Simon Sinek argues that leaders create safety by offering trust and sacrifice first, which builds reciprocity and cooperation. Without that environment, people default to self-protection and organizations suffer. He contrasts military and business cultures to show how environment, not just character, drives organizational behavior.
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In the military, they give medals to people who are willing to sacrifice themselves so that others may gain. In business, we like to give bonuses to people who are willing to sacrifice others so that we may gain. So I want to know where people like Johnny Bravo come from. How come we don't get to work with people like Johnny Bravo, People who would sacrifice themselves for us? How come we don't get that? My initial conclusion was they're just better people. And that's why they're drawn to the military, because of the sense of service. But the more I started to learn, the more I realized that it's not the people, it's the environment. Get the environment right, and every single one of us can work in organizations filled with people like Johnny Bravo. We are social animals, and we respond to the environments we're in. If you take good people and put them in a bad environment, they're capable of bad things. And if you take bad people, people that society has already given up on, and you put them in a good environment, they're capable of remarkable things. And so we evolved into these social animals. Where we lived in tribes and we lived amongst people around whom we felt safe. And when we felt like we were in a circle of safety. The natural human inclination is to come together, combine our talents, seize the opportunities and face the danger. When we do not trust each other, however, we work against each other to protect ourselves. These are natural human responses. So think about it. There are inherent benefits to social living. What it means is that I can fall asleep at night and trust that someone else will watch for danger. If I don't trust the people that I'm around, I can't fall asleep at night. Bad system. It's exactly the same at work. When we trust people we're with, we feel that we can turn our backs and work will get done. If we don't trust them, we have to double check everything or concern ourselves that things aren't happening. When we are willing to sacrifice for our people, our people will sacrifice for us. When we're willing to give first to our people, our people will give us their blood and sweat and tears. To see that our visions come to life. But it's the leader must take that risk first. If we do not extend that trust, if we're not willing to extend that risk or sacrifice first, then what we do is we create an environment in which everybody protects themselves. And protects themselves from each other. And self interest thrives. And in short order, organization suffers. We have a responsibility to the people whose faces we recognize. And whose names we know. We have a responsibility to look after the people around us in our organizations and make them feel safe, to offer them a circle of safety so that they will work at their best because they want to feel valued and valuable. And if we were to ask that person who watched your back for you, who did something nice for you, why did you do it? They would say, because you would have done it for them. Thank you very much.
