11 Places To Meet High-Quality Men (Organically)

In this video, I'm going to be giving you the top 11 places where you can meet high-quality men and do so organically. This is dating and relationship coach Sami Wunder, and I specialize in helping high-achieving, professional, career-driven women meet and marry the man of their dreams and have and create the most amazing relationship with him. So here's the thing. Every week, I get requests from my ELEVATE clients asking me, Sami, you know, I'm doing all this amazing work and learning about boundaries and Feminine Energy, but I feel like I'm just not meeting the right person for me. And this is why I wanted to create this video and give you the top 11 places where I believe you can meet high-quality men. Now, before we give you these places, I do want to make 2 caveats. The first caveat is that it is really important that we are not just looking to meet men organically, but that we are keeping the online dating engine on. In other words, if you are looking to get fast results, if you are looking to meet more men, and if you are in your late 30s and early 40s, and you are looking to collapse your dating timeline and meet the right person fast, then only relying on organic meeting could delay process. Therefore, even though I'm going to be giving you the organic ways of meeting high-quality men in this video, remember, I'm still all about women doing online dating as well. That's the caveat or the qualification number 1. The caveat number 2 that I want to say here is that it's really important that you are still committed to doing the inner work. A lot of the times, women think it's just about meeting the right person and then everything will work out. Well, everything will only work out when you are a woman who is in ready position to receive her Soulmate, when you are a woman who has done the inner work, who has clarity around what she's looking for in a man, and who has clarity around how to show up in her embodied Feminine Energy. I do have a lot of videos on my YouTube channel around how to embody your Feminine Energy, and you can click the link in the video to go check out one of these videos after this video. But yes, it is really important to emphasize that it's not just about meeting the right man, because you could meet the right man tomorrow, but if you haven't done the inner work, then the possibility and the probability of sustaining that connection and creating a beautiful, forever-lasting commitment from it gets reduced. So remember, do the inner work. And for those of you who will be curious after this video around what I offer in terms of doing your inner work, I will be very happy to tell you about my 6-month live group coaching program, ELEVATE, at the end of this video. So make sure you stay right to the end of this video. All right, so let's start with the top 11 places to meet high-quality men. Now, the first place is the gym. Believe it or not, if you are a woman who likes to be fit and healthy, and you would like your partner to share a similar value, bases yourself, then hitting the gym is a really good idea, not just for your health and your body, but also for your love life. Because a lot of the high achievers, leaders, successful, ambitious men, they tend to look well after their own health. And so you will find them early in the morning before they hit their work in the gym, or late in the evening after work hitting the gym. So this is a great place to make eye contact with high-quality men, and get those conversations started. Now, top place number 2 to meet high-quality men is in the lobbies of reputed hotels, 5-star hotels. I tend to travel a lot to meet my clients, so I offer these VIP Intensive Days. Whenever I'm traveling the world, I stay in nice hotels, and I am always looking at these men who are hanging out in these hotels, and what a perfect fit they would be for my So instead of going to, like, you know, the local cafe, maybe it's a nice idea every once in a while to spend, you know, an evening, or at least to drink, have a drink in the lobby of a nice restaurant or a nice fancy 5-star hotel, because that's where all these people are hanging out, the kind of men you do want. Now, place number 3 to meet high-quality men is really where high-net-worth, highly educated men are hanging out. out. An example is that a few of my ELEVATE Singles Group clients actually hung out at the Royal Ascot races in England this summer. The girls were dressed up in their pretty hats, and so that's a great place to hang out, to be visible to high-quality men. My husband Chris and I, we were hanging out to see the Grand Prix in Monaco this year on a yacht, and there were all these successful bankers, and, you know, really nice men who were hanging out with us on the yacht. So again, I thought of all my Single Elevate clients, and I was like, wow, these are the kind of places my clients, my high-achieving, career-driven clients, should be hanging out on in order to increase the chances of meeting the right person and doing so quickly. Now, top place number 4 is dance classes. Now, it doesn't matter what dance class it is. It could be Tango, it could be Salsa, it could be Freestyle. The idea is, you love to move your your body, you love to dance, and perhaps it would be a good idea to meet a man who also loves doing the same. So just going to these dance classes without attachment to outcome— it is possible that a lot of empowered masculine men will sometimes not be the ones at these dance classes, but even then, there can be more artistic type of men, if you like artistic type of men, at these classes. You know, who knows? Like, I think there's always a chance to meet somebody really interesting, and at the same time, you're moving your body, so it's not like your time is getting wasted, and you're learning a new skill, you're learning a new dance. So this is a great place to get out of the house, to be seen, to meet new people, and yeah, to have a fun, different, new experience. Now, number 5, and this is a really good one, is whiskey tasting and wine tasting meetups. So I've gone with my husband for a few whiskey and wine tasting meetups, and there's so many interesting people there that you can talk to, so many interesting men. I know that a lot of our friends also are interested in, you know, trying different types of wines, different types of whiskeys. And this is just so fun. Like, this is a really great organic way to meet nice, high-quality men. Now, number 6 is bike tours and hike tours, and anything to do with sports clubs and everything sports. Most men, the kind of men you like, and the kind of men my Elevate clients like, are sporty, and they're looking after their health. Bike tours and hike tours and coming together to practice the same sport is always a great bonding exercise. And you will meet the right kind of person in these places. Even busy leaders, highly ambitious, successful men, you know, they tend to hang out at these places. So this is a great place for you to hang out as a single woman. Now, the next on my list is number 7. Now, this is not about a place to meet up, but it is giving you an alternative to online dating. And this is all about asking your friends for referrals. So many times, because I work with a lot of high-net-worth women and high-net-worth individuals, so many times what I've noticed is that these women, because they have such amazing education and intelligence and class and legacy behind them, these women are often very oriented towards— very well-oriented towards finding a match for themselves within their network. And so often, when my clients will come to me and I'm helping them meet and marry the man of their dreams, I'm going to ask them to really dig into their referrals and to ask their close friends, to ask their family, to let them know, I am ready for love, and I am so ready to meet my person. If you see somebody who would be a good fit for me, would you be so kind to introduce us? So that's another alternative to meeting organically, and in my clients' world, it works really, really well. Now, number 8 is going to attend conferences in male-dominated industries. Now, I know this is true for my entrepreneurial clients. So a lot of my clients who tend to be coaches or entrepreneurs themselves, you know, they— I advise them to attend technology conferences, which usually tend to be very male-dominated, finance conferences, which tend to be male-dominated. And it is amazing to watch, you know, how much of a blast they have. They have such a good time meeting, you know, great guys there on these conferences. The men do everything for them, and they can just lean back, relax, be a diva queen, and receive. So if you can put yourself in these places, maybe you have a friend who is going to such a conference, maybe you have a girlfriend or even a guy friend, you know, who's going through such conferences, and maybe he can take them take you with him. So going to these male-dominated conferences is a great idea to meet high-quality men with quality jobs, intelligence, ambition. So just putting yourself as a woman, just putting yourself in the visible position is what we're looking for. Okay, now number 9 is airport lounges. I mean, business lounges, first-class lounges, senator lounges. This is where all the leaders, all the busy, ambitious people are hanging out. This is where I also hang out, and this is where I just notice, like, you know, I'm a happily married woman, so I don't need to, you know, attract a man to me. But even then, you know, I have men talking to me, I have men reaching out to me, you know, I have men starting conversations with me, making eye contact with me during these, you know, visits in airport business class and first class lounges. So this is also something I recommend to Number 10 is during travel. So, business and first-class travel, like, keep your eyes open. There is opportunity there. Just look left, look right, see who's sitting next to you. You know, on my flight back from Puerto Rico recently, there was a really wonderful, famous musician sitting next to me, and he actually started the conversation with me, and we talked all night about our kids and our families. And of course, this is different for single women, You know, I'm married, but you never know where opportunity is. And I think the message here is to always keep your eyes open because the people are all around you. The right person can be all around you. And last but not the least, you can invite your friends and their friends to your own home and throw a party like a mixer. And this is how you can also get to know people in your network and get to do that organically. This is a beautiful idea where, as a single woman, if you have other high-achieving women, other women who are your friends, who are at the same level of intelligence, emotional maturity, they probably have friends who are male and who are single and who would be a great fit for you. This is a great way to throw— when you throw a party or a mixer, you can bring these people together and get to know great men. So those are my top 11 places where you can meet high-quality men. And if this was helpful for you, gave you some exciting ideas that you're ready to go out there and implement, give the video a like, leave me a comment, let me know which your favorite idea was. And of course, if you would like my support and the support of my team inside ELEVATE, I would love to welcome you inside my 6-month group coaching program. Inside ELEVATE, we help single career women like you learn the skills to attracting lasting love in their lives. We help you understand how to embody your beautiful feminine energy, get clarity on the kind of man you want to attract in your life, and give you the skills, both energetically— so helping you heal your heart from past hurt— and from past resentment towards men, as well as giving you the strategy that is needed to date in a high-quality way and attract your Soulmate within the next 12 months. There are 3 important elements inside ELEVATE. It's 6 months long, and you get 1 weekly group coaching call every weekend. It works beautifully for the busy woman who's really busy during the week. Once a week, every weekend, you have a live coaching call, either with me or one of my trained coaches. And then the second element is the FB group support. So in between the calls, you can ask us questions, and my team and myself, we hang out on the Facebook group to support you. And number 3 is the 7-module curriculum, where we take you through all of this knowledge and skills and give you the resources, tools, and tips and strategies so that you can collapse the timeline in which you get results and attract your empowered dream masculine man. If you would like to work with me and my team inside ELEVATE, just click on the link in the video description below, and you can either reserve your spot, or if you have questions about the program, just write us to support@samiwunder.com. I am so excited to see you succeed at love. My mission on this planet is to help women realize that they can be intelligent, smart, beautiful, and they can still have amazing love in their lives. And if I can be that coach and guide for you to help you realize this beautiful dream of yours to have a family, to attract a wonderful relationship, then I would love to hear from you. Take care, and until next time!