Sami WunderCEO, Dating and Relationship Coach For Ambitious Women / 1200+ client success stories / Mum / Wife

A man who truly likes you does THIS

17 Oct 2025 · 1 min

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In this segment of his YouTube advice monologue, Sami Wunder explains that a man who genuinely wants a deep connection will respect a woman's decision to take sex slowly. He frames the willingness to wait as a major filter in dating: if a man disappears when a sexual boundary is set, it signals that he was only after physical assets rather than a meaningful relationship. Wunder acknowledges that all men (and women) want sex, but emphasizes that the right partner will not be annoyed by a slower pace and will aim for intimacy when both feel ready. The core message is that respecting sexual boundaries is a clear indicator of a man's true intentions.

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And when somebody is looking to have a real connection with you, they are going to be willing to do the work that it takes. And taking it slow on the sex front is not going to deter a man who truly likes you. And this truly is one of the biggest filters in dating. So if a man disappears when you draw the boundary around sex, that's your answer. That's what he wanted. He wanted the assets. He was not looking to build something deeper. Now, let's not hold it against men that they want sex. Of course they want sex. We want sex too, with the right guy, right? But let's say that the right man for you, the one who truly cares about building a real connection, will not be annoyed by the fact that you're taking your time. He will respect that boundary, and he would want that intimacy to happen when it feels good to you as well.