You have an emotional home, a default feeling you return to that shapes who you pick and what you accept. You chase partners and situations that trigger familiar feelings, even painful ones, keeping you stuck. You can change it by building new emotional experiences.
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We all have what I call an emotional home, and you better know what yours is because it's controlling your whole life. An emotional home is people use that event to go back to their core home, emotional home, the emotions they're most used to. If your emotional home is uncomfortable but it's what you're used to, you'll seek it out in a partner. It won't be your partner. You'll find a way to trigger your partner to trigger your home. You'll think it's your partner, and then you'll leave that partner, you'll get another partner, you'll have the same problem again in the future because it's your home that you're going back to. Meaning whatever happens, whether it's good emotions or negative emotions, you find your way to get back to those places. So this is the ultimate accelerator. This is the ultimate brake on your progress. But you do have the ability to change your home, or at least enhance it. You can change it completely, but you don't have to. Much of your emotional home is really beautiful. You just need some additions put on there that you're going to use now as a primary set of Promotions.