Raele AltanoWell With raele · Founder | 2x Certified Communication Coach | Content Creator

What to Say When: Someone Says “Everyone Agrees With Me” #wellwithraele #communication #conflct

8 Sept 2025 · 1 min

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A short coaching clip by communication coach Raele Altano advising listeners how to respond when someone claims "everyone agrees with me"—an isolating/manipulative tactic. She provides three concrete reply examples: (1) "While I'm happy you feel supported, this is between us, not them." (2) "Frankly, I'm not interested in what others think right now." (3) "Well unfortunately they're only getting one side of the story so until they can get both sides their opinion doesn't hold much weight." She also instructs delivering these lines in a cool, calm, collected tone and recommends visualizing a cold towel on the back of the neck to stay grounded. Video metadata: uploaded by Raele Altano; title 'What to Say When: Someone Says “Everyone Agrees With Me”'; published 2025-09-08 (last edited 2026-01-21).

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What to say when someone says I've told everyone about this and they're all on my side or I've told people about this and everyone agrees with me most of the time. This is meant to isolate you and make you question yourself. So here are three statements you can respond with While I'm happy you feel supported, this is between us, not them. Frankly, I'm not interested in what others think right now. Well unfortunately they're only getting one side of the story so until they can get both sides their opinion doesn't hold much weight. These responses help you not get swayed by the potential influence of others. They let the other person know that you're not going to be impacted by this fake isolation and help keep the focus on the issue itself. As always, deliver it with a cool, calm, collected tone and visualize that cold towel on the back of your neck if you feel yourself getting all fired up and well with Rael, your communication coach and I'm always in your corner.