In this video Monica Grace (cartomancqueen.com) addresses a common question among people who believe they have a twin‑soul connection: if the two souls are identical and share love on a higher (5D) level, why does one partner often seem less interested in the physical (3D) world? She explains that the apparent mismatch is a reflection of each person’s unresolved wounding versus healed areas. The twin‑soul pair simultaneously attracts and repels each other; attraction comes from healed aspects of the self, while repulsion signals wounds that need inner work. Monica argues that perceiving a hierarchy—seeing one’s love as “more” than the other’s—is a distorted masculine view that blocks the flow of love. She illustrates the concept with everyday scenarios (ex‑partners, blocked contacts, friends‑with‑benefits dynamics) and stresses that all expressions of love (romantic, compassionate, friendly) are energetically equal. The key to resolution is to release limiting labels ("twin soul," "just friends," "blocked") and to recognize love as a shared energetic current. By dropping these labels, the connection can flow more freely, allowing the relationship to evolve in unexpected ways. Monica concludes by inviting viewers to read her book, Your Twin Soul Journey, for deeper insight into the mirroring process.
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Hey there, sovereign! Monica Grace from cartomancqueen.com here. Today's topic is why your twin soul doesn't mirror back your interest level in the 3D or the physical reality. I thought this would be a fun topic for today because I see this a lot regarding twin soul mirroring. The question is really, if my twin soul is the same as me and if I am in love with them, then why are they not also in love with me? So this is a great question, and I think this is a thread of something that is a larger question, which is how does twin soul mirroring actually work? And also, why does the twin soul mirror look so different in the 3D if the energies that the two people are experiencing is the same? I'm going to do a separate video on that topic, but for now I want to address this, um, specific thread of it, which is about why the interest level is often different in the 3D if these two souls are connected and if they know this love exists on the 5D. If you are experiencing that your twin soul is not mirroring back to you the way you feel in the 3D, here's what's going on. When What you're actually experiencing is the wounding that you feel like you love this person more, in quotes, more than they love you. In other words, you are thinking about them more, you are pursuing them more, you are reaching out to them more. And you might be wondering, well, if this is how I'm feeling, why are they not reaching out and pursuing me at the same level that I am with them. So what's happening is that even though the two people in this connection, they know that this love is real, they know that the connection is real, the actual desire for a romantic relationship with this person is going to ebb and flow. That's because regardless of how attracted they are to you, they are also repelled by you in many ways. And for you, it's actually the same. You are also repelled by them in many ways, and you are attracted to them in many other ways. In the 3D, this can create a lack of desire for communication. It can create a lack of desire for a deeper connection. It can create a lack of desire for a romantic relationship. It can even create a lack of desire for a friendship of any sort or a connection of any sort. All of this makes perfect sense because again, the thing— the areas where you're repelling each other is your wounding that you both need to clear. And then the areas where you're attracting each other is the healed areas and the connection and the place that you guys are being true to yourselves and understanding the truth of your soul and the truth of your heart, which is that the two of you love each other. So if you are experiencing this, your twin soul is trying to show you something about your wounding. Think about it, it's the only thing that makes sense because this is an area where the two of you are in conflict. In other words, you are repelling each other in this area because you want different things, and the only reason that that would be the case is because you have healing work to do there. So there's some sort of wounding that's there that's causing you to want these different things in the 3D reality. So what you are experiencing with this is a distorted masculine view of the world, which is rooted in hierarchy. In spiritual truth, there is no more, there is no less. Those things don't exist. So if you feel like you— your feelings for this person are more than their feelings for you, even in the 3D, then it's because you are creating a hierarchy where there is no hierarchy. So here are some examples of how this might show up. You could be experiencing this with an ex or a past relationship where you're still in love with them and they are texting you back either rarely or never. They, they could have even blocked you on social media or blocked your phone number. Or it could be that they do text you back, but they don't actually make an effort to reach out. They they only text you back when you have reached out to them and are, you know, basically asking them a question or something where it would be quite rude for them not to respond. It can also show up if you want a romantic relationship with your twin, but they would just prefer like a friendship or something more casual, maybe like a friends with benefits type of situation. It can show up if you want to date your twin or if you want to build a deeper friendship with your twin and and they are trying to relegate you to either a no-contact situation or like an acquaintance situation. These are just a few examples. You may have a completely different experience that this situation also still applies to. So what I want to offer you in this video is the truth of what's going on. So in spiritual truth, you may feel like you're in love with that person, and so let's say you're texting them and trying to get a response from them. On their end, they may feel nothing in the 3D. They may be like, "Ugh, this person's annoying. Like, why did I just get another text from them?" But the reason they're responding is because they have some level of love and compassion for you in the moment that they respond. The same could be said about them blocking you. It's It's literally the same thing whether they're texting you back or whether they're blocking you. On some level, they have that love and compassion for you, and so they are taking action, or they're, they're giving you a response to, um, what you are trying to bring to their attention. The same is true with the friendship, uh, you know, maybe they don't want a relationship with you on the 3D and you have to accept that. But there is some love there and there is some compassion there for you because they still want to be connected with you through a friendship. What you need to understand in all these scenarios is that your love, just because it's, um, of romantic nature, is not any larger or more than their love, which may just be compassion for you in a moment in responding to your text. Those two loves are actually the same exact thing energetically. Love is love is love. Love is equal. All, all types of love are equal. So what's needed here for the healing is just being able to release those labels. You don't need to label your relationship as, um, you know, I'm in love with this person and this person just wants to be friends. Those are just labels that you're placing on the love that you actually share between the two of you. And this is true regardless of what those labels are. So those labels could be in love and friendship. They could be in love and blocked and completely out of the person's life. They could be in love and barely ever text back. None of the actual scenario matters. What matters is that the love exists between the two of you and you understand this love on an energetic level. So the minute that you're able to drop the labels and even drop this label of twin soul— like, who— it doesn't matter if this person is your twin soul or not. The twin soul label is really just there to help you explain and explore the connection with this person. The minute you're able to drop these labels, it frees up a lot of energy and gunk in the connection. You are free to love them in whatever way you want to and however you want to experience love. They're free to love you back in however they want to experience love with you. And so what happens then is the love is flowing back and forth much more freely, and it has a chance to transform into different labels. You guys are able to connect energetically, and that can help the relationship grow and flourish in unexpected ways. So if you are experiencing this in your connection, try to remember that whatever love you're receiving from your twin soul, that is for you. It's all still love. Have appreciation and gratitude for it, and then it's able to grow into something more. If you're constantly looking at how their love for you isn't enough, that's still just coming from a place of hierarchy and distorted masculine. I hope this video was helpful to you. If you're interested in learning more about twin souls or about how to interpret some of what's going on in the twin soul mirroring process, make sure you check out my book, Your Twin Soul Journey. You can go to cartagreenqueen.com/twinsouljourney with no spaces. In the book, I talk a lot about what's really going on with this mirroring process and why it's so confusing to us when we try to look at it on the 3D. In truth, your twin soul is your perfect mirror, and they are always showing you, uh, either a wounding or a healing based on where you guys are attracting and repelling each other. It's always the case. It's not that there's something broken in the twin soul relationship. It's also not that they need to heal and you don't. In every case, it's that they are showing you, uh, a place where the two of you are still wounded, and they are also showing you the places where you have healed your separation. Thank you so much for watching this video. Have a beautiful and blessed day.
