Ramit Sethi tells multimillionaires they're overthinking small purchases and forgetting how to actually spend money. The real problem: couples get stuck in decision friction instead of prioritizing what makes them happy.
My greatest fear is that we're not going to spend any money now because he feels like we don't have the double income. And by the time we can spend money when we're older, I won't want to travel as much. And we're saving for Tom to live to 100 is what we're doing.
We can get in the psychological aspect, but I worry about the future. Like, will I have enough? Will I be able to do this? What do you think we've been doing for the last two hours, Tony? I know. I know, and I. And it helps.
You're figuring.
It out together versus, like, I'm saying this and you're saying that, and. And then we all.
Walk away like. And, like, why? You're multimillionaires. Why the fuck are we arguing over $10,000? It makes no sense. Let's argue about I want to go to this restaurant and you want to go to that. Okay, fine, we'll do them both. But we're going to do one on.
Tuesday and one on Thursday.
That's a cool argument. Yeah, right. We don't actually have to argue anymore. We won.
