Russ Lowry says don't air your relationship problems to everyone. Your parents, siblings, and friends will remember what you said long after you've moved past it. Keep complaints about your partner between you and one trusted person.
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Today we give a little more relationship advice. We talked about this before. We're going to call this keeping your cards close to the vest. So whenever you're having issues with your spouse or your other boyfriend, girlfriend, whatever, it's not always best to tell everybody your problems. You know, you want a close confidant. But even then you have to be careful because what you tell somebody about your problems, you might forgive that person and not think any more about it. Hey, we over, you know, we're over that. The other people aren't going to forget that. So telling all your business to people constantly, they don't forget it and they might use it later down the road. They might not be able to forgive your spouse when you did. So you really need to be careful. There's something really important or really bad, that's one thing. And even then, Joe Temper, who you put detail that to. But telling a group of people about your situation, they're all going to remember that they're not going to forget it. They're probably not going to forgive like you would, especially like mom and dads. You know, we have a different level of relationship and no one wants to see their children hurt. So keep your cards close to the vest on issues with your spouses until you absolutely don't have to. Or like I said, it's a big, big, big issues. But the fighting over money, fighting over this and that, those are things you probably want to just keep in the family. Like they say in the Godfather and Don Corian tells Sonny that, you know, don't talk about family business, that helps everyone get along a lot better because again, parents, siblings, best friends, don't forget and don't forgive as easy as you can.