Raele AltanoWell With raele · Founder | 2x Certified Communication Coach | Content Creator

💬 HOW TO SAY: “Who Do You Think I Am?” #wellwithraele #communication #conflict #standupforyourself

14 Aug 2025 · 1 min

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This content was created by Raele Altano. This content was uploaded by Raele Altano. This is a YouTube video titled "💬 HOW TO SAY: “Who Do You Think I Am?” #wellwithraele #communication #conflict #standupforyourself" (created 2025-08-14T16:43:39Z). The excerpt is a single-speaker coaching segment in which a communication coach offers sample responses for addressing someone speaking disrespectfully—presenting an elevated/mature option, a diplomatic request to reconsider tone, and a direct no-nonsense response—along with advice to remain calm (e.g., visualizing a cold towel) and a sign-off identifying the speaker as a communication coach ("well with Rael").

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Here's how to say who the do you think I am talking to me that way in an elevated, mature way? Look, while your feelings are valid, this attitude is not. Can we start over? I'd really reconsider your approach and tone before continuing. And finally, the most direct no BS option. The way you're speaking to me is inappropriate and we're going to have to stop here until you're ready to speak more calmly and more respectfully. Remember to keep calm, as difficult as it might be because you getting fired up while calling them out on being fired up is only going to make you seem hypocritical. Please. Plus, it could give them ammunition to turn it on you instead of being held accountable for their initial inappropriate behavior. Visualize a cold towel on the back of your neck if you feel yourself getting heated. Visuals are so good at tricking the mind in situations like this, by the way. And remember that being calm but direct is your superpower. I'm well with Rael, your communication coach, and as always, I hope this was helpful.