5 Signs A Man Is Emotionally ATTRACTED To You 💕

Have you met a man you really like, and now you're wondering, does he like me back? Is there really a chance for this to become something real? Well, this video is going to give you that answer, because it's going to give you complete clarity on whether or not this connection is moving forward. I'm going to be giving you the 5 signs to look out for that a man is feeling emotional attraction for you, an emotional connection, And when you've got this emotional attraction and emotional connection component going on for you in your relationship with this man, you know you're on to something here. You're on the path to something really good. This is dating and relationship coach Sami Wunder. I specialize in helping smart, strong, successful women find and keep amazing love. And make sure you hit the subscribe button straight away so you never miss a video. an amazing piece of content from me that I send out every Friday when it comes to creating amazing romantic relationships. So let's start with the first sign that a man feels emotional attraction for you. The first sign that a man feels emotional attraction for you is that he is not just doing the dirty talk with you, he's not just about getting into your pants, but he actually wants to know you as a person. In other words, he is happy to hear you talk about what you like, what you don't like, what makes you laugh, what makes you cry, what drives you mad, and he is interested in getting to know you as a person. I remember, for example, when I met my husband, Chris, he asked me, so what is your biggest fear? And I said to him, my biggest fear is failing, because I've never failed as a little girl. I always came first in class. I was always topping my class. class. I was always getting the best grades. And so I have internalized the fear of failure, and it feels very threatening to me. And I remember him listening to me so intently and then going, well, then it's high time you failed at something, because failure is as much a part of life as winning. And I thought, hmm, that's such a clever thing to say. But long story short, he was interested. He was interested in knowing me beyond my looks, beyond my body, beyond my appearance. So if a man is If he's showing interest in who you are as a person, over and above your looks, your body, and appearance, and getting into your pants, then you know you are on the right track. Now, sign number 2 that a man feels emotional attraction for you and is feeling an emotional connection with you is when he is not guarded around you. You see, when a man is guarded around you, he's literally building this wall so that you and him do not get vulnerable, do not get emotionally connected. Sometimes it's crazy how emotionally unavailable men can make effort for you. They can call you, they can send you presents, they can text you, they can even sometimes see you on dates, but they are going to be very guarded around you emotionally. Now, when a man does that, he is not emotionally connecting with you, and he's, of course, trying to prevent himself from being vulnerable around you. But the good news is, when a man lets his guard down and lets you see where his struggles are, what his fears are, What's going on in his life, and he's not holding back, that is an incredible sign that the relationship is progressing, that you have something really good going on for you here. Now, sign number 3 that a man is feeling emotional attraction for you and has emotional connection with you. Basically, this looks like being present around you. You see, when somebody likes us and feels that emotional spark and connection with us, they are really interested And into us in the present moment. In other words, their work is not distracting them. They actually want to put the phone away so that they can give you all their attention. They can hear you out. They can be with you because they enjoy your presence. They enjoy being with you. And so you will see that when a man is present around you, when he's not constantly on his phone, not constantly taking calls, not constantly distracted by X and Y and Z, he is into you. He wants to spend that time with you. He wants to make sure it's precious, it's good, and that is once again a great sign that things are moving for both of you, not just for him, but for both of you, in the right direction. Now, sign number 4 that a man feels emotional attraction and emotional connection with you is when he cares about your feelings. Now, so often my clients will tell me that they are dating guys who look Make good money, but somehow that emotional depth is missing in the connection they have with this person. In other words, not only do the conversations remain really superficial, but the woman can also feel like, hmm, you know, I shared with him that today was a hard day at work, and he didn't even seem to have listened to me. Well, when things are going in the right direction, you will not have this experience. When things are going in the right direction, a man will actually really care about your In other words, if you tell him, I am sick, he might say, oh no, should I come down with the duck soup? Or if you tell him you had a hard day at work, he might say, oh no, should I come over and we go for a walk and have some ice cream and cheer you up? In other words, when a man feels emotional attraction for you, he has a keen interest in your emotional states. And of course, I don't just mean your sad, Emotional states, I also mean your happy emotional states. He is excited by what pleases you. He is excited by what makes you happy. If you say, I love going to the museum, he's going to say, wow, then let's do that! Let's do that which makes you happy, because he is interested and connected with you when it comes to your emotional state. So when you have this going on, when you find this with somebody, you know you are both On a great track. Now, sign number 5 that a man is interested in you and feels emotionally connected to you is when he moves the relationship forward. Now, I'm going to combine this with number 1, which is he's not just about the physical, because so often, you know, sign number 5 can sound confusing because women hear me say, you know, when a man is making the effort, wanting to see you on dates, wanting to move the relationship forward, they see that as an ultimate sign of emotional connection. However, it is important to remember, and this is only something that an expert with a decade of experience in the love coaching industry can tell you, which is that it's really important to remember that men will often come for sex really hard. So men will often make an effort for a hot woman just to get her in bed, just to get into her pants. And so it's not uncommon to see that sometimes, you know, men can be guarded, men don't really want a committed relationship, but they are making all this effort and courting They're just courting you so that they can get into your pants. And so when I say a man is moving the relationship forward, when I say a man is courting you, making an effort to see you, I combine this with point number 1, that he's not just interested in the physical aspect of things. In other words, he's not just saying to you all the time, oh my God, when are we going to do that? Now, of course, he's going to say that. But if he's saying that every day, all the time, on all the conversations, on all the texts, then that is a bit of a yellow flag. Because anybody who has emotional maturity and has an emotional connection with you knows that a relationship doesn't just have that physical component, it also has this emotional component. And so a man who is serious about you, a man who's really interested in taking things forward, is going to take the relationship forward, is going to court you, is going to call you, is going to text you, is going to ask you out on dates, and is going to ultimately ask you out for exclusivity, ultimately leading to the commitment and the proposal. And all of this will happen because he's not just interested in you physically, He's also interested in your substance as a human being, as a person, as a girl, as a soul, as somebody beyond your body and your looks, right? And when you have that, then what you have is an emotional foundation in the relationship, an emotional foundation in the connection. And this is what is going to keep the connection growing and deepening, even years after, when the apparently what they call the honeymoon effect is over. Now, did you know that you can actually build emotional attraction in the heart of a great guy and deepen his feelings for you by asking what I call intimacy-fostering questions, especially in early dating? Well, if you didn't know, you're in for luck because I have a free PDF that I am distributing right now, where I'm giving you the top 10 intimacy-fostering questions. I actually ask my clients to ask men in early dating in order to deepen their emotional foundation and emotional connection with men. Now, as I just said, I am giving this PDF away for free. You will find the link in the video description below, but it is actually worth $97. So this is coming from one of my incredible programs, Building Emotional Attraction with High-Quality Men, and you can get an amazing taste of what it looks like to use these incredible tools to actually build emotional attraction with the man you're dating, with the man you like right now, by using these intimacy-fostering questions. So what are you waiting for? Click the link below, download the PDF straight away, and I hope you enjoyed this video. If you did, don't forget to like, leave me a comment— I love hearing from you— and subscribe to my channel. I'll see you next time!