In this YouTube livestream, relationship coach Sami Wunder addresses women (whom she calls “Divas”) and outlines three common, superficial excuses men give when they are not ready to propose. The first excuse is that the man needs to focus on his career and finances; Wunder argues that a proposal is about love, not money, and that using finances as a reason signals a lack of commitment. The second excuse is the claim that the couple needs more time together to ensure long‑term compatibility; she calls this an offensive “test‑drive” that reveals uncertainty about the relationship. The third excuse is the “What’s the rush?” line, where a man downplays the woman’s desire for clarity, family, and a future together, again indicating avoidance of commitment. Throughout, Wunder emphasizes that women deserve clarity, a ring, and a clear path to marriage, urging them to recognize these red flags. The video concludes with a promotional call‑to‑action, inviting viewers to book a coaching session at samiwunder.com/contact, and includes personal touches such as family presence and a Beyoncé quote to reinforce empowerment.
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Hey Divas! Here are 3 silly excuses men will give when they are not ready to propose. Silly excuse #1: I need to work on my career and finances before I can decide about the proposal. This makes no sense, because a proposal is about openly professing to the world that you love this woman and she's going to be your wife. So a proposal is about love. A proposal is not about money or where in your career My husband proposed to me when both of us were just in the beginning of our careers, and today we run a multi-7-figure empire together, because it's not about the money, it's about love! And a man refusing to propose because of money reasons is really not sure about his level of commitment and investment in you. So don't buy into this silly excuse. Now, silly excuse number 2 that a man will give when he's not ready to propose: I just want us to spend a little more time together. time together to make sure we really have it in us in order to be a couple in the long run. Now, this is so offensive, because what you're literally telling your girlfriend is that, we're in a relationship right now, but I'm not really sure about us, and I'm not really sure about you, and I'm not really sure if we have it in us to be a couple in the long run. So I find this very offensive, because you're literally test-driving the woman, and you're testing if she is worthy of being called a And silly and final excuse number 3 that men will give when they're not sure about proposing to you is that they will tell you, what's the rush? What's the rush, babe? We're so good together. And the rush is that you want to have babies, you want to move on, you want to have clarity that, you know, this is your person, and that he's not going to be leaving you hanging around forever without clarity. So you want that, you want that family, you want that love, and so you deserve to have that clarity. So ladies, Divas, remember, when a man is serious about you, he is going to be thinking about how to take the next step, and how to actually tell the whole wide world that he loves you, and you're going to be the woman to be his wife. And when he's not doing that, you want to stand up, And pay attention. And of course, we are the absolute experts at helping women get the ring. So reach out to us and book a call with us at samiwunder.com/contact, and we will be very happy to guide you on how to get the ring, how to get that proposal. So as you see on this livestream, my whole family has showed up. So I'm gonna go off, but I love you guys. And remember, you are worthy of the ring. You are worthy of the Full meal. You don't have to stick around being a girlfriend forever. You get to be wife, and you deserve it, and you're not asking for too much. As Beyoncé says, if you like it, put a ring on it. And that's the Sami Wunder philosophy as well. Lots of love, and I hope you're having a great weekend. Bye!
