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They Spend 108% of Their Income

17 Sept 2026 · 1 min

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In this YouTube segment, financial coach Ramit Sethi confronts Grace about her habit of spending 108% of her monthly income, highlighting the inevitable path to financial ruin if the pattern continues. He points out that Grace and her partner Chris have only a single month’s worth of savings, yet they avoid direct, honest conversations about money, especially as they consider starting a family. Grace admits she knows the severity of the 108% figure but struggles to take decisive action, often avoiding conflict. Ramit repeatedly urges a “red alert”—a decisive, transparent discussion and immediate spending halt—to prevent further erosion of their financial stability.

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You spend more than you make every single month. It is simply a matter of time until you are broke. What did you think the severity of the situation was? I knew it was bad. Oh, I think so. Then did you then accordingly say to Grace, we have to change everything, we have to light a fire, red alert, we have to stop everything we're doing?
No.
I feel like that's kind of a pattern here. And Grace, did you understand what 108% meant?
I know what it meant. But did not know how to take action.
But you didn't say to Chris, red alert, we're not doing this anymore. We're not going to spend this. Here's what's going to happen.
I think I tried, but maybe not hard enough or not as intense because I avoid conflict or disagreement.
You two are skating on very thin ice. You're close to losing a lot. You have one month's worth of savings here, but that still has not made you have honest conversations about money. You are still tiptoeing around each other and you're married and talking about starting a family.
Yeah.