Simon Sinek argues that work-life balance problems stem from feeling unsafe at work, not personal failure. Real leadership means creating psychological safety: trusting employees to try things, protecting them when they fail, and letting them learn.
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We're social animals, and our very survival, as much as our success and our happiness, depends on our ability to work with others, to trust and to cooperate. We want to feel valued and valuable in the tribes and the groups in which we live, in which we work. And when we feel safe, we are calm, we are happy, and we are at our best. The concept of work life balance has nothing to do with how much yoga we do. What work life balance means is, I feel safe at home, but I don't feel safe at work. That's the imbalance. And so when anyone complains I have a work life imbalance, what that usually tells me is that there's a leadership problem in the company they work. Every single one of us has the ability to be the leader. We wish we had to look after the person to the left of us and look after the person to the right of us. That's what leadership is. It has nothing to do with rank. It's a choice, it's a responsibility. What we want is that our leaders trust us and allow us to get our work done. And if something goes wrong, they'll be there and they'll watch our backs. That's what we need. That's the relationship. We don't want our leaders to do everything for us. We want our leaders to trust that we can do things, and if we fail, let us try again. This is how we learn and this is how we grow.
