I'm in a spiral. Um, now, you know, now I'm in a spiral. Now I'm rejected. Now I'm abandoned. Now I'm betrayed. Now I am ashamed. Um, and this is a, uh, you know, this is a pattern, uh, is kind of the best way to see it, to, um, say it. It's a pattern. And What's going on is that the feminine doesn't really know what's happening because again, the masculine is silent. All she knows is that she, she has this false belief that if he's not returning that attention right away, he's not into me, or he must, he must not want me, he must be dating someone else, he must have other interests, whatever it is. Um, and it's just this belief that, uh, you know, that, um, that the masculine is going to, um, be available energetically. And then with the Strength card, there's this energy of, well, um, you know, why can't, why can't you just text me back? What, like, it would only take a couple minutes. Why can't he do this? Why can't he do that? And it's it's a logical argument, which is like, oh, everybody has a couple minutes in a day, and if I was truly a priority for him, it would, you know, I would be, I'd be the, the thing that he does before he goes, you know, before he goes to bed or whatever, he'd message me back. What's happening here is, um, you have to understand, for the feminine, you have to understand that the masculine, it's not— so he does have the 5 minutes, but he does not have the energy. And it's, it's because you are not a 5-minute task for him. That's, that's what the feminine— it's actually, that's what the feminine is not understanding, is like there are 2 scenarios when the masculine is silent. One, one is that scenario of like 'Oh, he's not interested.' And, um, you know, that is, that is a 3D scenario that happens. The other is the scenario of he— you're like, you're just not the— you're not a 5-minute task for him. He, he, um, it's almost like if he opens the door on that, it's going to be like a 2-hour task for him. And so then he is— or like, it's, it's also like he wants to communicate when he has the space and energy to communicate. Um, and it's, it's more of an energetic thing. And what I'm getting is that the feminine is getting, um, she's getting pretty frustrated and almost like lashing out at the masculine, and he's still not responding. I mean, he's, you know, he's not blocking her, he's not, um, he's not responding back defensively. He's kind of just letting it you know, wash over him, um, like reading it, accepting it, but not reacting to it. So then we have the Seven of Cups, and this is really about the feminine, um, wanting to consider her options. She wants to— she wants to know if there's anything else she can do, um, looking at other people she could see, uh, looking at other masculines who are returning her attention or her affection. And this is you know, this is, um, kind of again a 3D thing to do, um, which is not to say like it's, it's a healthy thing to do. It's not to say that that shouldn't be something that the feminine is considering. It's perfectly safe. And you— but the biggest thing here, if you're looking at other options, is that you need to connect to your higher power and make sure that your higher power is telling you to do that, and so that is your intuition. If your higher power is saying yes, if you're acting from a place of love, all of that is great. Like, follow your heart. If it's coming from a place of fear, jealousy, ego, anger, all of that is just— those are just other words for fear, basically. If it's not coming from your higher power, then you have a choice to make. So you can either continue— you know, you're gonna— you gotta choose either fear or love, basically. And if, if you're choosing fear, that is going to continue to push away this masculine, um, and not just in the physical but energetically as well. All right, so Let's— we're gonna draw some guidance. Um, so if you want to go on to the semi-personal reading for this, um, again, you go to cardreadingqueen.com/2020readings. Let me give you an overview of what we're gonna be drawing for there. So we're gonna talk about the hidden aspects of the situation. Um, and this will be general energies. We're also going to talk about what's going on behind the scenes unconsciously on both sides. So this is stuff that is not really on the surface right now, but it's part of these situations. Everything we pulled here is stuff that the masculine or the feminine already knows, um, and that they know consciously. So this is going to be going even a layer deeper, what's going on behind the scenes unconsciously or subconsciously. We're going to draw cards for what does each party want from the other, and we're going to talk about what they feel is missing from the relationship. We'll talk about what their blocks are, what they aren't communicating about those blocks, and how to heal the blocks. Um, also how to move forward, and then we'll draw some final guidance from there. So if you want to check that out, again, it's cardreadingqueen.com/2020readings. All right. So we've got guidance for the masculine, guidance for the feminine. Okay, so the masculine side, we have Like Attracts Like. If you're longing for more love in your life, you need to be more loving. Very true, good message. Spend some quality time together. It's imperative that we spend quality time with those we are in significant relationships with. Listening and talking to each other. So for this, what I'm getting is that this masculine, he's got to pull the box out from under the bed, basically. This is guidance that he should be more responsive to this. And it's, it's really, you know, he's got a lot going on, um, but I'm getting that he feels really alone in dealing with everything that he's got going on. And but I mean, the thing is that he's choosing to be alone. And I think so if you're the masculine, it's, it's a choice, um, and you don't have to be alone and you're not alone. So, um, in the 5D you have your twin soul, uh, and it's, you know, any separation you're experiencing is an illusion Even the separation you're trying to create is also an illusion, and that's why things feel so bad. That's why you're feeling overwhelmed, because the energy is misaligned. And if you opened your heart more, if you, um, connected with your twin soul more, that none of that is going to take away. And I'm also getting that this is a This is a wounding for the masculine, and it's a pattern that the masculine has seen, which is that when they put their energy into a feminine, sometimes that feminine does pull them away from the things they need to be doing. And that's happened to this masculine in the past. Um, that does not have to be the case. It's a pattern that they've experienced before, but it's not the same because this is your feminine this time. So she is not trying to take from you, she's actually trying to give to you. And when she gives to you, you're going to be able to handle all of this in a much deeper way, and it's not going to feel so overwhelming. So it's like, um, it's really this false belief that the masculine is holding and carrying right now, and he needs to release that and um, you know, share, share the load energetically with whatever he's dealing with. That doesn't mean it's going to change in the physical, but it means energetically he's going to be able to, um, just draw more from his union, and it's just going to give him a greater capacity to handle whatever he's going through. On the feminine side, we have The Heart of the Matter. There's more going on than meets the eye. Recognize what this is all about. Um, definitely an important message for the feminine right now because, uh, you know, this feminine, she's really looking at the 3D a bit too much. She's a little too focused on her masculine and what her masculine's up to. And it's really important to divest your energy from that person and focus inward and also focus on your relationship with your higher power. As you do that and as you make that shift, the masculine will be freed up in energy to actually come toward you. Because right now, the energy of trying to get to him or trying to get a response from him is repelling him because it's a needy energy, it's a clingy energy, and it's making him feel like, okay, if I even give anything to— if I, if I start giving my energy to this, it's just gonna drain me. Um, so I can't give my energy to that because, uh, I have all this other stuff on my plate right now in this Knight of Wands energy. So we also have the second card, I Love You. These are very important words is the message, and I think this is a message from the masculine, um, just to say that you are not being rejected, you are not being abandoned. This is this is an opportunity to heal some of the, some of the 3D stuff that's coming up in this situation. All right, so we are going to wrap there. We're going to go on to the semi-personal reading, um, and we will talk about the hidden aspects of the situation. We'll go behind the scenes a bit more, what each person wants from each other, um, and then we'll talk about the block and, um, a couple things about the blocks and then how to heal them. So if you're interested, go to cardreadingqueen.com/june 2020 readings. Thank you so much for watching this video. Hope you have a beautiful and blessed day.