Ramit Sethi argues that renting is not inherently throwing money away and that buying only makes financial sense in some markets. He warns of "phantom" homeownership costs (about 40–50% extra beyond mortgage for taxes, maintenance, insurance), recommends conventional buying practices (ideally 20% down, at least 10% saved before buying, a 30-year fixed loan), and advises staying in a home at least 10 years. He emphasizes that mortgage tax deductions rarely fully offset costs, that many reasons to buy are non-financial (stability for family), and that thorough research (e.g., New York Times rent vs. buy calculator) is essential before purchasing.
Questions this video answers
About 40–50% of the mortgage to cover taxes, maintenance, insurance, and other costs.
20% down is ideal.
If you don't have 10% to put down, he says to forget it (save at least 10%).
A 30-year fixed loan.
At least 10 years.
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Anyone who tells you that you're throwing your money away by renting does not understand how it works, alright? In certain parts of the country it makes perfect sense to buy because the cost of renting is virtually the same as buying. You might as well just buy so you can build up equity. Yet here's the problem with American the American sense of home ownership is that everyone should have a house, alright? So I have friends that graduate from College at age 21 and the first thing you want to do is buy a house without a 401k. Give me a break, alright? Especially in areas like New York, San Francisco, some of these areas, it actually financially does not make sense to buy. Here's why, and listen closely. A lot of people think, oh, my rent is $1,000 so I can afford $1,000 for my mortgage. Wrong. You have to add about 40 to 50% of your mortgage to account for all the phantom costs when it comes to buying a house. That would include taxes, maintenance, insurance, all kinds of stuff that you do not pay when you're renting. So people get really mad when you tell them this. Really mad. Because what happens is they like to, you know, in America we like to kind of look down on renters and say, well, I bought a house. Well, guess what? A lot of people who buy a house made a very poor decision. Here's my take on real estate. I'm ultra conservative on it. If you want to do it, do it the standard way, as close as possible to 20% down. If you don't have 10% that you can put down, forget it. Set up a savings goal and save at least 10%. 20% down is ideal. A 30 year fixed loan, okay? And realize that you have to stay in this thing for at least 10 years. Too many stupid people buy cars and buy houses and then they flip them and they lose all their savings. This is the same thing that's true of buying a cell phone. If you buy a cell phone, I recommend you buy the best cell phone you can. I have an iPhone, alright? And I'm going to keep this thing for five years, four years, as long as possible. I did the same thing with my last phone. I kept it for four years until it literally had no buttons, would not work and I had to use a pencil to type on it, okay? But that's the way you amortize your savings. I think anytime you buy something big, I like to buy the best, but I like to hold it for as long as possible. You got to do that to make your savings, doesn't the mortgage deduction help mitigate? Yes, but yes. So a lot of people say, well, there's a tax write off. Here's the deal. You don't spend a dollar to save 30 cents. Your tax deduction tends to be less than the amount you actually will pay. Okay. There are other reasons to buy a house. There are great reasons. They're usually not financial. They're usually about a stable place to raise a family. You want to think about this stuff. And frankly, if you haven't gone to, like the New York Times rent versus Buy calculator. If you do not know in and out about buying a house, like every term, every, every definition, if you haven't spent a year researching it, then you're not ready. Why would you buy it, the largest purchase of your life, without researching it and becoming an expert.
